Should I Tell Him My Feelings?

i guess i need a pinch of advice on what to do.
actually i have feelings for this guy,23, and i tnk i am always cold and distant towards him because i tnk i have started one of my infatuations again.i talked to my sister about this, who is also 23 but married, and she says she tnks he likes me.although i and this guy talk like the way frnds do,i try my best not to let my feelings out inorder not to b pushy, u know what i mean.do u tnk it is right 4 me to tell him how i feel even though i am not thinking of having a relationship yet?

well, how am i supposed to know that, busta?

@btkj

I understand that as a nigerian woman its hard to keep your emotions under check when you really are into a guy. Here, the girls would have approached you in indirect ways, it would be up to you as the guy to decide to date them or not.
Back to you, just be nice to the guy and make sure he really likes you, if you tell him prematurely he might just want to take advantage of you without really liking you. Be nice to him but don't be too close, get your friends or your sister to TACTFULLY find out if he trully likes you. If the answer is positive, then do by all means express your feelings to him. if he is mature and serious enough to want to date you, he'll pick up from there. For all you know he himself might be trying to see if you also have feelings for him, the more you give him the cold shoulder the more you push him to someone else.

All the best.

well hhm i would advice you not to tell him before you get embarrassed{if it is not what he has on his mind}

Why don't you try being really nice to him and see how he respondes? Like "wow you look really nice today" or "you are so smart, you really impress me." And touch him in little ways. Like his arm or his hair? See what he does?

hmmm btkj, my advise is just tel him what u feel about him but don't said it directly because u know men, so just hv a time as u said u use to talk as friends, talk about the issue with him and ask him what if a gurl tel him what she feel about him, and wait for the answer then u deside what to do gurl, i thing u should just try this, 

hey gurl just try it an see what will happen, because i hv seen this issue before and i ask that my friend that, let her hv a time and jist with the guy and talk about the issue and she did it, so just try it gurl, 

I tnk the best thing to do is to watch the guy first and if u tnk the guy too as feeling, then u can go ahead and tell him