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origina9ja (f)
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u gt 2 consider wateva reason why she said no
it called self respect darling
anways carry on
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r_o_b_b_y (m)
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@origina9ja
if you give me £50 and i say "no now. . ." while smilling and still eyeing the money, tell me honestly. what will you think?
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origina9ja (f)
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origina9ja (f)
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na only £50
wettin dat go do me
abeg jo
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agaba123 (m)
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I don't know about naija but in UK, as soon as she says "NO", u best stop, even if the tip of your kini was just about to enter the opening, freeze like jordin sparks, and retreat for international obidinma. It doesn't matter if it was practically or automatically or emotionally, just hold your body, get up, dress up and pick your things sharp sharp, and avoid that particular girl for the rest of your life!
You are correct. |
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galatico (m)
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You're such a fool!!! who are you trying to fool? Dumb ass how could agree to such things when you know a Guy is always a Guy and would definatly be aroused by such stuffs or do you want to just punish the poor Guy of just kissing, touching and cuddling? serves you right.
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r_o_b_b_y (m)
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You're such a fool!!! who are you trying to fool? Dumb ass how could agree to such things when you know a Guy is always a Guy and would definatly be aroused by such stuffs or do you want to just punish the poor Guy of just kissing, touching and cuddling? serves you right.
This is very unnecessary. You dont have to insult her for seeking help. |
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origina9ja (f)
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Robby ezactly my thought dat wat nairaland is bout wat cnt happen 4 real life peepz would cum nd show dere ugly talent on internet  @galatico i dnt think d babe wnt your insult nd right nw i think she need courage |
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chamotex (m)
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What about gals that keep saying 'no, no no', and at the same time taking off their clothes by themselves o.
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yomi123nl (m)
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What about gals that keep saying 'no, no no', and at the same time taking off their clothes by themselves o.
You are damn right, I've witnessed a similar scenario. |
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May kelly (f)
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Nonsence! He raped you and vice visa. You did not tell us the truth. You were in a relationship for what? Courtship for marriage OR for Boyfriend? And you were sleeping in his arms probably placing your head and others on his body. Who are you fooling; you or them? Now you slept in his arms as firewood that desen't have a sensation.
Please be honest with yourslf and keep your body because your "Body is the Temple of God" Therefore Keep it Holy.
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stillwater (f)
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is nut a mata of using 'no' 2 juztify rape,
letz phaze it,
some gyals aktuali say
'no, no' but act 'yea yea' That should not be a reason to assume she wants it. Who made guys mind readers to decipher what a girl's thinking?Is it not better to take no for no and yes for yes instead of jumping into conclusions and getting into unwarranted troubles? |
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r_o_b_b_y (m)
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That should not be a reason to assume she wants it. Who made guys mind readers to decipher what a girl's thinking?Is it not better to take no for no and yes for yes instead of jumping into conclusions and getting into unwarranted troubles?
is it not thesame girls that accuse us of beign clueless when we fail to understand their hints? Aren't girls very complicated? damn! |
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stillwater (f)
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is it not thesame girls that accuse us of beign clueless when we fail to understand their hints?
Aren't girls very complicated? damn!
Being called clueless or having a criminal record to your name? You can have your pick. |
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tpia
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the thing wey wan happen don happen. I dont really see the reason why the OP is crying- you dont want sex but you're sleeping with a guy on a bed with no one else in the house. If you want sex nko? You go meet him in the office in a bikini?  If the thing happen for naija no case there. If na abroad, then can you in good conscience report it as rape. Are you one of those women who like enticing a man then backing away. Not every guy can handle that. In any case, you played with fire and got a suntan. From the shocking links posted, e be like say nothing spoil. ie not the first time. |
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origina9ja (f)
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If the thing happen for naija no case there. If na abroad, then can you in good conscience report it as rape.
does that mean you can report the case 2 police in nigeria:-\ |
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megastar1 (f)
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3month or more it doesnt matter i still believe it is rape. she said NO maybe she was scared to get physical (maybe) some people get helpless when scared or in certain positions. the fact about body no be wood screw that. i have bin dating this guy 4 more that 7months, i fancy him, he is cool,sweet almost everytin u want in a guy, we spend weekends together, sleep in the same hotel room, make out and all but NO SEX .when i say no he respects that and when he gets really carried away i give him a job  . so i say it is rape. well my guy is patience with me cause am *** and he says he really loves me and he is hoping one day and real soon i would feel de same 4 him. @ de body no be wood part he is no saint and he might be getting his piece of ass somewhere else who knows. but the fact remains that when i say no it is NO |
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ENASKI (m)
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if u don't want to get raped again, don't sleep over. its quite difficult for a guy to lie beside a halfnaked lady and pretend its just a log of wood.
Be wise!!!
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origina9ja (f)
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and the guy should respect the fact she said no
abi what part of no does he not understand
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Ndipe (m)
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Rape is a crime!
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origina9ja (f)
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serious 1 for dat matter
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mccloud224 (m)
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You got raped huh?That's bad?I'm curious though, how did he do it?Did he put a knife to your throat or a gun to your head?Did he threaten you with acid?Did he attempt to swallow poison if he didn't have his way?I'm pretty sure none of the above happened.
Now, you've both been spending time together,kissing and holding hands and most recently, sleeping in each others arms.Can you take an oath in the court of nairaland that you didn't have the idea of having sex at the back of your mind?Not for once?Can you take an oath that you have never had fantasies of making love to him?
Come on, for goodness sake, we are human beings and have needs.What he (might) have done may be wrong but it was bound to happen sooner or later.If you weren't ready, that's understandable but you definitely opened your legs at the dying minute.If you ask me, i'd say you wanted it.That's the truth.
It's a shame that the rape word is used carelessly these days.Maybe you should watch the crime and investigation channel more often and then, you'll know what real rape is.Thank God we are in 9ja else you'd probably be pressing charges and the poor guy would be looking at 10 years or more in the penitentiary.
You need advice?Call him and find out how he feels about you after the "act".
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blissieng (f)
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Hmmmmmmmm
@Poster,
If its really rape as you call it, you will not in this life or the next think of what you said, talkless of typing it.
OR was the (below quote) a joke? IT MUST BE JOKE right?
EVERYONE, THAT WAS A JOKE! A rather funny one.
'Now for like two days now, i havn't called him cos my affections for him has redused a bit thot i still love him a lot cos he is a kind and gentle guy. I just don't know waht to say to him on phone or what to do when i see him. '
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Phillfree (m)
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That's bad, whn white girls r payin we blacks here to screw them, my brothers r at home hustlin for cunt's, damn.
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keyne (f)
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@ poster
y were u sleeping in his arms?body no b wood,abeg.
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