Why Do Women Get Fat After Marriage?

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This thread has been very interesting, captivating topic. And to believe that some guys actually take it for granted that a woman will go fat after marriage. I have told my fiancee, "The moment you start getting fat and are unwilling to do anything about it, Don't blame me for what happens next". As much as she owes me the effort to remain looking good (men, i like what i saw when i met u first!), i owe you her the effort of remaining caring, supportive and interesting.

Some men don't keep their side of the "what did you see in me when you met me" bargain.

Meeen, how low can u get? How can u marry someone for their figure and then have the nerve to consider cheating on em? We actually don't get fat , we gain baby fat and try and get pregnant and have a baby and see how fast u can lose that.  All she needs from u is motivation instead of looking for some other chick dude. Love people for who they are instead of how lean they are.

Hope i don't get fat after marriage

@Mystique
  You can't know until you get married.
And to tell you the truth, from all contributions I've seen on this topic
It is good that  u start immediately signs of obesity (fat & Oil) showing on your body
after given birth to your first child.

Don't be afraid, Your man may like u whichever way you look.

'Cos to me, it's not all about looks. It's about the person within and the love shared.

Bye for now

The only thing there is that, They feel comfortable, Relaxable, Pleasantly, especially when they are loadded by men's productivity called PREGNANT.

They will definately change from figure 8 to even 20, because she is normally feed with both uper and under meal.

coco that was not for u mama, pele. i meant zebu

     hehehe

 
Okay what about the woman in the Nigerian Village that is very trim only because she walks miles everyday, and then rides her bicycle to the farm, that's excercise.Then she grows old, and strong and disease free. Like i said to coco29 you don't need a personal trainer all you need is to run, run, and run some more. You are complaining yet you want your men to be big and have muscle. Do you know how hard it is to gain a pound of muscle. A pound of raw muscle not fat and still have abs?. When we gain fat  it goes to our bellies and you hate it, so why should i accept your fat. Yet some of us have abs to show. On the other hand when you gain weight it goes to your hips and butt, at least men think it's sexy. skinny is sexy, sometimes thick is sexy too, but fat is a no no.


Keep supporting the Matrons in position of influence ideaology. I hope you know that being fat increases the risk of heart attacks, diabetes, messed up knees, name it. I want a healthy wife that would be around forever. i don't want her to die young all for having a matronly look. I want her to keep the killer a$$ and legs she had when I married her.

"Excess weight and physical inactivity together could account for about a third of all premature deaths, two-thirds of deaths from cardiovascular disease, and a fifth of deaths from cancer among non-smoking women, they estimate".
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/4120259.stm

You need to study the woman's anatomy and hormonal increase to know this.
Besides, not all women gain weight after giving birth,

@zebudaya

yeah im sure u do.

I also want a castle in the sky and an army of 1,000,000 virgins who magiocally know all there is to know about sex AND have no hymen to break despite never having done it before.

Accept it: your wife will NOT keep her figure after you marry her unless she nearly kills herself with obsession. If you fail to accept that you will cheat, either with another woman or the BOTTLE

sorry dude

@ Babymine: Not all women but where are the exceptions? These women can't take mistakes and own up to what they seem unable to think or conquer. Tell them not to put on wig and they will skin you alive despite its irritation,labour, time andnot pouring natural water in the hair for months and years.Don't start to understand this specie of human but if my wife can't bend for me,we separate. I no send!

jesus christ!

how raw!

are u a postmodern artist?!!?!?

that kind of talk can make people vomit!

Just because a woman married at a size 2 doesn't mean she will remain a size 2 forever.  Women have more fat on their bodies than men, so a woman can eat a piece of bread and gain a pound or two.  Our bodies work in mysterious ways.  Also, not all women want to be skinny.  There are some women who like having some fat on their bodies.  This question should have been, why do men and women get fat after marriage?  Because it isn't just a one-sided view.  Men get fat after marriage as well.  Someone already pointed out that women get fat, because she has become comfortable and happy.  She has already found her husband so she doesn't need to put in the effort to look thin.  I think people in general get lazy about their bodies at some point in time, and that would include marriage as well.  Some figure that their partners agreed to love them no matter what, and if that means even while they are fat then so be it.

But I think instead of men complaining about their wives weight, they should work out them.  Get them motivated, not get them depressed because they think their wives are too fat.  Go grocery shopping with them, get a membership at the gym together, and keep each other in high spirits to keep what they are doing up.  Here in America, obesity is a real problem.  Over here we like to tell people what is wrong with them until they go and change what we want them to.  The biggest thing here is health.  We are obsessed with having thing bodies, so that's what some of us strive for here.  But like it takes motivation and dedication.  Without out those two things, what you want someone to achieve or even yourself will be pratically impossible.