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sleek_mi (m)
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Men!, av been wonderin lately, how come most girls don't feel comfortable goin out with dr age-mates?Well,i wudnt mind gettin answers people!Holla!!!  |
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luvlymoi (f)
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well do u mean that girls don't like goin out wit guys the sme age as them? if thats what u mean sha, its simple girls just want a more mature person.
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Teezy (f)
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I agree with luvlymoi. My boyfriend is 3yrs older
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idaustino
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the truth of the matter is that getting married to whether older or younger persons really doesn't matter, like they say maturity is the force of the mind, i see nothin wrong with that, its just a way of life,
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idaustino
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there is nothin wrong with people goin after there peers but the truth is most of this peers hardly know the importance of real and true friendship, it all depends anyway.as for me i really wonj't mind any one but u just have to reason the way real people do,
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diddy4 (m)
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guess they want a mature brother not some broke ass immature one.
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diddy4 (m)
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knew u would say that.  |
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favour5 (f)
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Maybe u need some education. As a matter of factly, age is just a number. But the answer you need is that girls go out with people they are on the same maturity level with. And it turns out that gals are more matured than guys of their age. Think I'm wrong, ask those in the medical field.
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diddy4 (m)
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i don't know why people generalize alot. tufia.
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eveseh (f)
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LOL diddy i love that word, Tufia,LOL  i say it alot |
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diddy4 (m)
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lol, yup. |
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eveseh (f)
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LOL diddy frist i thought it was cofia LOL but i know now it's tufia |
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hot-angel (f)
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Majority of Boys our age tend to act immature.
Some girls just want to date someone older than them because they believe the guy would be more 'experienced' or 'matured'. Well as we all know, it's not always the case (I'm a living witness - alleluyah). Anyways sha. . . It's just something we girls do.
want to date someone older than u. Not ur age, not one younger than u. don't want to date someone in ur class. Probably someone a grade or two above u. Ya know the drill!
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Aa`LiyaH (f)
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not that it's revelant but when I fell in love I didn't know there was such a huge age gap between me and my bestowed, I was attracted to him i suppose, i find my agemates not attractive, infact i think of them as my brothers and not dating material.
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luvlymoi (f)
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hey y'all!!!! sha am just wondering, this is totally off topic but i would like to knw the correct thing. my english teacher said there was nothin like "matured" he siad it is "mature" all the time bith past and present. i saw a lot of "matured" in this post and i would like people that knw to tell moi if matured is a correct word to use. really appreciate! |
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Aa`LiyaH (f)
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I don't think mature is the correct word to use, we have different definitions of the word mature for instance, what I might percieve as being mature might be childish to somebody else and viceversa
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diddy4 (m)
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@luvlymoi
it is mature not matured someone can't stop being mature. it is a continuous process.
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luvlymoi (f)
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@luvlymoi
it is mature not matured someone can't stop being mature. it is a continuous process.
thanks!! so i ve been rite all this while!!  |
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diddy4 (m)
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yeah hun, you have. |
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hibans (f)
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Maturity is really really important but for me i can't date someone am older than. my ex - was 4yrs older than me. So, i think am ok with that.
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mamaput (f)
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Never in my life have i gone out with anyone more than 3 years older or 1 year younger than me
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classiqkid (f)
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Immaturity that’s it!
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Busta (f)
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Immaturity that’s it!
thats a fact and also the fact that gurls mature faster than guys! |
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diddy4 (m)
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http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-19068.0.html
imagine the generalizing going on here. that girls mature faster than guys don't mean that all girls mature faster and that all guys don't mature faster. it is a damn stereotype.
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Busta (f)
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lmao @ diddy, not steorotyping but a mare Fact of life!  |
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classiqkid (f)
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thats a fact and also the fact that girls mature faster than guys!
Yeah your right that is a fact and thats also why I can't stand guys that are under 18 their never serious |
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sleek_mi (m)
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i don't mean 2 cause a debate or sumtn but i think that is just mere stereotypin.Well thanks 4 contributin tho.Wt i want y'al 2 know is dt a guy of 17 can be more mature dn a man of 23.So where does d maturity come in?  Yeah your right that is a fact and thats also why I can't stand guys that are under 18 their never serious
.I believe maturity is a thing of d mind not the age. |
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needeeg (m)
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I believe maturity is a thing of d mind not the age.  |
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