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rickky421 (m)
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Ladies, what about the judgment of the woman in this case? Yes, stop means stop, but given scenario she painted I don't know how many men could have stopped. That is not even taking into account the fact that the guy had not had any for a long time. Asking a guy to stop at that moment is like asking a driver going at 180 MPH to come to a dead stop.
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ibkaye
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Ladies, what about the judgment of the woman in this case? Yes, stop means stop, but given scenario she painted I don't know how many men could have stopped. That is not even taking into account the fact that the guy had not had any for a long time. Asking a guy to stop at that moment is like asking a driver going at 180 MPH to come to a dead stop.
It may have been hard for him but it needed to have been done, if she has kept him without sex for 'so long' (3months) she obviously has her reasons which are important to her. |
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Pennywise
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OK I am nominating Ibkaye the official legal rep for all rape victims on nairaland. So if you ve ever been raped, if you think you were raped or you might be raped, she is the one to talk to. But if you want to be raped, you may talk to chamotex  |
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ibkaye
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OK I am nominating Ibkaye the official legal rep for all rape victims on nairaland. So if you ve ever been raped, if you think you were raped or you might be raped, she is the one to talk to. But if you want to be raped, you may talk to chamotex Lmao!  |
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Missy B (f)
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She may just have enjoyed the fondling/foreplay etc, they had an understanding, she does not want sexual intercourse, he forced her, therefore it was RAPE.
He RAPED her.
There is a difference between Sexual Foreplay and Sexual Intercourse.
He RAPED her!
You see baby sista . . . you will not understand an issue like this unless you are married jst like me  or unless you have eaten the forbidden fruit.  j/k You don't give a rat a piece of meat to hold for you and still tell it 'I'm not ready to lose this meat now so don't eat it' . . . . It jst doesn't work that way.If you must abstain . . . you must also not create an enviroment that will cause you to idulge in the act. |
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ibkaye
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You see baby sista . . . you will not understand an issue like this unless you are married jst like me or unless you have eaten the forbidden fruit. j/k C'mon sharrap dia! Roflmao! You don't give a rat a piece of meat to hold for you and still tell it 'I'm not ready to lose this meat now so don't eat it' . . . . It jst doesn't work that way.If you must abstain . . . you must also not
create an enviroment that will cause you to idulge in the act.
I'm not saying she put herself in a good position, I am sure she is wise enough to know that what she did was not sensible, infact, it reeked of senselessness, knowing full well that the type of play she was playing could lead to something else, fair enough, but at the same time, No means No, whether she said it/changed her mind an hour before or even 1 second, of course it would not be easy for him (body no be wood o) but that is just tough, life is tough, he should have stopped when she said No, he did not, therefore classiying this case as RAPE. |
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spikedcylinder
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Ladies, what about the judgment of the woman in this case? Yes, stop means stop, but given scenario she painted I don't know how many men could have stopped. That is not even taking into account the fact that the guy had not had any for a long time. Asking a guy to stop at that moment is like asking a driver going at 180 MPH to come to a dead stop.
I'm sure he had to have it this time, I mean, after waiting 3 whole terrifying months.  |
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Pennywise
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Everybody hear chamooo when he does his thing
shut up bitch swallow,
if you can't swallow,
shut up bitch gargle![/7]
[size=7pt]Na im profile o
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Tgirl4real (f)
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You see baby sista . . . you will not understand an issue like this unless you are married jst like me or unless you have eaten the forbidden fruit. j/k You don't give a rat a piece of meat to hold for you and still tell it 'I'm not ready to lose this meat now so don't eat it' . . . . It jst doesn't work that way.If you must abstain . . . you must also not create an enviroment that will cause you to idulge in the act.  |
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rickky421 (m)
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I'm sure he had to have it this time, I mean, after waiting 3 whole terrifying months. Yes, three whole month. I feel the guys pain. I guess finally he said "today be today." See how you women dismiss this as rubbish, but for guys this is rough. Don't get me wrong, I believe stop means stop, just throwing out how it looked from the mans point of view. Would it make you ladies feel better if he cheated on her with someone who was willing to provide what he wanted? |
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Moyola (f)
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ahan! ahan!! y re u peeppz makin 3monthz seem a year or smth. . . . |
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chamotex (m)
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ahan! ahan!! y re u peeppz makin 3monthz seem a year or smth. . . . a year  365 days (that minus leap year o) |
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Tgirl4real (f)
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:-x :-x :-x
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Missy B (f)
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C'mon sharrap dia! Roflmao! but at the same time, No means No, whether she said it/changed her mind an hour before or even 1 second, Ibk You dare tell your elder sista to sharap? Lucky you are offline . . . . I for e-slap you now.  What are you sayin?that babe didn't change her mind . . . she meant yes rite frm the start. We are talkin' of a girl who is pushin' in the rod wit her hand and at same time sayin' wit her mouth ' No . . . I'm not ready for this' . . . C'mon!!!That hausa guy should be teachin' you some tins O if you dare play this game wit him . . . .I pirri you. Tgirl Werin na? |
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Tgirl4real (f)
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Tgirl Werin na? torey dey naa. d thn don happen to me before . . . but no tell anyone sha |
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Moyola (f)
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ah knw peeepz lyke u kant do witout it buh,. . . .iz dat too lung? |
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Sabuni
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Ibk You dare tell your elder sista to sharap? Lucky you are offline . . . . I for e-slap you now. What are you sayin?that babe didn't change her mind . . . she meant yes rite frm the start. We are talkin' of a girl who is pushin' in the rod wit her hand and at same time sayin' wit her mouth ' No . . . I'm not ready for this' . . . C'mon!!!That hausa guy should be teachin' you some tins O if you dare play this game wit him . . . .I pirri you. Tgirl Werin na? Lol, well, although it may seem as though she wanted it from the start, we don't actually know this, we can only guess Or who knows, maybe she wanted it at the start, but then changed her mind, she has the right to do so, even though not very wise of her I must say, the guy should have stopped when she said no  @Chamo 3 months aint that long, plzzzzzzz |
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darefestus (m)
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Y'all shouldn't let the poster feel she did the right thing
She shouldn't have allowed touching of anykind
The guy body no be firewood na
Abi you think say e easy!
@Moyola
A year is too long
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agaba123 (m)
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torey dey naa. d thn don happen to me before . . . but no tell anyone sha
Wat? |
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darefestus (m)
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@Agaba123 What and Garri make eba for your wedding day? |
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makavele (m)
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@post Makavele calls dat: CHILD'S PLAY! you could have resisted him, leaving him 2 choices: 1. he could leave ya alone or 2. out-muscle u, (being a guy; he's stronger) option 2 is what i call rape, and u could take it up legally against him, so i presume u enjoyed the show! when are u guys gonna act part II. can't wait to watch |
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Sabuni
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How do you know she did not resist him? Yes, she did not say she did but neither did she say she didn't |
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Bossman (m)
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Sometimes it's good to check someone's postings to really get the truth or at least some info about what type of individual they are. here is a quote from her posting in the thread below. Not saying she did not object to him, but she may have also led him on at some point. "i like it when my man puts me on a table, makes lie back and just bangs away" http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=160531.msg2906990#msg2906990 |
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untainted
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@Agaba123 What and Garri make eba for your wedding day? df u bad o! by the way, u de work for nairaland? U've been around for almost 4 straight hours now. How much seun de pay, maybe i go apply to join u my brother. |
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spikedcylinder
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Sometimes it's good to check someone's postings to really get the truth or at least some info about what type of individual they are. here is a quote from her posting in the thread below. Not saying she did not object to him, but she may have also led him on at some point. "i like it when my man puts me on a table, makes lie back and just bangs away" http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=160531.msg2906990#msg2906990Ah! I suppose I should just quit defending her now. |
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darefestus (m)
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@Unattained
Yes o!
Seun dey pay me good money o
Infact i must not go offline for one second.
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agaba123 (m)
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@Agaba123 What and Garri make eba for your wedding day? what is the difference between garri and eba? |
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darefestus (m)
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@Agaba123 Water Sometimes it's good to check someone's postings to really get the truth or at least some info about what type of individual they are. here is a quote from her posting in the thread below. Not saying she did not object to him, but she may have also led him on at some point. "i like it when my man puts me on a table, makes lie back and just bangs away" http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=160531.msg2906990#msg2906990Thanks brother Now i know better She is a bloody Hypocrite Thank God i never believed her. |
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