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nkemkelly (m)
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How do i get to know a lady that truly loves me from her heart.you know what i've been fooled so much,please help me.
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cutiengozi (f)
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nkem, it's a pity u've been fooled several times, but that does not mean that u can't find true love. Basically I'd say the extent to which the lady is willing to sacrifice would be an indication of how much she loves you.
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nkemkelly (m)
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thanks cutiengozi,but the fact is that i don't still know those signs thats say `she loves me'. i hope someone can just give me details on those things that i would get to see in her that will make know i've gotten a committed love.
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akniy (m)
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nkem, those ladies pretend a lot. infact i would u describe a lady carrying another persons child and calling it urs, hmmmm, na wa oh.
when she really loves u, if u tell u don't want 2 c her again, when she comes back, then she loves u!!!
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fikky (f)
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akniy i agree with u that girls can pretend but i think u should know d girl so well that any move she makes wont be a suprise.i also agree with cutiengozi,if a girl does not love u, she might find it difficult to make sacrifices for you.
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Busta (f)
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True! Not withstanding, guys too pretend. The only thing is that don't start dating a girl/guy with so much expection because when u do, u end up gettin dispointment and hurt and heart broken.
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akniy (m)
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@fikky, don't u know that u ladies can pretend. infact, if it is possible they can jump from the sky without a parachutte, if u want them to do so
@ busta, i agree with u. but if u don't xpect much then how will the love grow
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Busta (f)
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@ akniy Dunno but i'm guessing it will grow with time  |
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nkemkelly (m)
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busta the fact is that i ain't getting any younger i just want to get to be with one person who truly loves me and i'm dead serious i feel they know this when i'm with them and they just go ahead and play with my heart.
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akniy (m)
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@busta, its not a matter of guessing  much expectation, gives room 4 love 2 grow  and thats wt u call time. @ nkem, u need to have a strong heart, identify what u want from your woman. don't balance your love( u must notlet her know u love her deeply.) just keep her guessing, but don't lose her. |
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favourite (f)
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Nkem on your own part, u should also be lovable, caring, not a fault finder. bc u can't sit down and be checking whether the girl loves u when u are not doing your own part well. u will always know if she loves u if not for anything but for her sacrifices. Good luck
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kajad (m)
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@Nkemkelly
If you are really serious to know the answer to your question I will tell you.
There is no way you will know if a lady truly loves you. You can only know how much she loves you when the chips are down. Since by permutation, the intelligent ones can accurately project a guy’s potentials. A guy whose chips will go down will not get them.
So my advice is to use your instinct, don’t dwell on what is said or done, but on what you feel. The law if intuition suggest that your first instinct is ‘always’ right.
So use it !
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tony Issey (m)
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the best way to know is to find another girlfriend if she loves u she would stay and fight if she doesn't she would leave try this u would be glad u did
it works
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darmy$ (f)
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abegi make una carry love tory go  |
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tngtech (m)
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Love nor dey exist ohhhhhhhhhhh  |
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darmy$ (f)
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e be like say e exist, but it is overrated  they say love is blind but i believe say e get three big frog eyes  |
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frank 3.16 (m)
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You can't know if a lady truely loves you, excerpt you are god, or you have divine power to see through people.
relationship is all about giving your best, with your head and not heart., it it works out, you thank god, but if it dosent you move on and try with some one else
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dutty (m)
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@poster u
asked for details right? here are the details to look out for:
1. she lets u answer her calls wenever she's ain't close by.
2. all her friends know that she tinks the world of u.
3. she cherishes your company wit or witout sex.
4. she calls u up just to hear your voice.
5. even when u think u know, she still tells u she has a G-spot and leads u to it,
, just to mention but a few.
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RichyBlacK (m)
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@poster u
asked for details right? here are the details to look out for:
1. she lets u answer her calls wenever she's ain't close by.
2. all her friends know that she tinks the world of u.
3. she cherishes your company wit or witout sex.
4. she calls u up just to hear your voice.
5. even when u think u know, she still tells u she has a G-spot and leads u to it,
, just to mention but a few.
Some good points right there. |
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Ujujoan (f)
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the best way to know is to find another girlfriend if she loves u she would stay and fight if she doesn't she would leave try this u would be glad u did
it works
In other words, the only way a lady shows her love is to stick with you while you dish out insults to her and display no regrards whatsovers for her as a person?  Guys please try to differentiate between love and desperation!! |
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Tattooboy (m)
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Ujujoan
In other words, the only way a lady shows her love is to stick with you while you dish out insults to her and display no regrards whatsovers for her as a person?
Guys please try to differentiate between love and desperation thats my baby @poster ask ujujoan she got a better idea |
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Ujujoan (f)
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thats my baby
@poster
ask ujujoan she got a better idea
And your point is?? |
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Tattooboy (m)
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Ujujoan
Any you point is?? Italian |
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Ujujoan (f)
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Italian Not really, I just want you to make your contribution and vamooze!!! |
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Tattooboy (m)
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@uju
u got a problem with me sweetie?
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Ujujoan (f)
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Nope, just with your fake endearments. Am not your baby and am not your sweetie!!!
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whitelexi (m)
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@Topic: If she can say it in front of her parents or her elder ones, it holds some strong elements of truth |
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