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k0be
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this thread is filled with feministic tendencies in disguise.
shouldn't have been started in the first place. men are unique; what one african man wants may differ from what another african man wants.
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babyosisi (f)
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this thread is filled with feministic tendencies in disguise.
shouldn't have been started in the first place. men are unique; what one african man wants may differ from what another african man wants.
Exactly!!!!!!!! I hate all these generalizations painting African men as monsters. They are not!! then again people may be talking from personal experiences  |
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WesleyanA (f)
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shouldn't have been started in the first place. good point. this thread is STUPID |
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k0be
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oops excuse my bias, forgot to mention misogynistic tendencies as well.
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daprince
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Wes, if u read his post a little bit better, u would have realized that he didn't say women should shut up, but rather "Women that shut up and keep their opinions to themselves are not foolish or dumb. They are indeed smart or wise to be precise. Their brains are defaulted to be the central processing unit unlike those with mouths faster than their brains." I would rather see that as a compliment, than an insult.
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WesleyanA (f)
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ok. i see your point. lol
but i've seen ivvie's other post on this and one other topic; i interpreted what he said a little differently than you might have.
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daprince
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I knew u couldn't have castigated Ivvie if u had understood the statement, You are a very brilliant girl, that was why I wanted to know or understand what u were implying. Anyway, have a great time.
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Sweet T (m)
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@Topic
I want her to believe in me that i can take care of her. I want her to know that i love her with every marrow in my bones. I want to show her the finest things in life and create a lasting memories. Above all, i want her to be happy and trust in my love for her !!! And when i finally found her, she will thank God for these endless love in my heart !
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Sweet T (m)
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@Topic
People please quit generalizing about african men. Just because i'm an African man doesn't mean i want to enslave my woman, better yet i want to be a slave to her happiness if she let me ! There are more white men killing their wives for stupid things. I've seen time and time again where white people hire a killer to kill their spouse for some stupid things like life insurance payments and stuff like that !
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JustGood (m)
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because u dey america, you think say you supposed fashy the role of a woman? I hope say u no go begin curse men after you don become iya ndagbe like most american women.
Whatsoever a person sows, the same shall he/she also reap
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Ivvie
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@DaPrince «:::T:::» «:::H:::» «:::A:::» «:::N:::» «:::K:::» «:::S:::» «:::!:::» A lot of people misunderstand me. I guess because I hardly smile and love being to myself. I am somewhat use to it. @ everyone I don't believe in slavery or the propaganda of controlling women. What I don't believe in is what the society determines as the perfect woman and what criteria to be met. That, I define as indirect slavery because you are being confined to somebody else's standard. I personally believe Africans are the smartest and enduring people the earth has to offer. Some great inventions and understandings sprung from the African man but some people sit on it (won't mention names). Nigerians account for 2/3rds of the blacks that graduate from Harvard and the upper percentile are from science and engineering. |
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WesleyanA (f)
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Ivvie, I guess i misunderstood your posts. i apologize. je suis desole I personally believe Africans are the smartest and enduring people the earth has to offer. all races of people are equally smart and enduring. |
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skylower (m)
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Many African men don't expect anything from their women, most of our women really don't have much to offer anyways  |
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Ivvie
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@ WesleyanA Ivvie,
I guess i misunderstood your posts. i apologize. je suis desole
all races of people are equally smart and enduring.
I'm not offended Ms. and I honour your apology. All the best, Wes. Ivaie |
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Hazel-eyed (f)
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Many African men don't expect anything from their women, most of our women really don't have much to offer anyways trust u to make a very stupid statement. |
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babyosisi (f)
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Many African men don't expect anything from their women, most of our women really don't have much to offer anyways true talk!! she had you. |
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WesleyanA (f)
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trust u to make a very stupid statement.
skylower will always be skylower. lol |
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blesyne (f)
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@Topic
I want her to believe in me that i can take care of her. I want her to know that i love her with every marrow in my bones. I want to show her the finest things in life and create a lasting memories. Above all, i want her to be happy and trust in my love for her !!! And when i finally found her, she will thank God for these endless love in my heart !
i wish thats what all men would want in a woman |
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macalurs (m)
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It's not really always about what african men want per se.
Its different on the internet, the ways people express themselves. Its alot more straight forward than in real life. Ladies play "mind games" (they actually call it that). Their actions change everything the man might have wanted in the first place. After the whole cat & mouse experience, a man thinks (GIRL you better be worth it!) Funny thing is, there's hardly any difference between every "beauty with brains" kind'a girl out there. When we see one we've seen them all. Our actions toward you will be stereotypical; simply because there's almost no difference between you and your girlfriends.
What I'm saying is, when a girl puts a guy in a certain category (because of the car he drives or doesnt thereof, for example) she is predictable, her actions can be fore-told, even with ones eyes closed. This way to you, guys are never different: If he's rich he's an ass, if he's broke he's a retard; if he's sexy he's a player, if he's ugly he's a virgin. . . .
This really doesn't mean guys are all the same even of a given set, it just means you treat them the same when they belong to a set. I treat you stereotypically because you don't treat me any different. see?
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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I haven't the slightest clue, |
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amaikama (m)
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Exoticchic! post your pix not the one on nairaland profile. then let see how things turn out for us.
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yemivictor (m)
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To all the women running their mouths here about african men!
African men didn't fall from trees!!
They were birthed & trained by these women running their mouths here o!
These women should cover their faces in shame!!
Because if whatever you claim is true, it simply exposes your failure!
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NubianQ (f)
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an african man wants a slave for his ego!!!! no matter what you do he will cheat so why bother?
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lucabrasi (m)
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a beautiful,sensible,down to earth,humble,career minded and ambitious but not to ambitious,drama free,GODLY,mature and without any family or emotional baggage and from a good home
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debosky (m)
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There is no stereotypical 'African man' so trying to generalize is pointless I want a girl from the village who is beautiful, a virgin, cooks and cleans and will call me 'Daddy'!   |
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Uche2nna (m)
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There is no stereotypical 'African man' so trying to generalize is pointless I want a girl from the village who is beautiful, a virgin, cooks and cleans and will call me 'Daddy'! Y am I not suprised  |
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4 Play (m)
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Mail order wife all the way.They will send me pictures of girls in my village-"bush girls" who will look at me as their Master-and I will simply make my choice. All these Westernised chicks can go to hell!  |
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eterpete
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Me? My search for an African woman in church, on the move didn't work! I lived in the same house with one and she seemed to have a mild character (not stupid), but she was simply a pig! It was shocking! She didn't give a hoot about anything, all she did was make eba all day and eat eat, I say the foregoing because I looked forward to a normal African (Nigerian) woman and i thot i had found before the pig in her started to show!
You know what, i am now of the opinion that the best bet is to search online, you have control over the process, forget the link in my signature, SINCERELY, reading profiles, likes, dislikes and being able to ask and find things out helps with the filtering process way ahead of time!
As an African man, i desired just a beautiful woman, a woman who was a woman, soft, strong,understanding etc
I'm out!
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LadyT (f)
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Mail order wife all the way.They will send me pictures of girls in my village-"bush girls" who will look at me as their Master-and I will simply make my choice. All these Westernised chicks can go to hell! Wait till you get home |
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4 Play (m)
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Wait till you get home Sweetie,that was a typo,I swear! You know I wanted to say, "apart from Lady T".  |
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debosky (m)
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Be a MAN 4playyou know we've agreed on everything, all that is left is to choose the village to send the scouts to African women Not these loud mouthed onesthe REAL African women are in the village and thats where we'll get them from |
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