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NOLA (f)
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What Is Bad In Giving A Guy Something?
Is there anything wrong in giving a guy gift, money etc without collecting from them, personally i don't have anything against it, because i still give even after breakin up, but people say diff things about that. please wats your own view about this.
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dondele (m)
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i got some girls that buy stuff for me and i really appreciate them cuzz it shows that they not only care but are willing to give to you without asking for nothing back. it is really nice. a girl that doz that is really adorable.
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ikamefa (f)
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Is there anything wrong in giving a guy gift, money etc without collecting from them, personally i don't have anything against it, because i still give even after breakin up, but people say diff things about that. please wats your own view about this.
theres nothing wrong in giving gifts to a guy,but i would not continue to give gifts after breaking up with a guy |
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symple
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It's a nice thing. I'D appreciate if I have a girl like that.
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Badman888 (m)
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thats is definately not bad, it should be vice versa for the guy and girl to buy gifts, shows shes not just a gold digger chopping your cash,
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soulpatrol (f)
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question: is it wierd to give your guy flowers?
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ikamefa (f)
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question: is it weird to give your guy flowers?
let me generalize here and say that most men don't appreciate flowers, in ma small head i think its a womans thing, soo its definitely going to be weird giving your guy flowers, except he has a well developed female traits( i hope u know what i mean) or hes gay |
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soulpatrol (f)
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let me generalize here and say that most men don't appreciate flowers, in ma small head i think its a womans thing, soo its definitely going to be weird giving your guy flowers, except he has a well developed female traits( i hope u know what i mean) or hes gay
very funny. he thinks its weird too, but im just openminded like that. love giving people i love stuff, whether guy or girl. funny thing is that i looooove flowers and he never gives them to me because he thinks it will make him look like a sissy. |
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LiquidMind (m)
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Each time i receive gift from my girl i allways service her clean and neat
I love receiving gifts from my cuties,
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eveseh (f)
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i can gave him gift,but not money
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mukina2 (f)
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yeah gifts but no money  |
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esor (m)
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There ain't nothing wrong you know for a girl to show a guy with gifts. But though i'm not really down with a girl giving a guy money. That does not sound too good. Get a job he's out of job. And if not then that don't sound healthy for a well meaning relationship. Well as they say, perception is the key. We all see differently. But remember what ain't paste ain't pastery.
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esor (m)
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There ain't nothing wrong you know for a girl to show a guy with gifts. But though i'm not really down with a girl giving a guy money. That does not sound too good. Get a job he's out of job. And if not then that don't sound healthy for a well meaning relationship. Well as they say, perception is the key. We all see differently. But remember what ain't paste ain't pastery.
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lagerwhenindoubt (m)
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hey, no one ever died from freeloading, its its okay to get gifts, money, (sex) from a girl without actually paying or asking for it. I think it i sooo today. i mean that would really give me the courage to sit down in front of the TV and prepare for an interesting football season. seriously, i've been giving gifts, buying suya and giving out money since secondary school, form 1. good lord!  it is time for some Git back. (The Big Payback) |
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hot-angel (f)
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Nahh it's not bad.
It's just sad if the girl gives the guy TOOOO Much stuff. ALL the damn fxcking time without getting nothing back. Now that's sad, and BAD.
I have a male friend. All these girls be giving him stuff like he's some god. I mean it's soo sad when i look at those girls, and he tell me 'i don't even like her oo'. They get him all these stuffs, and im like dayum! One already promised him d new side kick three. Talk about sad world.
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ddizzle (f)
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nope, i like it both ways u buy me a gift and the next time i buy you something so at the end of the day theres no scene with you screaming I BOUGHT YOU THIS
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diddy4 (m)
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i like it. at least i aint the only one giving.
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Mystique (f)
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Rule numba 1: Never give a guy money!!!
**But you could give gifts sha***
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diddy4 (m)
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rule #2 never give a girl your credit card you might end up paying for your life.
**but u can take her shopping shaa**
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osteen (m)
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My angel supports me in evey way she can and its giving the feeling that i have some one working with me. Giving gifts is ok. But giving money to a guy on a frequent bases could just be at your detrement, especially if the guy is irresponsible. You might not even know if he loves u for the or for u  |
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oyindayo (f)
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theres nutin bad in a girl buyin a gift 4 a boi. d love is all that matters. d boi isnt d only 1 that is meant 2 show love u no. its meant 2 be 2 ways
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toptho (f)
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gifts are cool to get for guys but i don't think money,only if he is in desperate need of it.
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lawjac (f)
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There is absolutely nothing wrong for a girl to give a guy gifts, though on my part there is a clause for giving money a girl can assist financially to her friend or lover if need be .  |
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babymine (f)
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Its cool to give gifts but definitely not money.
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micklplus (m)
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Han Han ! thats what i call SPEND to finish ! Theres nothing bad if a girl decided to load a guy with gifts. occasional money rain isnt bad as well ! it becomes a problem if the guy takes it for granted as a way of not being responsible. personally, i don't see anything wrong in it ! Shebi na love , abegi do your thing jare Cheers |
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needeeg (m)
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hmmmm well Nola what you're talking about is nomal thing u know, because this days babe!! gave there bobo money because maybe he's in condition or she just feel like giving him, or maybe he use to gave her and she feel like or what this guy is giving me is too much, i wish one day to pay him back,
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NOLA (f)
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thanks yall for ya responds  . |
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Idekeson (m)
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It's bad that it happens less frequently. Is it because a lot women can't afford the simplest of gifts? Or should I say they lack the spirit of giving?
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kobokanaka
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To me giving gift is expressing how you feel about him,giving money is to assist.
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;)ok they say there s love in sharing but for christ s sake she should ever ever give the guy money gifts are lovely except if the guy is in dire nid and on priveous occasion she s given him money then she s free just once i repeat just once i was a victim of giving my boo sorry ex money and he took me fopr a ride always demanding more just to feed his high pals so ladies hear me . ok 
