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muhsin (m)
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A callow but spoony Bashir is a friend of mine who met a certain witty girl named shamsiyya in their family. They had, for years, being deeply in love. They happily cheer, laugh, hope and dream almost everyday.
Eventually, their love life had now faced a ravage life (as I’m thinking) because, he last week came to me in sheer bewilderment asking me question; “is it how love is?” I asked him what had happened but he vehemently repeated this and repeated for many times.
Thereafter he revealed that he overheard shamsiyya saying that he was the most ugly person in the whole of their family. Surprisingly as he heard that he soon appeared before her, but she shamelessly repeated it and even added a question: “is it not so?”
Thus, to my own assessment, that girl does love him not. Reason: Bashir is not that, even if he is, I don’t think she could have said that. So I advised him to part way with her.
Subsequently, as I said earlier, Bashir is a foolish lover; he is now telling me that he thinks she loves him, so he is going back to her.
I don’t want to do things off head, so decide to seek your advice. If you were I, what could you suggest him to do? Should he go back or not? Does she love him?
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eveseh (f)
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LOL yea tio me it does  |
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sweetnini (f)
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love is being truthful
if he's ugly and she says he's handsome then she's lying to him and herself
love exist but i don't know if true love exist anymore
if true love exist it's hard to find
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obaf (m)
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I don't believe there's love anywhere.all i believe is ,get someone you can cope with,someone you cherish,someone you always love having around you.because this thing they call love ,i can't see it any where,i girl will tell me she loves me and she will go behind me to mess up or play smart.or you want to talk of guys now a days?
It doesnt really work like that anymore.My lady will love to hear ii love you everyday but when the time comes to show the real love you wont get to see the person.they will give condition,that it' because the person did something wrong that is hwy they left,but true love will stick everything and anything
nobody interferes in true love,it's from the inner mind,u don't force it.
If only people will not rush things and let it flow,relations and this world would have been a better place,because after some weeks or months ,you might see that this person is not good enough for you,but the person will be all over you that you can't even try to say something like ,am tired or this thing is not working
So i will advise anybody going into relationship to take his or her time to study the partner,not just the way he/she react to you,but poeple around him and you.because it matters a lot.when he;s tired of you,he will be acting like that to you.
What goes around comes around.
Learn not to push things,especially ladies.take time to watch where the game is going.
Cos it's a game.
sex is good,but don't let it be the first thing you will share,because it's very difficult to know what's going on inthe mind of the guy.i might just be another player.
Be yourself.don't pretend and be open,after getting to know the prson.
Most young guys are afraid of settling down now because of financial problems ,jobs and Country situation,but with your support(ladies) he can make up his mind,don't nag him off,just be supportive,and RESPECT HIM,respect his decisions.
Call him your head,he will always feel like a King.
it's just an advise.
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kokocious (m)
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Love does exist but not amongst people that are suffering for a living,
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diddy4 (m)
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nope it doesnt exist for me.
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retro (f)
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nope it doesnt exist for me.
You're the first person that's ever said that. (That I know of). |
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diddy4 (m)
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@retro
well, that is for me.
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luvlymoi (f)
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well love does exist. just because she said he was ugly doent mean she doesnt love him, kai!!! but that must have really hurt his feelings, ayaaa!!!
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favour5 (f)
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Love does exist. Only fools do not recognise it.
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diddy4 (m)
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Love does exist. Only fools do not recognise it.
you are the fool. bonkom.  |
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kimba (m)
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Love exists because even though it can't be seen with the eyes, can't be held with the hands, it can be heard with the ears, explained with the lips, felt deep in the heart, and truly, anything that can naturally satisfy one of man's senses must surely exist, at least to an extent.
Love doesn't exist because it is usually that feeling that can't be explained with words.
in short, Love is whatever you make it or call it.
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muhsin (m)
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Hello,
Why some of you just do reply without reading the main content of the post?
Better change. It's an advice 'm seeking from you.
Read it then please!
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Jalal (m)
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That's exactly what i mean my dear.
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hibans (f)
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Let me laugh small. hahahahahah, didd4, na fight? I beg take it easy ok. For me ooooooo, Love does exist very well anyway. |
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favour5 (f)
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diddy4 if i don't love u, it doesn't mean i don't love some other person. I understand your plight so relax. life goes on!  |
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janet.gurl
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nope,it doesnt to me
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Busta (f)
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been through things a 1007 things
NO, IT DOESN'T
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PTBNaija (f)
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I think that it does  ! |
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muhsin (m)
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It does, huh? Am asking between my friend and his GF not in real life.
Please re-read the post and then reply
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Hardware (m)
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i beleive lov exist but,
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iice (f)
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But? by the way, your sig is amazing
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doublebizz
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hell no we all know its just a game
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ope_emi (m)
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I believe Love exist, since God didn't create man to play games with woman , but for easily influenced minds, they diverge easily. Just like your friend muhsin, u might call him a foolish lover now, but when u addicted to someone I tell u its the love notin else. The girl might have been influenced by friends or anyone, maybe they told her something about him that will make the girl just swerve away. If she really loves him, all she will do is tell him about things people are saying that he himself ain't tell her, if u really love someone from the depth of your heart u will feel a certain addiction not to live the person alone or forget the person, all u will be thinking is "no one else in the world can take the space in my heart like you do", that just the phenomenon. And if the person is making u loss your mind and not making u focus anymore, just drop it, it might hard but face it if your partner doesn't feel the same way, just let go. I just hope this helps your friend muhsin. Good luck to him  |
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sweetnini (f)
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Love exist in the movies too
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sweetnini (f)
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yea and in Novels
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iice (f)
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Thanks sweetnini, in novels exactly
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Cleofel (f)
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i believe love exists because it was written in the bible to love your neighbour as yourself
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