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bouboubee (f)
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i know how funny or awful anyone can find this but its real and i need some substantial opinion,when i say substantial i mean opinion that hold waters.i had a serious problem with my b\f,which was authomatically his fault[he lied to me about something]i had to find out by myself and i could not get hold of myself,so i had to stay on my own for some time.for the fact that i love this guy,he came back and asked me to 4give him which i did not hesitate to do.like two days after we settled i got the worst story from him,he told me he had sex with smone while we were apart.i was heartbrokenbut its hard for me to leave him cus i love him so much.so all i need is to know ur own opinion and how to forgive him,though he promised such will never occur again.  |
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darefestus (m)
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i know how funny or awful anyone can find this but its real and i need some substantial opinion,when i say substantial i mean opinion that hold waters.i had a serious problem with my b\f,which was authomatically his fault[he lied to me about something]i had to find out by myself and i could not get hold of myself,so i had to stay on my own for some time.for the fact that i love this guy,he came back and asked me to 4give him which i did not hesitate to do.like two days after we settled i got the worst story from him,he told me he had sex with smone while we were apart.i was heartbrokenbut its hard for me to leave him cus i love him so much.so all i need is to know ur own opinion and how to forgive him,though he promised such will never occur again. Just listen to yourself,you asked him a question he told you the truth now you are saying rubbish. I i was in his shoes i never would have told you what happened when we were apart,and even if you got to find out i would have bluntly denied,so just forgive him and enjoy your life with him, Come to think of it You are lucky to have a brother that will tell you his secrets many girls out there are looking for this same thing you have. |
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shegirl71 (f)
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Men that hurts but the question is were you guys on a break or something,If you guys were on a break and he slept with someone give him the benefit of doubt that he couldnt handle the break in a matured way,Sometimes people handle things differently and also ask him if u were the one slept with someone hw would he take it,Or simply just to get a reaction frm him tell him you did,now the same way he reacts to you,girl that is the same way you should react in his case now.Hope this helps.
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otokx (m)
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He is going to do it again and again just be ready.
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poshangel
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You are lucky to have a brother that will tell you his secrets many girls out there are looking for this same thing you have.
so because he confessed makes d act right, anyway i am not surprised at ur comment,only few men are true and u obviously are not one of them. @poster, u don't need any advice, u said u can't leave him,so deal with it, make we no put asunder 4 ur perfect union. |
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texazzpete (m)
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i know how funny or awful anyone can find this but its real and i need some substantial opinion,when i say substantial i mean opinion that hold waters.i had a serious problem with my b\f,which was authomatically his fault[he lied to me about something]i had to find out by myself and i could not get hold of myself,so i had to stay on my own for some time.for the fact that i love this guy,he came back and asked me to 4give him which i did not hesitate to do.like two days after we settled i got the worst story from him,he told me he had sex with smone while we were apart.i was heartbrokenbut its hard for me to leave him cus i love him so much.so all i need is to know ur own opinion and how to forgive him,though he promised such will never occur again. Kudos to you. When will women realise that the 'stay apart' and 'deny him sex' trick almost always backfires? Divorce courts are full of women who decided to punish their husbands by denying them sexual gratification for a month. Such women start panicking when the Husband after 2 weeks of begging suddenly stops begging, after finding a more favourable haven in another (smarter) woman's arms. I'm not going to condone his act of cheating on you, but still. . . ,only few men are true and You'd be surprised how many men say the same thing about women. |
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darefestus (m)
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so because he confessed makes d act right, anyway i am not surprised at ur comment,only few men are true and u obviously are not one of them.
@poster, u don't need any advice, u said u can't leave him,so deal with it, make we no put asunder 4 ur perfect union.
You are looking for trouble,y must you include my comments?if you can't help her just forget about it. For your information,i am honest to my girl. |
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poshangel
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i have nothing to say to the poster but i had something to say 2 u,so i said it, now let out all the trouble u can, it wont change what i said
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darefestus (m)
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i have nothing to say to the poster but i had something to say 2 u,so i said it, now let out all the trouble u can, it wont change what i said
Well i was only joking,would never pick up a fight with you, Infact its the other way round,Can we meet?  |
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poshangel
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4 what? i wouldnt want you to cheat on ur girl like boubou's man, because u r honest and all.
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darefestus (m)
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Oh stop it!,don't be such a kid, Just wanted to be a friend nothing more no strings attached.Just PLATONIC
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poshangel
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how sweet but u spoilt it with the 'kid' thing. lets just drop it, no hard feelings.
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texazzpete (m)
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lol darefestus just got pwned!  |
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Hawkeye (m)
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@ poster
If i know ur boyfriend i will tell him to F**K another chic and not tell you.
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Bawss1 (m)
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Men that hurts but the question is were you guys on a break or something,If you guys were on a break and he slept with someone give him the benefit of doubt that he couldnt handle the break in a matured way,
C'mon people what does a break really mean? If its over then its over, lets not decieve ourselves with this "on a break thing" because almost invariably its seen as a license to misbehave! |
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shegirl71 (f)
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C'mon people what does a break really mean? If its over then its over, lets not decieve ourselves with this "on a break thing" because almost invariably its seen as a license to misbehave!
No there are sometimes that a little time off (on a break) could correct some things in a relationship.And some people dnt knw hw to handle that he probably slept wit another girl out of anger to get back at his on break girlfriend. |
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A-40 (m)
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@poster of topic
You sound like someone thats well endowed especially in the chest area i can almost tell from your name am i right or wrong?
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iice (f)
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Hmmmm 
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Bawss1 (m)
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No there are sometimes that a little time off (on a break) could correct some things in a relationship.And some people dnt knw hw to handle that he probably slept wit another girl out of anger to get back at his on break girlfriend.
What is the appropiate way to handle a break? Pretend you are not in relationship?. . .  |
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dyabman (m)
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well, what has happened has happened , because the ur b/f love you thats why he confessed to you , he knew u will never find out.
Good u have forgiven him , why do have to bring this to a public place.
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