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Latoya (f)
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i don't buy that idea of sex in a relationship,i guess we've discussed this before is consider as immorality.Sex is created by God for the married and not for the dating.It is a speacial thing that is meant for couples.So my dear i advice u hold on to what u have.
As for guys,i don't see anything wrong in a guy been a V.its all about morals.
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nddy (m)
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What is morals? Being a virgin, does that say anything? Having sex before marriage has nothing to do with morals.
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nddy (m)
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See you are missing the point, Sex is not life, its just part of life, if you make sex your life you are ruined till the end, My point is that having sex don't make you a less moral person than the other who doesnt. Its just life, ytake it as you see it
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Latoya (f)
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sex isnt part of life until marriage,having sex out of wedlock is immorality,final
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nddy (m)
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sex before marriage is no immorality, mind you a sin is a sin , if you lie it also has the same punishment with sin so no sin is better than the other.
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Latoya (f)
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no one is saying one sin is better than the other,sin is sin.we should just try as much as possible to avoid sin despite we r all sinners,don't u get the point?
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nddy (m)
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Sex doesn not make you bad person or morally wrong. Sex is just part of us, When i hear guys say they are virgins, i laugh try to examine them well, Some virgins are virgins because they lack the momentum to holla @ a girl. While some are scared. Sex is all about giving a part of you to the one you like or feel like giving it to.
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Latoya (f)
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u are always not in the mood because u know what the truth is,sex is immoral as far as i am concerned,it is very indecent to have sex before marriage i am not judging but it is the fact.i might not be making any sense to u because you're block headed and can't get the point straight.
A guy been a virgin in his 20ties in this centuary means he is a real man,a man that can control the testosterone running down his veins flowing to the brain.But that doesnt mean he can't get any girl,he just has self control that is what it is called little baby,self control.Relationships aint all about sex according to u (sex is all about giving a part of you to the one you like or feel like giving it to). it is far more than that,i am not surprised u can't see the depth.
i will rather just keep it cool because i don't want to go the extreme before Seun starts.
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cushman (m)
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I think the whole thing is about or depends largely on self control. If one hardly controls his/her sexual urge then there's bound to be a problem.
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Seun (m)
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Sex is not immoral. If you engage in sex without lying, cheating, manipulating, beating, forcing, you are moral!
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adejumobi (m)
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Sex is not immoral. If you engage in sex without lying, cheating, manipulating, beating, forcing, you are moral!
as long as its outside marriage IT IS IMMORAL |
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Seun (m)
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What is marriage? Is it not a piece of paper? Why should a piece of paper determine whether sex is right?  |
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adejumobi (m)
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marriage goes beyound the the agreement signed on a piece of paper, being married is an holy oat before God, is a life time committment. not just sleeping around and calling it love instead of lust of the flesh
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jesusfreak (f)
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sometimes people get married and find that it wasnt all worth the wait  so what's the point anyways? |
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T.BAG (f)
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what's up freaky, hope u 'r cool
u are sure pretty.
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jesusfreak (f)
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m cool thanks  |
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dollyp1cute (f)
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What is marriage? Is it not a piece of paper? Why should a piece of paper determine whether sex is right? What do you mean marriage is just a piece of paper, that is rather ignorant  . I am vexed, you mean something instituted by God is a piece of paper, I am dissapointed. Marriage is a covenant and sex consummates it, it affirms the covenant between the two parties. |
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jesusfreak (f)
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@ dollyp1 yeah whatever  |
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Adetife
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Can't people just be just learn to be respectable to one another and not insult or degrade eachother simply because they have opposing views.
Some peeps blf in sex after marriage which i don't, but yet respect this blf as a christian and as a doctrine.
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2muchmoney (m)
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jus because u aint giving he or she sex for 1 year and 285 months doesnt mean he/she isnt getting it from somewhere else
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JJay1 (m)
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How long can I be in a relationship without sex? Hmmmmmmmmm, let me think, 24 hours
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na wa (m)
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i can wait for a month or thereabouts but within that period if i found out she is just playing one of the girls trick- - - i shall fight 4 my own share  |
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moondust (m)
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If she's not a virgin and I'm not, what's the waiting for?
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amaikama (m)
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let me just ask this question. let assume you both wait, not experiment on each other before marriage and eventually, you guys got married and on the wedding bed either of you perform beyond expectation for lack of experience. what would you do?  |
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na wa (m)
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@amaikama i don't think there will be any wahala about that because non of them know how sex should be like |
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goldieloc (m)
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it depends but the trut h is that if u can't give him and he can't handl it, he'd definately get it elsewhere and still be wit u because he loves u. as per me, my girl told me we werent going 2 hav sex and i told her that i can't be in a relationship witout sex because i don't wan2 ever cheat, she agreed at last but we hav bin 4 18months and we've not had sex. mine is because i don't like limitations, in the sense that i feel sex is a thing that would just happen when it should happen and i wouldn't want a situation whereby when its men2 happen, my girl would say but i told u that we wont hav sex, so that is y i insist that my girl puts no limit. when it should happen it would happen, that is d way i look at it.  |
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wasma (m)
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some can be in a relationship for 2years without sex but some can be in a relationship for 3 weeks and will be demanding of sex,so it matters the kind of guys u are dating.
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dremoney (m)
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still observing posts
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dremoney (m)
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Anyway,
As long as I'm sure of her sincerity.
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$$Rhino
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If i want to have sex and my woman wont give it to me, i will steal it while she is sleeping at night, you wil just wake up to some anaconda inside of you oh, but anyways, i am a virgin, so no wahala, but to be serious, i rather leave it to an individual jedgement, because some blv it is wrong and some is kool with me, i am just trying to watch my height, that is why i am a virgin
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