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justkunmi (m)
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Hey people,as old and familiar this might be,i still feel one needs to know more stuff about this issue. It mite sound a bit like a cliché but can a girl ask a guy out? If no, should she then keep quiet and suffer in silence? If yes, wont she be seen as a desperate want to be? want to know,
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Raymand (m)
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How desperate can a girl get?
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faa (f)
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I don't think she'll be seen as desperate if she did hit on a guy. Times are changing and so are women.
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shawna (f)
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How desperate can a girl get?
how dumb can u get? we are living in a different time now women can ask men out its not a crime and it doesnt mean the woman or girl is desperate  ps: don't take the how dumb can u get part seriously i was just a little pissed by ur post but no hard feelings   |
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toptho (f)
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guys say it's o.k but when u get to the core of it they still believe a guy shld make the first move.
I just read a book"He's just not that into you" and they actually talked bout this
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Aimee4love (f)
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I think you can hint that you are intrested because some guys are shy and they need to know that they might have a chance. But the guy should make the first move I think.
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diddy4 (m)
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i find it hot and really cool. i actually respect a girl that does that. she knows what she wants and she wann@ grab it without wasting time.
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kheme (m)
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What are you talking about??? who said girls are not supposed to ask guys out???
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iice (f)
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Modern day, modern times, u can do as u please
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fabian (f)
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Nuttin wrong wiff that!
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justkunmi (m)
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I'ld really love it if a girls asks me out. kind of being at the receiving end. want to know how girls feel when guys ask them out.
It is really not a bad thing dependin on d way you look at it.what should really be d issue is what if a girl builds up courage to ask a guy out and d guy says NO!
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justkunmi (m)
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I'ld really love it if a girl asks me out. kind of being at the receiving end. want to know how a girl feels when a guy asks her out.
It is really not a bad thing dependin on d way you look at it.what should really be d issue is what if a girl builds up courage to ask a guy out and d guy says NO!
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justkunmi (m)
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I'ld really love it if a girl asks me out. kind of being at the receiving end. want to know how a girl feels when a guy asks her out.
It is really not a bad thing dependin on d way you look at it.what should really be d issue is what if a girl builds up courage to ask a guy out and d guy says NO!
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Raymand (m)
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If my girlfriend had asked me out i'D probably sleep with her and later on end the relationship because i'D have no value for her! asking a guy out as a girl is just plain strange, makes the guy feel at the top of the world and you a little filty desperate 'peasant' wanting to bask in the embiance of his glory! (whatever that means) but you get the point, |
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iice (f)
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No we don't get the point, peasant? lol, how lordy
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diddy4 (m)
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@raymond
no offence man but u need to leave that current boundary and come out to the real world.
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mukina2 (f)
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@raymond
no offence man but u need to leave that current boundary and come out to the real world.
damn right man think its time for you to grw up |
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justkunmi (m)
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Yeah raymond ,u need to grow up. And d freak do u mean by basking in the ambience of his glory? all that grammar,in this hard times? Small small o. I'll call a girl bold and i'll respect her if she asks me out.
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justkunmi (m)
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Yeah raymond ,u need to grow up. And d freak do u mean by basking in the ambience of his glory? all that grammar,in this hard times? Small small o. I'll call a girl bold and i'll respect her if she asks me out.
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justkunmi (m)
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Yeah raymond ,u need to grow up. And d freak do u mean by basking in the ambience of his glory? all that grammar,in this hard times? Small small o. I'll call a girl bold and i'll respect her if she asks me out.
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SOJ (m)
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Nothing wrong with that, in most cases ya'll findout that the guy had it cumming (, oops,sorry coming!)
I don't mind if i really dig d babe.
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SOJ (m)
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Yeah,so what? Da gals outright bold. truth is in most cases,d guy saw it cumming (oops,sorry coming!).I don't mind one bit.What's crucial is if u dig d babe.
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aykay (m)
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its cool sometimes but what if the guy is just an opportunist or doesn't fancy the girl ? the girl askin him out just makes it easier for the guy to play along abit,get what he wants and then get out. its ok 4 girls to ask guys out but they should be careful about the type of guy.
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funloving (m)
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So how many of you girls here asked a guy out ? How did he respond ?
And how many of you guys have been asked out by a girl ? How did you respond ?
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Raymand (m)
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its cool sometimes but what if the guy is just an opportunist or doesn't fancy the girl ? the girl askin him out just makes it easier for the guy to play along abit,get what he wants and then get out. its ok 4 girls to ask guys out but they should be careful about the type of guy.
True talk! and being mordern or 'moving with the times' doesn't mean doing something people never did before, imagine a stereotyped high school geek girl 'toasting' a stereotyped high school hunk!, THATS mordern day reality, it NEVER happens! rarely if it ever does and it ALWAYS ends up in heart break. My girlfriend is more popular than me in school (she's a smart busty chick  ) and even though she reeeeaaaaalllllllyyyyy loves me (well thats how she puts it) she never came up to me to tell me that! just like that kid in the kids TV program 'Hey Anold' even though 'helga' is madly in love with Anold, she doesn't go up to him to tell him that (sorry to use a kids show to illustrate my point, that DOESN'T mean I'm not mature as some of you think) Girls show be wise enough to hold up emotions, hell KNOW YOUR WORTH ladies, don't cheaply give it away just because people say its 'mordern' to do! |
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iice (f)
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Toasting and giving it away is not the same thing, u can toast without jumpin in2 the sack 
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justkunmi (m)
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how do u toast without jumping into the sac? iice
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mightyleks
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its not rediculous if a girl toast a guy but their might b much value 4d girl |
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lewa (m)
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Absolutely nothing wrong!A chick was made the move once and i never suspected she liked me.It doesn't deminish
any sense of respectability or dignity.
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kellorah (f)
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girls should make moves but i'm never going to ask anyone to go out with me. u like me, u ask me out!
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