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bonnez (m)
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Hi Nairalanders!
newbie in the house, could not wait to get in since a friend introduced it to me.
ok i'm dating this wonderful lady. however, she's two years older than me. people think its not proper to date an older lady but i'm not bothered. she's a wonderful lady, reasons and behaves maturely, i mean she gives me a break from all these "small" girls who do not really know what they want for themselves. i am having a wonderful relationship and i'm not just bothered. she respects my position as a man and i'm cool with that. we love and respect each other.
so pls tell me whats wrong with that. don't ladies date older men, even those old enough to be their fathers? so why the noise when it's the other way round?
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ibkaye
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Nothing wrong with dating an older lady, as long as the both of you are happy together and comfortable with the relationship, ride on  |
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Dis Guy
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as long as your are not doing it for the money
or some outrageous age gap
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ibkaye
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abi o, 2 years difference is not bad at all  |
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doncaster (m)
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She will milk me dry jor
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1one (m)
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the very reason for which u are asking dis question is the same reason why you shouldnt date her, if u r sure u r doing d right thing then why are u somewhat seeking people's validation.
if u r datin hr 4 luv,fine, bt if its jst sme form of sightseeing in an attempt 2 break off 4rm d norm of younger gals,
then i think u sd cal it quit.
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emiechat
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Rock on Brother, Rock on. All you need is LOVE,
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yimiton (f)
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Absolutely nothing wrong with it.
If it's love, then go ahead.
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chukxy44 (m)
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Noting wrong with dating a lady older than you, as long as things blend between both of u.
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shilling (f)
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There's nothing wrong with it if you're both happy, and the age thing is not an issue at all.
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konkocious (m)
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nothing wrong with it so far you can endure it cuz someday you will still be thinkin about the age different when you get married
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clemcykul
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@poster alot is wrong.
dont think u wish to be addressed as a son, or brother and not a husband.
marry a lady ure older than, so dat your authority as the man of the house will prevail.
dont just marry oversize becuss of love.
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MrCrackles (m)
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Absolutely nothing wrong with it.
If it's love, then go ahead.
and if it is not love, leave the woman alone!! |
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jay bee (m)
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ain't nothing wrong in dating older women. They tend to be more experienced and always more than willing to take very gud CARE of uuuuuuu
as per marrying them then it'd be a different ball game as it solely depends on the age difference
>=5yrs might lead to infedility on the man's part once he his over 50 as women tend to age faster thus he being less attractive to the wifey
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Angolobabe (f)
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there is nothing wrong in that and 2 years is very little age difference
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walttt (m)
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hey nothing is wrong with that as long as theres mutual luv
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Scopium
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IMO, there's nothing wrong with it. I've heard some ladies say they don't always feel comfortable or like the idea. One of such ladies replied saying there's nothing wrong. Be careful bro
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HR.hotness (f)
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age is not an accurate measure of maturity. . . in other words, age doesnt really matter
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bamie (m)
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age is not an accurate measure of maturity. . . in other words, age doesnt really matter
i agree with you, |
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ibkaye
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age matters sometimes na  |
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shollyaj (m)
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Absolutely Nothing Wrong, Nothing do u jor
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Scopium
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age matters sometimes na |
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ashe2 (f)
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if u guys both hav an understandin nothin is wrong with it.
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dns (m)
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well guy you are the person that is wearing the shoese and no where it inches, so if its ok for you then just go on cause this is not an issue, its none issue because there is noting that you will do that can pleased all the people in you are life time while your still on planet earth so remember hold age is just a number in the site of LOVE, and come to think of it, its just 2years, please if i were are you i will just stop sicking peoples openion, enjoy you are youth with youre love jor.
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untainted
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@doncaster
milk u dry in what sense?
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pineware (m)
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I really dont think dating an older woman is un heard off. Its juat to be sure the chemistry is right and voila. Personally i would want to indulge myself in one. I think older women would be much more calm and matured on their dealings.
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d-baptist (m)
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I really don't think dating an older woman is un heard off. Its juat to be sure the chemistry is right and voila. Personally i would want to indulge myself in one. I think older women would be much more calm and matured on their dealings.
guy u gotta try it they are d bomb,more mature,caring and homely im in love with one and initially i had same feeling the poster had and i felt short of myself that i wasn't up to but with time i relaxed and she went back to school today at unec and evryday im falling more in love with her and to top it all , , ahe's my first love or a d'banj would say 'o baby don make me fall in love" |
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bonnez (m)
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thanks for the various opinions.
older girls seem to be more matured than the younger ones around
they reason maturedly etc.
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Frankies (m)
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@ poster
2yrs is still your age mate. I thought you are talking about real older ladies. I have dated a lady 10years older than me and another one 14years older than me. I was very much in charge, this is not a case of sugar mummy stuff. Just like a boyfriend -girlfriend stuff. With my full respect . They feared and respected me as if I was their age.
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Frankies (m)
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I forgot to add that older ladies seem to be mature in their reasoning attitude. hence the attraction to them.
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