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dearie (m)
Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« on: July 16, 2006, 11:26 PM »

why is it that it's difficult to find a man who's 95% faithful to his wife, no matter how much a man loves his wife, he finds it difficult to keep to her alone.Even Men of God have been found to be guilty of this 'forbidden fruit'

Is it a question of morality, or that Man possesses some Genes that make him helpless, or u believe that there are men who would not and have never strayed? Do u know anybody like that?
Seun (m)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #1 on: September 21, 2006, 05:48 PM »

Women cheat almost as often as men when they have the opportunity.  It's a question of opportunity.
mo money (m)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #2 on: September 21, 2006, 11:59 PM »

societal factor Grin or you don't think so Huh
Brown-Eyes (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #3 on: September 22, 2006, 12:06 AM »

Men are not naturally made to stray. Society has made it possible for them to stray.
Freewilly (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #4 on: September 22, 2006, 12:11 AM »

Quote from: Brown-Eyes on September 22, 2006, 12:06 AM
Men are not naturally made to stray. Society has made it possible for them to stray.

Very good answer sis. They just dogs.
Brown-Eyes (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #5 on: September 22, 2006, 12:17 AM »

Quote from: Freewilly on September 22, 2006, 12:11 AM
They just dogs.

Even dogs can say no at times
rikkyjen (m)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #6 on: September 22, 2006, 03:20 AM »

Quote from: Freewilly on September 22, 2006, 12:11 AM
Very good answer sis. They just dogs.

No wonder, you are a wanksta!!! Wink Cheesy Grin
Freewilly (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #7 on: September 22, 2006, 03:23 AM »

Quote from: rikkyjen on September 22, 2006, 03:20 AM
No wonder, you are a wanksta!!! Wink Cheesy Grin

I'm proud to be one, do you have a problem with it Cheesy
kiki (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #8 on: September 22, 2006, 03:25 AM »

hol up hol uo Rick or watever ur name is don't trying to be smart with my gurl or u gon get ur ass whooped ya dig Angry Angry
rikkyjen (m)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #9 on: September 22, 2006, 04:39 AM »

Quote from: kiki on September 22, 2006, 03:25 AM
hol up hol uo Rick or watever your name is don't trying to be smart with my girl or u gon get your ass whooped ya dig Angry Angry

Yes ma!!. U mo kick ma butts from Atlanta to Indy Cheesy Smiley. Sincerely, my post was pun intended!!.Obviously Freewilly took it witha pinch of salt.What about you? Shocked. Your case is like an individual crying more than the bereaved Cheesy Cheesy

Freewilly! am not miffed about anyones sexual orientation, I'm sure u saw my smiley?Aiight Wink
Freewilly (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #10 on: September 22, 2006, 04:42 AM »

Dude I'm not worried about you Cheesy I've got my haters blockers on Cool Cool Tongue
iice (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #11 on: September 22, 2006, 04:45 AM »

Temptation
Freewilly (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #12 on: September 22, 2006, 04:48 AM »

Lmao!!! here you are babe, Have to get off the computer now sweetheart, I'll say a lit prayer for you. Love you Kiss Cry
maxell (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #13 on: September 22, 2006, 12:12 PM »

Honestly, I really think so. Atleast from my own experience.
kiki (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #14 on: September 22, 2006, 05:56 PM »

Quote from: rikkyjen on September 22, 2006, 04:39 AM
Yes ma!!. U mo kick ma butts from Atlanta to Indy Cheesy Smiley. Sincerely, my post was pun intended!!.Obviously Freewilly took it witha pinch of salt.What about you? Shocked. Your case is like an individual crying more than the bereaved Cheesy Cheesy

Freewilly! am not miffed about anyones sexual orientation, I'm sure u saw my smiley?Aiight Wink

y are u descibing yourself Cheesy Cheesy
LetterGirl (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #15 on: September 22, 2006, 06:15 PM »

Hi, i love your topic and i was blown away to see a man bring this up. It is a great question that i've ask myself for years? A pastor just helped me with revelation of it last week. Everyone is tempted to do various things. Men do stray more often. They can be married to a beautiful woman but yet can't resist another. What keeps you rooted and grounded is being feeled with the "holy spirit'. I know you guys say well preachers cheat it is in the genes true all these things. But god gives us the weapons to fight temptation. A man has to choose to activate his holy spirt. "What does it prophet a man to gain the world but lose his soul"?
LetterGirl (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #16 on: September 22, 2006, 06:36 PM »

Sorry i mispelled profit-meaning what will you gain.
mo money (m)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #17 on: September 22, 2006, 11:56 PM »

@maxell

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Honestly, I really think so. Atleast from my own experience.


then do some work Grin Grin
 
 
whitelexi (m)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #18 on: September 23, 2006, 01:27 PM »

Naturally, I wouldnt respond here but some people here have decided to make a comparison of men and dogs and that is distasteful to my person. I say, men who cheat do so because their women have failed in their duties, otherwise they wont,  when a man cheats, i'D expect him to do so with a woman and his wife ought to go all out to improve herself in other to win her man back. I have seen men who dread to go home after work,  i have seen men who have had over 30yrs of hard work and achievements ruined by a woman. I really think women are in no position to blame a man that cheats anymore because it is a shameful thing to come out talking about how ur man left u,  he left u because u were not good enough!  Women do it everyday as well, so just move on and pretend like nothing happened
mukina2 (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #19 on: September 23, 2006, 01:31 PM »

no , they just love cheating
whitelexi (m)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #20 on: September 23, 2006, 01:51 PM »

Lol@Mukina, How r u today? But seriously, i think its something that has two sides to it like seun said earlier,  its not always the guy or the girl, it just happens Grin
rightdude (m)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #21 on: September 23, 2006, 06:41 PM »

i think so,and i know so and it seems they have been genetically mutilated to be randy, just like our fore fathers,init?
mukina2 (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #22 on: September 23, 2006, 07:33 PM »

@whitelexi am good Cheesy
so even if the woman you love with ur soul strays uh?
Busta (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #23 on: September 23, 2006, 09:12 PM »

in ma opinion, YESSS!!!
biomic (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #24 on: September 23, 2006, 09:13 PM »

i rilly think so------it is natural
kiki (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #25 on: September 23, 2006, 09:22 PM »

natural u kiddin rite but when a woman does it she a hoe
jammin (m)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #26 on: September 23, 2006, 09:44 PM »

men stray because of lack of something at home.
kiki (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #27 on: September 23, 2006, 09:54 PM »

Quote from: jammin on September 23, 2006, 09:44 PM
men stray because of lack of something at home.

lack of somthing at home? u kiidin rite they go astray because they are some want to be players stupid unsatisfied son-of a biitch
LetterGirl (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #28 on: September 23, 2006, 09:56 PM »

@Whitelexi, I disagree very much so with a man that would say it is because of a woman that he cheats. I feel that it is horrible that a woman would lay up and have 4 and 5 children from some sorry  man and then they say they gon cheat because she was not good enough. What the real deal is that the woman was to good for him from the jump and he could not see it. The truth of it is, is this you can cheat get all the sex you want, they have many women that can do it in different positions, different ways the works. But when you decide to leave your home, with your family you will get your payback it aint even about karma it is about GOD!
kiki (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #29 on: September 23, 2006, 10:01 PM »

@letter

gurl u sound like u been tro this before just wonderin
whitelexi (m)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #30 on: September 24, 2006, 04:22 PM »

Quote from: LetterGirl on September 23, 2006, 09:56 PM
@Whitelexi, I disagree very much so with a man that would say it is because of a woman that he cheats. I feel that it is horrible that a woman would lay up and have 4 and 5 children from some sorry  man and then they say they gon cheat because she was not good enough. What the real deal is that the woman was to good for him from the jump and he could not see it. The truth of it is, is this you can cheat get all the sex you want, they have many women that can do it in different positions, different ways the works. But when you decide to leave your home, with your family you will get your payback it aint even about karma it is about GOD!

Truth hurts like hell, but please, don't take it personal. You look at it from a woman's point of view and it looks like all men are animals, when u look at it from a man's point also, it looks bad. The morale of the day is that women cheat just like men even after 10 children, u will still see women cheating as well as men. More men tend to cheat after marriage and children, more women cheat before marriage and children, but the bottomline is that it happens so live with it and don't make it look like i pointed accusing fingers at u while making my contribution. Cool

While i clear the air, i'm sure u will also agree with me that karma also knows a woman's name Grin
mamaput (f)
Re: Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?
« #31 on: September 24, 2006, 04:35 PM »

Men stray because they take anything they can get.
At that point they do not use their brain. You put food for them and they eat there and then.

Women stray too but they plan it very well. That means they can wait  a week or two to do it.
because they do not want to leave any trace behind them.
They smell their food before they eat it and find out more about it.That takes time.
But men just eat.
A woman will even go as far as taking a shower and inspecting her cloths and her odor.
Women are natural born detectives .And thats just it.
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