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Elizabeth (f)
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What really happened is that there is this guy that is disturbing me with calls day & night, telling me he likes me e.t.c but i told him i can't date him because 've befriended one his friends before. but he kept on telling me he will do me bad if i didn't tell him the positive answer. please help me out by telling what to do!!!!
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FOD (m)
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but he kept on telling me he will do me bad if i didn't tell him the positive answer. Please help me out by telling what to do!!!!
Are you sure want to date a guy that'll do u bad? How did your relationship with the other friend end? |
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Busta (f)
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@ elizabeth I honestly don't get ur story  |
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iice (f)
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A guy is disturbing her 2 go out with him, but she alrdy is kindda hooked up with a friend of the guy disturbing her, the guy disturbing her is threatening her
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Busta (f)
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thanx for the break iice
maybe let the other guy know wats going on and be sure not to be forced into doing what u don't want or out of pity.
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hibans (f)
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Ask him is he SICK? does he own ur life? if u like try it, before ur eye wuld open.
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FOD (m)
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but i told him i can't date him because 've befriended one his friends before.
I don't think you guys understand Lizzy. She has apparently broken up with the guy's friend, but she's asking if it's okay to date a friend of one's ex. |
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iice (f)
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Ahhh crap!!!! ddnt notice the BEFORE! lol, got it now, well it's difficult dating someone who is a friend of another can't help u here
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eveseh (f)
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BIG HELL NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO,but i can play them  |
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LoverBwoy (m)
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it might have been okay if u've dated his friend some long time ago BUT HE'S GOING TO DO YOU BAD   U BETTER REPORT HIM TO HIS PARENT and YOURS N ALL UR BROTHERS IF U SEE AN O.P.C MEMBER AROUND TELL THEM ABOUT HIM , say he's trying to rape u  |
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kitaun (m)
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true talk, at least before issues get out of hand
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diddy4 (m)
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i think loverbwoy said it for moi. report his bugging ass to his mama. i bet he fears his mama.
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muhamodu
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Eli, i thought i told u not to tell anyone about this, u think u can run. about d bad stuff i really do mean it so just give me a positive answer if not den u will see my red eye.
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eveseh (f)
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maybe 2 friends but  2 brothers |
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LiquidMind (m)
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I tought girls are more attracted to bad boys than nice guys. you have met badboy original and now you need advice, no advice shall be given to you but to date him |
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eveseh (f)
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i hate bad boys i liek handsome boyss |
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naijacutee (f)
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You've only talked about the guy here, you haven't talked about how you feel. Do you like him? If you do, them whats stopping you from dating him? His friend you dated a while ago? If yu don't like him, what's stopping you from telling him to f  off?
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bluenubian (f)
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Been there done that
Hey if u really like the guy, heck he could be the one for u, sound like u care about how ur ex feel, if that's the case then don't do it and tell the stalker to f*ck off
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diddy4 (m)
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what is here behind doing here? miami baby
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innocenty (f)
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it meterless jare, go on soun
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dbou(nddy) (m)
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why can't i ?
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Teezy (f)
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it meterless jare, go on soun
 @topic Well, i wouldnt do it at the same time but if i got feelings for my ex's friend i would go for it. |
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soccerchic (f)
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I just have one question When he said he was going to "do u bad", what exactly does he mean? Can u find out for me please ( am sorry u all, but i really want to know) |
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innocenty (f)
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it's no a brainer, dating within friends' circle is an abomination unless ur azz is a Ho
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hot-angel (f)
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Eli, i thought i told u not to tell anyone about this, u think u can run. about d bad stuff i really do mean it so just give me a positive answer if not den u will see my red eye.
Stupid gay ass motherfreakingfucker! U threatening a girl to date you? What kind of asshole are you? She'll see your red eye? Why not show your blue one? I hate niggas like you Damn it. Then again, as for Elizabeth, Girl u sending my name to the trash. We Elizabeth's don't get guy problems like this. Number One, U set his ass straight if u don't want him. Next, you report him to whomever you know. His mama his father, Hell. . . call the police for harrasment and threats. If you like him, well u might consider it. Then again, i wouldnt say u should date a guy that threatens to show u 'red eye' if u don't date him. Stupid boy is probably ugly and can't get a girl. Uhmm. . . How did he find out that u were asking for help on this website? I don't see a solid story here. Elizabeth u need to elaborate. @ topic. Personally, if i feel something towards my ex-boyfriend's friend, i'll go for it. Well maybe depending on what caused me n my boyfriend to break up. But if i reallly really in really of realllly's do feel something extremely va-va-voom for my ex's friends, i go for it. I mean i'll go for it.  But as for dating two of them the same time, uhmm nahh. I don't have a player ticket. |
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ope_emi (m)
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@Lizzy Hmmm! the word " positive answer" that u mentioned above gives me a buzz, seems you & the guy knows something you ain't telling everyone of us here in the forum, all I'm driving at is that have you and the guy add anything to do with each other that is kind of using to threaten you, because I don't see any reason he should be threatening u anyhow? |
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zeb (m)
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Guys wash-out.
think before you introduce your girlfriend to your friends or else after you finished with her, she could be curios to find out who taste more sweet among your friends,
ATTRIBUTE OF AN HOE
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diddy4 (m)
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i agree with eerthing Hottie said. show that guy off. wonder what will make u date a guy that will show u red eye if u don't date him.
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luvlymoi (f)
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u can imagine! he wants to date u and he is threatening u, abeg jo don't date him, instead date another person bigger and stronger than him who is ready to beat the hell out of him if he tries any trash, wettin dey do am self? |
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favour5 (f)
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hey baby,don't really c what d prob is.I feel it's ok dating d friend since u guys had broken up(that's if u v got feelings 4 d friend).But considering d 2nd part of ur story with his threats, , I feel u'D be devaluing yourself dating such a guy who doesn't v respect 4 ur personality. he doesn't v an atom of love for you either.probably wants a revenge on smth u aint tellin us.
so watch out girl. I would say stay off such a crowd if u love ur self which i believe u do!
Like people v advised, report to any authority(police,his parents or family members,ur brothers).
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mamaput (f)
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Something like that happens all the time.
The girl next door:
My daughters classmate .She has a boyfriend but this other boy wanted her and she refused.
Oneday when they went out in a group, he stole a Cell phone and sid she was the one .
The whole group of friends were hating on her but her boyfriend stuck to her.
One week later they all went swimming and he hid the cell phone in her bag. And showed the others. But this time the girls did not believe the story because they had seen her bag and the way the bag was , no girl will ever leave the bag that way to go into the water (open for all to see) The bastard had to confess. He wanted the boyfriend to break up with her.
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