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michelin89 (f)
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What nonsense is this? If una wan speak igbo, abeg make una create another thread! Na only una get native language? hissssssss 
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chisimdi (f)
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What nonsense is this? If una wan speak igbo, abeg make una create another thread! Na only una get native language? hissssssss  Nawa for you,y body go dey pepper u because of native language,anysha if u can't beat them y nt join them or beta still create ur own.LOL
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michelin89 (f)
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Nawa for you,y body go dey pepper u because of native language,anysha if u can't beat them y nt join them or beta still create your own.LOL
1. Nawa for them 2. Body nor dey pepper me but i am highly irritated. This is an English forum so why speak in a langauge others can't understand? In fact it is very disrespectful! 3. I am not interested in challenging them, but they should know better than to turn this thread into an igbo chatting room!
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chisimdi (f)
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1. Nawa for them 2. Body nor dey pepper me but i am highly irritated. This is an English forum so why speak in a langauge others can't understand? In fact it is very disrespectful! 3. I am not interested in challenging them, but they should know better than to turn this thread into an igbo chatting room!
1STLY this particular thread does nt hv anytin 2 do wit native language,2ndly there is no restriction of language on any thread,3rdly u did't even answer d thread radar u went off point.
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Siena (m)
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Not sure if it's right to stereotype, but I'll answer the question the way I see it.
Some married ladies put on weight, because possibly, especially with full-time housewives, they become less active.
It could also be due to different eating habits.
Some put on weight becomes they are content with their lot as married women. Stress during dating can make one lose weight.
Either way, you tend to grow with your wife. If you truly love her, you wouldn't notice her weight gain. Besides, you'D probably gain weight too.
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michelin89 (f)
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@ chis
Darling, just in case you haven't noticed it, this thread is quite old and I havee said my piece a long time ago.
Now back to your remark, NO OTHER LANGUAGE BUT ENGLISH! Check the regulations yourself!
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Rlst84sale (m)
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Don't different factors contribute to people gaining weight?, such as diet, life style, stress, most importantly child birth. All these factors not withstanding if people eat properly abstain from most chemical laden foods, soda, fried/junk foods I strongly believe their chances of gaining weight is much less. Of course if they can add moderate exercises to it it certainly would be helpful as well. All been said, most women don't find most of those life changing steps necessary after marriage thinking that they are now married so there is no worry about their husband with them gaining weight, those that have children are so preoccupied with kids that they hardly find time for their own life. Also a lot of husbands do not make time to help their wives, so what the heck pack it on baby. So guys let's not blame women let's help them they are worth it and more.
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lucabrasi (m)
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both men and women put on weight after the wedding,as the woman is cooking d meals the formerly single man isnt used to eating,so the guy is wolfing it down so most men after the wedding always develop a beer belly as well,i think its all about understanding each other,eating healthy and exercising together not blaming one party
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dangel
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I think it is because some women lust after food like a drug and they become lazy about looking after their figures because they have their man. Also, they start to eat the same portions as their husbands even though they don't need as much food, so they gain weight. My wife just started eating like crazy after the wedding and has grown quite fat very quickly, as you can see. She is always hungry and always snacking between meals. Sometimes when I look at her, I am shocked by the transformation.  
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Ruby_Pearl (f)
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1. Baby fat after having babies, some women can't lose the weight they gain during pregnancy 2. Wanting to impress their husband by cooking various types of food that he'll enjoy, cooking more than 3 times a day like he wants. Take a Naija man for ex, they want food more than 10 times a day 
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kaylonda (f)
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Years ago, when earth was still sane, and our ancestors alive, being big never used 2 b a crime. Today, the trend is 2 insult fat people who most times happen to be better behaved , my answer 2 ur post is 2 ask God. a couple of people can get slim while others refuse 2 that doesnt make it a crime? 
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KarmaMod (f)
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God would just mention the sin against gluttony. 
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ula (f)
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I'm married, i have 2 kids amd I'm not fat, infact i look like one who isnt even married, so my dear, its not all ladies
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Akinagirl (f)
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Exactly Ula.
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Janeesa (f)
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well why do men get pot bellies? too much beer perhaps?
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A-40 (m)
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Once the lady gets married she gets complacent and concludes she has the man wrapped around his fingers but again after bearing two or three kids its kind of hard to retain their normal shape so its not always their fault
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davidylan* (m)
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Not sure if it's right to stereotype, but I'll answer the question the way I see it.
Some married ladies put on weight, because possibly, especially with full-time housewives, they become less active.
It could also be due to different eating habits.
Some put on weight becomes they are content with their lot as married women. Stress during dating can make one lose weight.
Either way, you tend to grow with your wife. If you truly love her, you wouldn't notice her weight gain. Besides, you'D probably gain weight too.
you seem to always want to "say the right thing". Always ends up coming across as unreal. if you truly love your wife u'D notice her weight gain especially if you know she could be at risk for diabetes and cardiac related disease later in life. if you hate her you can go on pretending to be the "model" man by ignoring her weight.
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tRoOE (f)
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This one is a lie jare, not all women get fat after marriage, especially those that are very active My mom still looks the same nor is her stomach big For a women at her age and she's still look beautiful 
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dangel
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I do beleive that many women are preocupied with their weight and figures when the are younger, but after they get married or maybe get older, they seem more interested in eating well than in staying thin  
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rubi (f)
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Lack of discipline in food intake
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wavemasta (m)
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If my woman gets fat after marriage I will praise the lord  because I was never one for skinny women anyways. As long as her health isn't in jeopardy, and she can carry herself, abeg, I no send.
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syren
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If my woman gets fat after marriage I will praise the lord  because I was never one for skinny women anyways. As long as her health isn't in jeopardy, and she can carry herself, abeg, I no send. mmmmhhh  I don't' trust this poster. R u sure? Don't see many men who actually want their wife to get fat, but hey, as long as there's love, who cares. 
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dangel
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What do people think of the change in my wife's weight? What would you do in my situiation?  
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n-guage (m)
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Is that really your wife?
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Uche2nna (m)
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Drill Eat, baby, drill eat
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dangel
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Is that really your wife?
Yes, a photo from when we first met and one from earlier this year
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n-guage (m)
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Sorry man. Dude I know saying this makes me a jerk but it sucks to be you, what were you doing as she got fatter everyday, you should have cautioned her or something.
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bintab
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if as a woman you need to loose weight and you want it fast , DIVORCE your man. You will see how trim you will be in 1 month.Men make women depressed most of the time and when women are depressed or not happy they turn too food unlike men who will invades another's man country on property.
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rubi (f)
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Does she work? Let her cut down on junk food, too much carbohydrate intake and eat only on fruits and vegetable. change the size of her plate,drink more water instead of soda and malt, that will really help. One more thing tease her about her wait to make her feel a little bit uncomfortable you guys might quarrel in the begining but she will give in latter to your suggestion
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