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mubowa (f)
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I just need your advice because I've been coming across a lot of guys lately and i turned them down because i feel a lady must build up her self first so that she will be able to stand secure on her own. and you all know how the world is now
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Seun (m)
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Most of them probably want you for sex anyway. Those that want you for more than just sex will be willing to wait. It's rare to find a woman who is focused like that. The most important thing is for you to know what you want in a man in due course.  |
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Hotstepper (f)
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my dear, it is not about them but about you. bone them and run your game the way you want it okay sweetie
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desiree (f)
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good idea---say no until you are ready!!
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iice (f)
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Ahhh its not about them jare, na yourself u suppose dey worry about.
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Nosu (m)
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Yea, well said Hotstepper
anyway it is not a function of age, it can go beyond that age if u so wish, l hv a female friend that is over that age, she already got a bsc, aiming for a msc and she still turn down every men that approaches. because she see them as distraction to her vision now. mind u every man like a women that is determine,disclipline, focus and has a vision for her life. so stay focus, take care . wish u all the best in ur endeavour.
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mubowa (f)
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also, the important reason why i want to wait till 21 is because am going to graduate from the university some few month before i turn 21, so i just think am going to have the rest of my life figured out appropriately because I've seen people that are still hurt by the mistake they made when they were at my age l
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Busta (f)
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@ mubowa, stick to that idea gurl.
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debosky (m)
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when u say 'no' what exactly do u mean? I would advise that you don't get into a 'too serious' relationship for now, but to exclude yourself totally from 'men' will not help while being careful iss good, there are learning experiences you need to have as well, which are not always pleasant. while i'm not saying go and get pregnant for some dude and learn from that, useful friendships and limited dating won't harm u either, just make sure you keep focused and know what you want. lack of experience in relating with guys could lead to someone taking advantage of u even if u've waited till you're 25. final words - balance and focus |
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mubowa (f)
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trust me girl I've lived with millions of men, I've learn and I've seen what they did with girl. Your idea is not bad though but tasting different water can lead to constipation sometimes you know. what i mean by No is no relationship
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eveseh (f)
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nope it isnt
it's ya choice
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omogenaija (f)
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Girl 21 has nothing to do with it,
just wait till ur ready
and i wish u the best of luck
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beyunce (f)
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Yea when u are ready. If u don't mind how old are u now?. As long as u are an adult. its ur choice to make.  |
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mubowa (f)
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i will turn 18 this November but i have a fantastic stature that trap man down in a tickle of an eye
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smartsoft (m)
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lets ask her how old she is now
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Nosu (m)
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stay focus, it will help u. really u don't need anything than friendship now. so just make friend. every guy want the best. u must make yourself valuable and useful so that u will not be the one begging but the one selecting from option.being valuable is not a days job,focus on improving yourself in every area of ur life and when u get into it, u will be glad u waited.
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hibans (f)
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Not only till u turn 21, but till u get married.  |
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naija_diva (f)
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girl do what you want to do? its you and there's nothing bad about it.
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kajad (m)
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Remind me to buy 4 you any car of your choice at 21  |
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mubowa (f)
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a car is not a big deal, say something else
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fellow (m)
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very BAD IDEA. WTHell would you be doing till you re 21???  Playing with yourself?
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damsol (f)
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@fellow ,true talk
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fellow (m)
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@ damsol
so i guess you had a boyfriend before 21. Way to go girlfriend
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mubowa (f)
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she don't and she wont, don't tell me u now like her
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damsol (f)
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@mubowa,what re u saying?the fact that am not commited doesnt mean i wouldnt be commited before am 21.
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Macgreat (m)
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Is like you are tring to play holy and i like holy player because they are very good player when it comes to 'Pusly' i have a whole lots of them |
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mubowa (f)
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@damsol, ha, ma bi nu ni gba na oh, i think u want to graduate before losing out ni o ore mi
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fellow (m)
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@damsol, ha, ma bi nu ni gba na oh, i think u want to graduate before losing out ni o ore mi
@mubowa Before losing out?? And what has that got to do with the age thing?? Why would you call it losing out??
Seems you are scared of going the mile so as not to get hurt by that silly guy, don't worry. Look before you leap and stop hiding till God knows when |
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damsol (f)
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@fellow,true talk
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Seun (m)
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It's a very bad idea to say no to men. You may end up not getting HIV, and that will be just nasty!
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