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t-rhymes (m)
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Sometimes, i wonder why Nigeria is like this, why men can't have a real date without spending hard cash as if it is a marriage affair. I was once in the mist of two brothers and the other was telling is junior that he will be droping is Girl friend because he can help keeping the expensive relation, . Source: http://www.gnaija.comFull soon ,  |
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tope2000 (f)
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date another nationality |
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albridge (m)
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i guess its because women tend to be materialistic especially in this part of the world where poverty is so prevelant. |
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Outstrip (f)
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This is all I can say to you nigerian guys, ntooooooooooo. You guys actually encourage this behavior. I see it as a sign of weekness in a guy. I never took any expensive gifts from a man if I was not giving gifts back but then again I did not date any Nigerians until my husband. He only dated one nigerian before me and she was not a gold digger either. If you do not spend money foolishly and she gets upset then that should tell you something. Dump her ass. You have to build your relationship on something more than how much you spent on recharge cards. It just seems to me that the dating scene in nigeria is the man treating her like a prostitute and she giving herslef away for free.
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richo (m)
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i can never date an unrealistic girl who has impulse to spend my money irrelevantly.
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iice (f)
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This is all I can say to you nigerian guys, ntooooooooooo. You guys actually encourage this behavior. I see it as a sign of weekness in a guy. I never took any expensive gifts from a man if I was not giving gifts back but then again I did not date any Nigerians until my husband. He only dated one nigerian before me and she was not a gold digger either. If you do not spend money foolishly and she gets upset then that should tell you something. Dump her ass. You have to build your relationship on something more than how much you spent on recharge cards. It just seems to me that the dating scene in nigeria is the man treating her like a prostitute and she giving herslef away for free.
Thank you jare.
Don't know how these guys keep up with this  bite me
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mj (m)
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The people you want to date don't find you attractive, so when you spend money on them it sends out a message that, you are aware you are not attractive to her and you want to use cash to buy it, its turns them off, its shows you are weak. Even if she agrees to date you, she will date someone else that is attractive to her. If you are attractive to a gurl, she don't need your dollars to show how she feels about you. So keep your cash in the bank and learn how to attract ladies. C ya.
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