My Girlfriend Lied To Me Dat She Is Pregnant, Do I Forgive Her?

Hello house

A friend of mine told me what his girl did to him and i decided to find out how many girls can go to dat extreme.
He said dat his girl told him she missed her period n later came back and told him dat she is pregnant. Unknown to him, she was only testing him to see if he will ditch her because of the pregnancy. The guy now told her dat he was going to let her decide whatever she wishes to do wit d pregnancy, dat if she decides to have d baby, he is wit her, if she also decides to keep the pregnancy, he is also wit her. A few days later, she calls him and informs him dat she has decided to have d baby. To cut a long story short, she visited him several days later and found her guy wit a girl she has been suspecting dat her guy is dating around 8pm in d nite. Although according to my friend, he says he has nothing to do wit d girl in question. His gf broke off d relationship saying dat he has already started sleeping wit d other girl even while she is pregnant wit his baby. My friend loves his girl so much so he made sure dat he made up wit her. She now told him dat she has decided to terminate d pregnancy dat she doesn't believe my guy loves her and my guy in order to please her gave her N10,000.00 for abortion. She later confessed to wat she did and my friend has been very angry wit her even refusing to call or receive her calls. He claims dat what she did made him feel so inferior and emotionally unstable. But she claims dat she did it to test his love for her and dat he has proved it d way he handled d whole situation.

What is your position? Do u think his girl is right? Do u think my friend is right to be angry dat his girl went to extremes to test his love? and above all, do u think my friends girlfriend deserves to be forgiven? Please i need honest answers.

this relationship is really dysfunctional. Both parties need to sort themselves out. Like i don't think it's bad that she was trying to test him, i think what's horrible is the way she did it. There are 2 things that it's never appropriate to lie about in relationships as a girl: 1.) being pregnant 2.) having an STD. This girl broke #1 and that's just not ok.

I think he has a reason to be upset. She took it too far.

Please nothing about what she did IS natural! Only immature and manipulative women will go to such lengths to find out if a man loves them or not.

wat do u wanna do to her urself
4 me maybe u shuld kill her abi because she lied to u (lol)

It has got nothing to do with being manipulative or immature everyone has her own personal way of proving a mans love for her this is one of the ways she chose take it or leave it the girl is wise and the guys passed the test case close

Hmm, I think that was a tad bit extreme. She didnt have to go that far, she could have done case senarios, asked him questions about what he would do, instead of lying, that seemed like too much work.

But it just seems like a lot of work, don't you think?

I think d girl has gotten 2 her xtremes,my reason for sayin dis is dat 4 her 2 be testing his luv 4 her,then was she supposed 2 have collected any money 4rm him?and also dere are so thousand and one ways 4 one 2 test 4 his or her patner's luv.Well it depends on d guy if he truely d girl cos dat's where LOVE speaks above all odds.Then he'd rather forgiven her cos if i was i would forgiven her cos my babygirl is so dear 2 me.
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Forgive her ASAP.
She prolly thunk it was the first of April. . . . . .
We all make mistakes, so forgive n forget.

You should forgive and move forward.

@poster one thing is for sure now the girl knows he truly loves her well I dont blame the guy sha I think she should give the guy a break and later call him when he has cooled down,