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angola_g (m)
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Hi Nairalanders, I seem to be confused and I have brought my issue on here to be resolved. Can your girlfriend Love you so much and wouldn’t want to have Sex wit you? or alternatively can you date a girl for Six months and not have sex with her? She loves me, she has proven this so many times. I love her too, but you all know, sometimes we always want to experiment. My issue is for how long would you wait if you are in my show?Please your advises would be appreciated.
“I know most people will say, Must you have sex ?not necessary all the time but once in a while.”
Thanks
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mj (m)
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I don't think most girls will tell their b/f to come and have sex with them. You have to make that move, since you guys have been dating then you should know what arose her emotions? You need to do them often, why not do a candle light dinner in your bedroom with her? Take note- your focus is to arose her sexual emotions. C ya, but then if she still disagrees ( that means u fail to arose her sexual emotions) please let her be.
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sistawoman (f)
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my hubby waited until our wedding night.
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angola_g (m)
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@mj
Thanks for your response, We have not really had so much time to spend, But she visit once in a week. She is 19 and I am 24 , She might claim virginity, But that childish attitude is still in her so sometimes I begin to wonder if I can really stay that long till she is ready. If I were able to stop thinking so much about her then I could just manage. Sometimes I get so confused why I should put so much thought to a girl.
Has any of you felt like this before ? Let me know how to control my emotions towards this girl I am going crazy. I never believed I could fall so low as to have a girl in mind so much and think often about her. She cares and she is appreciative.
Helep mi oohh !!! Helppppppppppppp
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ifihearam
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Its ur personal problem
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Tranngirls (f)
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Well angola_g i think your biggest problem is that
you don't know what you want. For a guy that is
dangerous because usually we ladies what to be
led to place not the other way around. You can't
change the rules of the game when you are still
playing it. My boyfriend from the first time we started
talking, he knew exactly what kind of relationship he
wanted, how many times we should have sex, what
kind of sex he likes, and he asked me what kind of
sex i like. So my advice is talk to your girl and tell her
what kind of relationship you want from her and what
kind you are used to ok. And i mean every single detail
but remember be respectful of her feel ok. (Pain is served
best in small doses)
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sillyboy (m)
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Well, i realised that having sex before getting married doesnt make sense at all. All my 27 years i have slept with different women, both the ones am dating and the ones am not.
Recently, I realised that I would rather not do everything to sleep with a woman i really want to marry. But if she wants it, I'd have to obey her wish.
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A-40 (m)
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@poster of topic
Bobo poke this chic you would be suprised at the speed at which her cherry would be popped by some other fella if you by chance happen to break up with the girl without touching her
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stillwater (f)
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Uuurrrggghhhhhh
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A-40 (m)
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I am just giving the dude some game so he doesn't dull himself
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stillwater (f)
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That's far from game  Uuuurrrggghhhhhh |
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Ruby_Pearl
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@poster of topic
Bobo poke this chic you would be suprised at the speed at which her cherry would be popped by some other fella if you by chance happen to break up with the girl without touching her
dudeeeeeeeee |
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A-40 (m)
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Its the truth heck some girls even lie about their virginity in the first place!Why does no one like to hear the truth me thinks some people's guilty consciences are working over-time here
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stillwater (f)
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Guilty conscience? Urggggghhhhhhh
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A-40 (m)
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@stillwater
Whats with the urrrrrrghhhh its obvious you don't have anything to counter the argument or do my posts refer to you in anyway?
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Ruby_Pearl
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Its the truth heck some girls even lie about their virginity in the first place!Why does no one like to hear the truth me thinks some people's guilty consciences are working over-time here
where are you picking your girls? |
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A-40 (m)
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This doesn't have anything to do with me i am talking from other people's experiences you girls can be conceited sometimes
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Ruby_Pearl
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Is that not a human characteristic? Are men not conceited?
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stillwater (f)
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@stillwater
Whats with the urrrrrrghhhh its obvious you don't have anything to counter the argument or do my posts refer to you in anyway?
What argument? Urrrrggghhhhhh, urgggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh  lol |
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onyinye2 (f)
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Its the truth heck some girls even lie about their virginity in the first place!Why does no one like to hear the truth me thinks some people's guilty consciences are working over-time here
Everybody know this is the classic example of a double standard. If the girl states she has had past experiences then. . . . ho ha, the dude runs faster than the plague. |
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angola_g (m)
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Are Virgins really scared of Sex? I am not Sex freak so don't misqoute me. I am not just willing to free the girl to any other guy so I am considering playing along. She has repeatedly told me its a matter of time , Saying when time comes I will be the one to run.Though I did'nt buy the idea because it could be a delay tactics or ploy to relax my mind.But I don't just get the whole gist. With time she means could be next two years who knows. !!
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davidylan* (m)
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be patient angola, why are you in a hurry to eat the yam that is still roasting?
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angola_g (m)
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@davidylan
I am patient , But time no dey oohh . While being patient she might just fall for another guy. You know the way they behave small thing might change their mind.
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davidylan* (m)
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if she knows you're serious about her, responsible and willing to deny yourself for her sake . . . she shldnt go anywhere. You're basically pressuring her into something she doesnt feel comfortable doing now. If she succumbs (out of desperation to keep you), she will forever resent you for it. Every woman secretly wants to have sex with a man they like, they however need a lot of convincing to be sure you wont bolt and run after u've had your fill.
Women are quite unlucky. They run into most men like you who want to jump into bed within 2 mins (as proof of love) yet the same men who dump them if they heard they'd had sex with other men. Na wa o.
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angola_g (m)
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@davidylan* Did you read my initial post? I have been with her since April. aproximately six months. How come you say I want to Jump into bed within 2mins? I don't even plan or have intention of dumping such girl. Well Well . I will not pressurize her. I am not supposed to be saying all this in a public forum. But just to get satisfactory answers I will opened up. "You know curiousity killed the Cat " Kissing on few occassions. Just that for now probably If I have patient. More will come by. |
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chamotex (m)
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Love Without Sex? And For How Long?
well hopefully not for too long
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davidylan* (m)
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angola, only 6 months and you are complaining?  |
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chamotex (m)
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angola, only 6 months and you are complaining? until the guy wait 6 years abi |
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davidylan* (m)
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until the guy wait 6 years abi
not too long. |
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sistawoman (f)
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not too long.
The wait is soooooooooooo worth it. |
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angola_g (m)
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Because I care for her, I am willing to wait at most 1yr.I think that is a reasonable time for a girl who wants to go along with you.
@sistawoman
How many years would you keep your man waiting?
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sistawoman (f)
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my hubby waited almost a year.
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