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nene1
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@ layi,
omg i hope i find a guy like u to marry. it is rare nowadays to find a guy who is a virgin.
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biina
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As long as she doesn't send my hormones on periodic wild goose chases like looking for bin ladenĀ  , we are good. But don't expect me to be taking cold showers on you account. If you start it, you must finish it. 
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smooooooth
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for as long as you can stay away from his house.
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maray (f)
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Dont keep a man guessing too long,he is sure to find the answer somewhere else. 
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djcrucifix (m)
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it all depends on you guys. some couples reach an agreement on stuffs like that before entering a relationship so it all boils down to you guys.
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tommy2k2 (m)
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maray lol, hope u aint talking to us
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Isu ata
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its izy i think
if yu dnt count occassional kissing and touching as sex den- my partner has bin widout sex all her life and i have bin widout sex for 3yrs
wats d big deal- u get used to it
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lovereigns (f)
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as long as you both choose to be,it is a thing of mutual agreement
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Kingsleyinfo (m)
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My dear lady sex is a very complex thing. That's why God said we should wait till marriage before starting it. However if you wish to be in a relationship without having sex then you must ask yourself some questions. 1. How old are you guys 2. Where is the relationship headed. 3. Does he share your faith and believe? How often do you guys meet. The truth is that, when two persons truely love each other the tendency towards sex is always there. But if the relationship is towards marriage i mean if you guys are planning towards that then he should be able to wait. Otherwise there is going to be a problem sooner or later. Secondly relationship without sex is meant for very matured minds. Thats why i asked about age and his beliefs. From your posts he does not share your beliefs. That means sooner or later you might have to give in or move out. God is the only basis for a pure relationship. No man or woman is super human neither are you. some just take longer to give in to their feelings than others.
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Ojo34
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Guys atimes continue to pester ladies for sex just to be sure they are not playing mr fool.There are situations where a girl will deny u&even pretend to b V,whereas another guy is enjoying or will just come and take what u av been keepin.So wat matters is your sincerity 2 d guy.Please make sure he enjoy d fruit of his labour of patience at d end of d day¬ 1 opportunist like it happens 2 me.
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Massi
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u could be such a person dat can:t do without sex realy it is not bad but i think i can do for so lon ga time without such if i am intrested in makin her my patner meanin if i realy love her.
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Magz (m)
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Well the last relationship I was in, we waited for about 3 1/2 months. When we did commit Love, it was natural and sweet. We made love the night before my Love moved away to attend Law School. Afterwards though, things went downhill because of the long distance thing,
Honestly, if it weren't for the complex situation that we were in, we probably would've enjoyed eachother's charms for much longer before having sex. I mean, sex isn't something that I need or base my relationships around, so I can go a very long time. I am more interested in a woman's intelligence and her spiritual worth than her body. To me, sex appeal is only a small part of the overall equation.
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biola44 (m)
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@poster: depends on both partners, they should come out clear & define d r/s with each partner expressing his/her intentions n expextations, 4 me, i can wait 4 as long as i want, its abt self control, 
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Enockia (m)
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it's simple u guys should just agree
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patwhizkid (f)
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Re
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Agweement ke!
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Am Alone
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From Now, Till Enternity. . . .
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Meldrick (m)
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@ layi,
omg i hope i find a guy like u to marry. it is rare nowadays to find a guy who is a virgin.
So u are looking for a virgin to marry, May God help u with your search but are you one?  @ topic Staying in a relationship without sex could be only based on principles but u might oppose my view but the real bond exist when there is sex. When Iam dating a lady, while should I wait till eternity to have sex. Watin dem buy monkey for, no be for play?
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jalether (m)
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3 weeks, if she is not giving it up by the third week, m bouncing
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190 (m)
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3weeks no too much brother 2days or im out 
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Kelvinj (m)
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Now u guyz ar talkn. I've been listening 2 sum guyz nd they ar talkn abt agreement nd all wat nt @poster let me tell u 1 tin guyz as in males luv sex sum can deny it, bt it in der nature nd datz hw they were created. For instance if your a wife nd your food is nt alwayz wen your hubby need it, definitely his nxt destination is mr. Biggs. & u mentioned u guyz alwayz arguing, d best advice i can give u is 2 stop starving him b4 he finds out dat mr. Biggs food is sweeter than urs.
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kayc33 (m)
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posteri no fit o! 
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Unseen (m)
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Poster How long do think he can endure? At first he may think that he can go through it but at a time he will start wondering if he is a fool and will be considering the possibility of YOU giving it to every one but him.
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amaikama (m)
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three seconds!!!!!
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candylips (m)
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@topic
Probably just a day
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Vuitton (m)
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0.0000 seconds
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Abbey_city (f)
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@Topic It depends on d guy!!! i've bn in a relationship 4 7yrs without sex uptill nw. . . . & we're still 2gther. though it's might b funny or looks as if it's jst mouth talk but honestly God is my witness i mean it
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tithe (m)
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@poster.
TILL U GET MARRIED TO HIM END OF DISCUSSION, habba sex!sex!!sex!!! shut up. Wait till u get married it will not seal up pls.
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candylips (m)
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@Topic It depends on d guy!!! i've bn in a relationship 4 7yrs without sex uptill nw. . . . & we're still 2gther. though it's might b funny or looks as if it's jst mouth talk but honestly God is my witness i mean it the guy na mumu
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Abbey_city (f)
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shaaataap jor  u think say na everybody go b lyk u?
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Positivity (m)
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@ topic: For as long as I deem fit! U don't necessarily have to sleep with everyone u meet.
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