95 Per-cent Of Nigeria's Teenage Girls Cannot Boast Of Being Virgins!

@ mamaput

I disagree with the bulk of your contribution here

It appears to me that you believe that having more relationship only teaches you what you can take and what you cannot take from a man/woman. Obviously a person with such outlook will never stays in any relationship because no relationship is perfect.

If you have been teaching you girls this philosophy, you may wish to reconsider it because noting good will come out of it believe me.

Sexual chastity should be encouraged if not for anything but for the avoidance of HIV/STDs.

A respected mother like you should not come out to a public forum and tell young girls to go having sex because everybody is having it or that it’s good to check out what you can or cannot take in a relationship. 
You are entitled to have your perception of these things but to go peddling it as the right way is wrong; mama did not teach you to check out guys through having sex with them did she? 

bull s h i t i understand about HIV that has to do with unprotected sex, not sex before marriage some of you Nigerian men make me f u c k i n g sick talking about being a virgin, what for? when all, i mean all of you cheat on ya wife, go to the clubs and see who are there the married one are chatting women more than the single ones, hell the single one can't even get in there, so please if you want to talk about virginity START WITH YOUR SELF .

ARE YOU MARRIED IF SO WERE YOU A VIRGIN BEFORE?

IF YOU ARE NOT MARRIED, ARE YOU A VIRGIN.

IF MY DAUGHTER WANTS TO F You C K LET HER F You C K.

i will teach her about respecting her self and society and the need to protect herself against HIV and other STIs,  i will not tell her to wait on no dam man what the f u c k for.       

@coco29

I usually like to avoid hysterical contribution like yours where people are called name for there opinion, you can still disagree with me without being nasty.

I expected you to read my contribution and deduce where I was coming from b/4 attacking me, I never expressed an opinion about people being virgins; indeed you can f u ck and your daughter can f u ck whoever she pleases without any bother to me!

Please quote me right if you must.

               

mamaput please don't take it personal ok! the truth is both men and women have their own portionof the blame. men are already know to hump on what ever once u give them the opportunity. but on the contrary i think i would support the guys here not because am a guy or something but with recent developments i have noticed of recent some girls are something else.
take a ride to ma city for once, i stay in ph if i might say protitution is now a legal trade, with girls of all sizes and ages, infact every major junction now with a beer parlour in quote would have its own breed of girls hanging around. u can't go to club and enjoy your self because the girls are already hanging all around the place waiting for u to slip, well u might say that is the club what about in church these days, i was accousted by one- here is the conversation. - after service- hello hi r u going towards woji- well am going to artillery u canhop in i would drop u at the bus stop- ok thanks- while inthe car . what do u do ? i told her. then watch this- have any girl told u that u sure ar a fine guy- Jesus i shouted - thanks i know- she continues, what do u think if i come visit u some time i have been seein u around inchurch, i shouted really- ok why not come this evening i would be free - she hesitated hmm if i come this evening u would have topay for my services but i can just visit u now.
men this is no fiction come down to ph
but the basic truth is simple if the girls don't have customers(men) the bizness would have ended. so in a way the men are also responsible for picking up little girls (teenagers) whom in most cases due to hunger have been sent to use what they have to survive.

@Jay-O-Jay
N-A-I-V-E! . what for? People like you make me sick when all you can ask is "Who disvirgined who? It will take eternity to answer that. I mean it's like the chicken and the egg, which comes first? While I am not trying to absorb the men from any blames (as a matter of fact, I believe that men have more of the blames than women), i believe that the ability to change things around lies more in the woman than in the man.

@mamaput
I appreciate the fact that you are now beginning to allow good reasoning to prevail. As a mother I am sure you know that there is much to life and marriage than just having a good bang. Lets emphasize those other virtues and see things work out for real. Sex is good, no doubt, but I bet you it wouldn't really have matter if i have never had it. I mean I am as complete as ever if i don't have it and if I do, bingo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@coco29
i think a good way to approach this is consider world AIDS statistics. You will realise that it's the innocent younger girls who are either ignorant or too naive to demand for safe sex from their partner that often falls victim. Much of this can be avoided by telling them to close the gates until they are mature enough to take the decision.
Well for the married man palava, i think it's very unfair for you to entirely blame the men when we know that's what the girls actually want. It used to be "Oh you are married, I can't go out with you.God forbid!", but now it has changed to "You are married! But do you still love me, I am sure you are a man and you can handle it". Who is fooling who? If na you be man, you go say u no fit handle am. Haba!

@kajad
you speak my language man!!!!!!!!!!!!

yeah that is right and that is because the world is advancing and is growing rapidly and full of bad things anyway it depends on the individual if u know what u want in life then sex shouldn't be your priority and i think i'm an example of that

All I'm going to say is, who cares?  I don't.  Unless those girls were raped, they know what they were doing. And no I am not talking about little girls.  I am talking about girls 16 and older. It takes two to tango as they say.  If a girl is offering, then the boy should say no.  If the boy is pressuring, then the girl should say no.  Yes there is child porn, and children being molested but that goes on everywhere, and it seems like it's so hard to shut down.  Pedophiles are even sharing their files on the internet, making the crap easier to find for other perverts.  They also mask their identities very well which makes it even harder to find these assholes.  The point I'm making is, if the girl isn't forced to give her body up, and she does so willingly that is her business not yours. It seems like the starter of this topic is looking for a virgin to deflower himself.  Someone definitely has too much free time on their hands to worry about stupid ass topics like this.

I don't know why girls in Africa develop like they do, but over here in America we are putting the blame on the foods we eat.  They are filled with preservatives, steroids, and other chemicals.  I developed faster than any of the other girls at my school and I was only 11.  There was a young girl who as 10, but she looked like she was 21.  She was tall, and her body was way overdeveloped.  Sometimes it's just nature taking it's place, or here in America it's steroids taking place.  Even young boys here look like grown men.  It's really scary, and some people even catch a case because these kids don't even look their age and even lie about it.  I tell ya.  I had older men trying to pick me which is sad.  Who knows why kids are developing the way they do, it's just up to the parents to instill in them values so they don't go out selling themselves short.

WHAT!! i was raped and i am not promiscuous where the hell did you get that idea   i find it hard to submit to a man i do not think that will ever happen, i hate men to talk down to me i get real aggressive but promiscuous no mate.

 ???abi e be like say things don change,before to lose ones virginity before marriage was a taboo,but this days it seems the reverse is true i.e to reach adolesence without losing virginity is a taboo

i was about 6-7 years old and i know it sound strange to say but in some ways i am glad it happen, i am affected in that i do not value men in the least and i do not give second chances, how ever i am very strong i do not think that there is any thing a man can do to hurt me( after all they have done the ultimate).



and i do not believe women should keep them selves for men, what for men are the most stupid creatures on this earth, some of u have beautiful wives, girlfriends and still u cheat and that women as stupid as she is will forgive only for him to say sorry again

the last time i remember being a virgin i was six years old but that does not represent who i am.

What's so special about a tiny membrane that stretches across a woman's entrance? What do you say to those who's hymens are so tough they have to be surgically punctured by a doctor. Are they any less woman because they were 'disvirgined' by a tool?

All this hype about virginity is very irrelevant in my opinion. As long as you kjeep a clean mind [unlike me  ], I don't think you have any problem. 

I feel you Gigitte. But somehow I don't think men are worried about women/girls on this level.

I think they just want to be the "first to get there".