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"My dad is impotent." My 18 year old cousin just revealed to me. She got this from a slip by a relative. They are six in the family and she's number three. She left home for same reason and currently stays with me. She gathered that her father suffered a sickness and became impotent after their first born. She asked her mum and the mother broke into tears and didn't say anything. The girl is devastated and I am in a quandary over what to do. This is way beyond anything I have ever handled but my immediate concern is to make her come to terms with the present reality. I need help.
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tpia
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so did someone tell her she has another father, or has she considered the possibility that her parents could have also conceived via artificial insemination?
That relative of hers has an unrestrained mouth sha.
I don't really see how its any of her (the daughter's) business, unless she feels she has a different biological dad. If thats not the case, then let sleeping dogs lie.
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lawry
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so did someone tell her she has another father, or has she considered the possibility that her parents could have also conceived via artificial insemination?
That relative of hers has an unrestrained mouth sha.
I don't really see how its any of her (the daughter's) business, unless she feels she has a different biological dad. If thats not the case, then let sleeping dogs lie
ABi?
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Ruby_Pearl
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Poster. . . .which one is ya business?
The part that the father might not be the biological father? or the part that the daughter is all up in his business?
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Joseph6 (m)
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since she's so in a hurry 2 believe and leave her fada, i'd say she didnt value hiom and they didnt really have a good relationship if not does it matter who's sperm u came from? what matters is the love he has 4 her, 4give me 4 sounding 40
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untainted
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Poster. . . .which one is ya business?
The part that the father might not be the biological father? or the part that the daughter is all up in his business?
Please I need answers on how to make her go back home. We are a closeknit family and I don't want to be the first to open the pandora's box. |
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untainted
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so did someone tell her she has another father, or has she considered the possibility that her parents could have also conceived via artificial insemination?
That relative of hers has an unrestrained mouth sha.
I don't really see how its any of her (the daughter's) business, unless she feels she has a different biological dad. If thats not the case, then let sleeping dogs lie
Her mum refused to answer the artificial insemination part. But growing up as a child, I noticed that the woman had men friend that visited right in her bedroom. Now it makes sense to me, though not my business. How do I get her to go back home; this is where I come in.
ABi?
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untainted
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so did someone tell her she has another father, or has she considered the possibility that her parents could have also conceived via artificial insemination?
That relative of hers has an unrestrained mouth sha.
I don't really see how its any of her (the daughter's) business, unless she feels she has a different biological dad. If thats not the case, then let sleeping dogs lie
ABi?
Her mum refused to answer the artificial insemination part. But growing up as a child, I noticed that the woman had men friend that visited right in her bedroom. Now it makes sense to me, though not my business. How do I get her to go back home; this is where I come in. |
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untainted
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since she's so in a hurry 2 believe and leave her fada, i'D say she didnt value hiom and they didnt really have a good relationship if not does it matter who's sperm u came from? what matters is the love he has 4 her, 4give me 4 sounding 40
You sound alright but the problem is how to make her go back home without publicising the whole issue, I need answers please. Prolly, other family members knew and are quiet about it. |
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untainted
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She is still at my place and I still need answers. House come to my aid ASAP.
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Gsawlah (f)
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if your dad was impotent then how come he produced you? or don't you know that directly or indirectly your acusing your mother of infidelity while you call yourself a B, d, tHINK BEFORE YOU POST!
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kufreabasi (m)
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"My dad is impotent." My 18 year old cousin just revealed to me. She got this from a slip by a relative. They are six in the family and she's number three. She left home for same reason and currently stays with me. She gathered that her father suffered a sickness and became impotent after their first born. She asked her mum and the mother broke into tears and didn't say anything. The girl is devastated and I am in a quandary over what to do. This is way beyond anything I have ever handled but my immediate concern is to make her come to terms with the present reality. I need help.
if he is your so-called father is impotent, then he is not your father.you better go and look for who is your father and stop disgracing someome. the help i can render to you is to go and look for who your father is or you hold your cousin to tell you whom your father is. okay? |
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tpia
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if your dad was impotent then how come he produced you? or don't you know that directly or indirectly your acusing your mother of infidelity while you call yourself a B, d, tHINK BEFORE YOU POST!
thank you. I still fail to see how its the daughter's business at this time. Some people like wahala sha.  If the man was a good father, then what's the problem? Besides, how do you raise such a topic with your mom? I don't understand that part oh. |
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smile4kenn (m)
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nairalanders can just create a funny story and people do reply to every rubbish
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untainted
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nairalanders can just create a funny story and people do reply to every rubbish
the guilty is afraid. just cus u ar a fabricator doesn't mean every story on NL is manufactured |
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smile4kenn (m)
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the guilty is afraid. just cus u ar a fabricator doesn't mean every story on NL is manufactured
i hear u |
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oriahi
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must u paste it here that ur dad is impotent?why can't u pipo discuss wit ur family doctor, shame on u
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untainted
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must u paste it here that ur dad is impotent?why can't u pipo discuss wit ur family doctor, shame on u
This is supposed to be a solutions centre and what part of my post did u not understand? What will a doctor do? We don't need any prove but how to get my cousin back home. |
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