Can Someone Tell Me What Is Wrong Here. ( My Girl Sister ).

I got a call from her ( my girl elder sister ) asking me to explain the text l sent to her mum. because she saw the text.

Here the text message l sent to her mum : Hey dear get well soon missing you.

My question now is any crime wishing someone a quick recovering?

Are you having an affair with your girl's mum? 'cos that text message is not the type you send to an elderly person talkless of your girl's mum. Your girl's sister has every right to be suspicious.

In Nigeria, you don't talk/relate with an elderly person the way you do with your mates/youths, eventhough this does not obtain in the western world.

You sound like a fool!   what respect does he need to show again."HEY" in English language means "HI" And HI meeans HELLO.So tell me what's wrong with saying"HELLO DEAR GET WELL SOON"
The word DEAR is used for some dear to you.So,what the Fuc*k?

Hey all NO NO NO NO, l cant do that going out with my girl mum cant even think about that,  she is a good mum and we are close

I think your problem is ENGLISH LANGUAGE!

I concur,   that's the sort of message you will send to your Girlfriend, not to your girls mum,  i think she has a right to be suspicious,

You are a very funny guy if you are even tht, First of all i think your problem is not knowing when to use certain clause,
Sistawoman is an American fine, but the person he sent the txt to isnt an American or is she?

The poster's girlfriend is not an American, so can i suggest you have a full understanding of the topic before making any ill-judged comment.

First off you have no respect for your girl's mother because if you really wanted to check on her well being you would call not text. Another thing you did wrong is you wrote "dear" and "missing you" why are you calling your girl's mom dear and why are you missing her??? platonic or not that seems shady. I hope i dont see you on Jerry Springer.

In this modern days, people have lost their communication manner, lol, how can you send that to somebody's mother really especially in the Nigerian society/culture? abeg, expalin yourself to the daugther that wants explanation. next time, learn how to talk.

Sistawoman, we are certainly not saying that,  if i can speak for the others, what we are saying is, in our Nigerian Culture, it is not apporpirate to send a txt message like that to your Girlfriends mom. this is deemed as being disrespectul.

Big lie!who are you speaking for?Your co-village people?Abeg! Let's call a spade a spade 

''hey'' is used to call someone's attention, sometimes in a way which is not very polite(when it starts a sentence)
As a Nigerian, can you use ''hey'' to call your mum's attention?
Can you sart text messaging your girlfriend's mum with ''hey''?
How happy will you be if your friend sees your mum and the first thing he/she says is :hey! how are you?
Answer in all sincerity.
If you answer yes to any of the questions above and you are a Nigerian,

Now you see why Nigeria would be a third world country??? you seem to have lost your way because it is unfortunate that you consider respect as something that is holding Nigeria back. Where ever it is you are currently living in this world might be cool with you talking to your mother like that but Nigeria is Nigeria and we don't tolerate such disrespect and that has nothing to do with world progression or not. You seem to be very ignorant and you are acting like the one they call a "house Nigger" who is just as black but would be the one to do what the master says just to get favor from the master. The western way of life might be appealing to you but you should NEVER EVER forget where you come from or your culture. I would hang my head in shame if i were you.

You are mistaking the word  "HEY" for the youruba or let me say Nigeria word "heyss" The word you can use when callin a child or shoemaker!They sound alike but they are not same ok?