Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery?

Family members are often around during a woman's delivery. Ladies will you let your husband watch your delivery?

If not, who will you be comfortable to watch your delivery?

Guys will you want to watch your wife deliver?  If my wife doesn't want me to watch her delivery, I will be perfectly fine with it.

Oh yes

If he is not there I will hold it until he comes 

A fat YES!!!

of freaking course.

He was there for all of the births of all of our children.

Yes, I definately would want him to be there.

Coward

He was there with both. The first one he actually held one leg and the nurse held the other. The second one he sat behind the doctor and watched the whole show.

Why would any man even want to see that!! 

it depends on what the man wants, but for me, i owuld want him there.

Yes, we did it 2gether so he has 2 be there when the baby is cmng,  shikena!!

Not my experience.
It actually made us closer after he saw what I went through to bring him  heirs into our little "Osisi Kingdom"
And he said a big thank you! and also added that he was extremely proud of me.
and all the cards that came with the beautiful bouquet of flowers he brought always read
"baby, thank you. You are one brave woman,I love you"

benincitys (f) and plus_Queen

It is not a rule, it is what average happens most of the time.
If during the deliverance he stay the side of head and don't see the pussy is one thing, if he helps is another thing.

Anyway, I forgot almost of all nigerian men (pay attention, almost not all) doenst make oral sex

karma where's david?
I haven't seen him in a while
Is he sick?
eloped with a woman?
I know you folks yim and yam
tell him I've been asking of him

It will be nice to have him there

"I was there to give my wife support during her almost 12 hours of labor. I took a lot of abuse, something about being in the worst pain of your life makes women say things they don't really mean, or I hope she didn't mean. Anyway I did not watch my daughter being born, and I told Doc up front not to even ask me to cut the cord, or I would be out like a light, and they would be tending to me as well as my wife. It did have an affect on our Love life afterward, but I guess anybody that only got about 4 hours of sleep a night, myself included, would not even think about making Love."

"And I can completely understand how seeing it can change anyone's perception of and attitudes towards the mother's genitalia. It can happen to women, too, the switch from "woman" to "mother", with no room for sexuality. Usually it wears off after a little while (once the physical traumas have healed up), but I'm sure there are cases where it doesn't."

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"The wedding is not the marriage, and the childbirth is not the family. The real happiness is to be found (or lost) in marriage and family, not in weddings and childbirth. Real life is lived in all those ordinary days, not on those big occasions that seem to matter so much when you're starting out."
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Here's an interesting piece in Slate about how harshly people reacted to the news that witnessing childbirth destroyed some men's sexual attraction to the woman who had given birth. Since men can't control whether they feel sexual desire or not, shouldn't women want to hear what the real facts are, even if those facts interfere with the sentimental birthing room dreams they have in mind? It's much more important to preserve your future sex life then to try to live up to some idealized picture of childbirth. If having your partner in the room really does endanger that sex life, women should think clearly about whether they want to take that risk.


http://althouse/2005/08/must-should-man-witness-childbirth.html

What am I hiding that he have not seen already?