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hibans (f)
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Hey, i just wanted to know how serious a guy/girl be before you give in sex ok. feel free  |
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Hotstepper (f)
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I am very serious with my guy but can't give him sex, sex does not show how serious I am or not
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mistercute (m)
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A girl does not have to be serious before "i give it to her" even if i'm seeing her for the first time don't get me wrong with a pack os condoms though. Reminds me of busta ryhmes song "baby if you give it to me". |
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funkie
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must you engage in fornication or better still let me use the modernised language that we young ladies and men use "premarital sex". no matter how serious a guy/girl is does not mean you should give in to sex. A Guy/Girl might pretend to be serious just to get what he/she needs from you precisely sex, and after that he/she begins to show his/her true picture . So what will you do? The Guy/Girl might even introduce you to his Parents and Folks trying to convince you that he/she is damn serious with you but i tell you still need to be careful so as not to lose your glory.
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my2cents (m)
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From a religious standpoint: Marriage From a secular standpoint: As serious as your feelings for the person are. That could range from 1 day to 5 years. In the end, it should be consensual, that is all that matters at the end of the day. Also, both parties should be honest upfront as to where they want the relationship to go. If it just for fun and both agree, then neither party should vex when the other dumps them. Agreeing upfront on it being casual removes the emotions that women associate with sex. After all, they know it isn't serious. I speak from personal experience  |
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iice (f)
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Different strokes for different folks
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emmeno (m)
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Well from my own point of view, my girl doesnt have to be serious for us to make love and when she's serious i might not want to give in, because i'll think she taking advantage of my DICKSON, and i wouldnt want to have sex, If u don't understand ask me.
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Hotstepper (f)
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mr. sexyology
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Busta (f)
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Different strokes for different folks Exactly. things like that ain't always planned. |
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Nosu (m)
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this is a simple one, which l know u know the answer, is just that it look hard but u can do it.
the guy most be very serious to the extend that he can wait until after the wedding. That is as serious as when he can wait till the honeymoon
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ayoeze11 (m)
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Sex does not show seriousness, the first day out is okay 4 me is she is ready, there is no commitment in that
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my2cents (m)
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Busta: I used to plan way in advance and trust me, it worked at least 95% of the time I remember one girl like that. She asked "if we hv sex on the first night, u wont respect me the next day. Letz do it tomorrow", to which i responded (trust naija now ) "honey, what is the difference b/w the first and the second nights? if i don't intend respecting u, it doesnt matter what day it happens". To which she said, "u know what? thatz right! Letz do it then" LOL |
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desiree (f)
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It depends on how you feel and how comfortable the person makes you feel, me personally, there is always a 2 months wait before i give in and it often extend to 3 months if i think the guy is in it just for sex by then he would have taken a hike if he no getting nothing from me.
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iice (f)
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LOL @ my2cents' story
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debosky (m)
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I believe in waiting till marriage but for the so called 'secular' folk i think building proper relationship is more important, so i would say at least 6 months at least then u know the person u're getting into bed with first. @ 2cents boy send me your manual fast, i need some of them lines |
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my2cents (m)
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LOL debosky:
I retired from the game about 4 years ago. I will hv to dig it up. Probably covered in inches of dust by now, he he.
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eveseh (f)
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when i know dey are really serious dan dey can have it
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hibans (f)
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Busta: I used to plan way in advance and trust me, it worked at least 95% of the time I remember one girl like that. She asked "if we hv sex on the first night, u wont respect me the next day. Letz do it tomorrow", to which i responded (trust naija now ) "honey, what is the difference b/w the first and the second nights? if i don't intend respecting u, it doesnt matter what day it happens". To which she said, "u know what? thatz right! Letz do it then" LOL @my2cent, hehehehehehe, lol |
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ayoeze11 (m)
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@Eve how can you know a guy is serious, some guys have sweet mouth and pretent alot, sex for me do not show committment or seriousness, the first day out, one thing could lead to another and you have done it, is normall
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eveseh (f)
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@Eve how can you know a guy is serious, some guys have sweet mouth and pretent alot, sex for me do not show committment or seriousness, the first day out, one thing could lead to another and you have done it, is normall
yea i know what ya mean but i can't see a guy da frist day and just let him have my body just because he's saying sweet things or he got sweet mouth i mean when i know him for a few days like that i'll be wtahcing his movement and know abit about him dan i can say ah he's serious,i think i like him and he likes me too like u are u serious,LOL  |
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ayoeze11 (m)
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@Eve I think you are just kidding, I may be serious but I do not think you have notice that
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iice (f)
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Ehemm ehemm, eveseh he's serious he said
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ayoeze11 (m)
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Ehemm ehemm, eveseh he's serious he said @iice were are you concluding every thing is open |
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smartsoft (m)
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Sex shouldn't be the essence of your love, sex is just like a coca-cola drink
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iice (f)
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@ayoeze11, i wasnt concluding, i was passing on your msg
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ayoeze11 (m)
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@iice She is mine already
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my2cents (m)
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LOL, Most of you here, mostly the ladies, are bringing back memories. Like a lion chasing a gazelle on the Safari game reserves, I used to live for women like most of u. Those who claim they would never "give up their bodies" on the first day. All it takes is sweet talk. Not to brag, but I can count on one hand the ladies it didnt work on. The others? Most were more than 1000% confident it wdnt happen, but before u know it, they were like "damn, what just happened? when did it happen?" Beware, as Shakespeare once said, "We know what we are, but not what we may be"  |
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iice (f)
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@ ayoeze11, well my work is done lol
@my2cents, most ladies where? lol but true sha about the rest of ur story lol
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my2cents (m)
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iice, iice baby  I was referring to most ladies who have contributed to this post. I dare say all, but I don't want to stereotype |
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iice (f)
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LOL me included eh, sorry but i don't happen 2 be one of those people who deceive themselves thats y i usually gave a generalized answer in the sense of different strokes for different folks.
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my2cents (m)
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So u hv never done what is in the image i attached before? Good for u that I am retired, otherwise I would have to take u up on it |
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