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Aimee4love (f)
Unhappy In Love
« on: July 17, 2006, 06:17 PM »

I am really unhappy in my marriage. I have told him several times I want a divorce and he wont leave. He thinks I really don't want that. I don't know what to do. Should I just put The house up for sell and then maybe he will take me seriously?

I am unhappy because of some many reasons its never 1 thin right?
* he is a mean Dad , and that makes him so unattractive to me
* he works way too many hrs , 12hr days 6 days a week
* I don't get a long with his family and he doesn't understand whyand never stands up for me
* I moved all the way from CA to VA so he could be by his son and now I never see my family
* I feel like a single mother of three and I 24
* I want to loose weight and he doesn't support me and doesn't think i need too , hello i am 5'2 180lbs
* his ex wife is unbearable
I could go on and on
Dojo (m)
Re: Unhappy In Love
« #1 on: July 17, 2006, 06:22 PM »

 I don't have any experience in the marriage stuff.
Please, those with the necessary experience should not hesitate to contribute their quota/advice.
saintchux (m)
Re: Unhappy In Love
« #2 on: July 17, 2006, 06:26 PM »

@aimee4love

I am really unhappy in my marriage

What is the issue? What is making you unhappy? Were you forced to maary him? Why the unhappiness now?
Is divorce the only solution left for you.

Should I just put The house up for sell and then maybe he will take me seriously?
Doing this will not help the matter at all. It will rather make things worse. Don't do that.

If you can explain more, then you will get a better advice. As of now, I don't know what is the issue between two of you
Busta (f)
Re: Unhappy In Love
« #3 on: July 17, 2006, 06:29 PM »

all the best Aimee!!
Dojo (m)
Re: Unhappy In Love
« #4 on: July 17, 2006, 06:30 PM »

@Busta
All the best in what?
Busta (f)
Re: Unhappy In Love
« #5 on: July 17, 2006, 07:05 PM »

@ Dojo
whatever decision she makes. In this case, I can't advise her to leave him because i've never been married and can't advise her to stay and put up with the guy because no one knows what she's going through except her so, Wish her all the best!
Dojo (m)
Re: Unhappy In Love
« #6 on: July 17, 2006, 07:06 PM »

@Busta
Alright.
Aimee4love (f)
Re: Unhappy In Love
« #7 on: July 17, 2006, 07:15 PM »

I am unhappy because of some many reasons its never 1 thin right?
* he is a mean Dad , and that makes him so unattractive to me
* he works way too many hrs , 12hr days 6 days a week
* I don't get a long with his family and he doesn't understand whyand never stands up for me
* I moved all the way from CA to VA so he could be by his son and now I never see my family
* I feel like a single mother of three and I 24
* I want to loose weight and he doesn't support me and doesn't think i need too , hello i am 5'2 180lbs
* his ex wife is unbearable
I could go on and on
Busta (f)
Re: Unhappy In Love
« #8 on: July 17, 2006, 08:04 PM »

girl u need to leave him fast if u're not happy and considering all u've written there, ain't worth it.
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