Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?

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favour5 (f)
Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« on: July 27, 2006, 04:13 AM »

If you meet and fall in love with a man, then getting to know him, u realise he is 20yrs older though he looks far younger than his age(like 10yrs younger), divorced with 2 children from two women. Would you go ahead dating or even marry him?
hibans (f)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #1 on: July 27, 2006, 08:25 AM »

It depends, but personally i can't do that Grin Grin
beyunce (f)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #2 on: July 27, 2006, 08:44 AM »

don't think there is anything wrong with that? Really i don't
eveseh (f)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #3 on: July 27, 2006, 08:51 AM »

no
favour5 (f)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #4 on: July 27, 2006, 09:10 AM »

Quote from: hibans on July 27, 2006, 08:25 AM
It depends, but personally i can't do that Grin Grin

when u say it depends, what circumstances r u talking about?(if u don't mind sharing)
Rolly
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #5 on: July 31, 2006, 10:11 PM »

As for me, it don't depend on nothing!!!!! i will not. definately not!!!!  Cheesy


say what?!!!! nuh-huh!!!  Cheesy
desiree (f)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #6 on: July 31, 2006, 10:32 PM »


Hell- NO!!!
20 years!!
luvu567 (f)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #7 on: July 31, 2006, 10:34 PM »

nope i can't even do ten talkless of 20
and he got kids hell to the no
Free (f)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #8 on: August 06, 2006, 08:04 PM »

i probably can't and wont
but some like them Old way way older
but 20 years paaa damn , i think not
sagacious (f)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #9 on: August 07, 2006, 02:08 PM »



   I can't do that ,with kids!what is my hope?i can never do that,I still have alot to do on this planet.
Damest09 (f)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #10 on: August 07, 2006, 02:12 PM »

No i can't and i won't. 20 years is just way too much talkless of him having kids and wives!!! he's an ancient story.
viena (f)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #11 on: August 08, 2006, 04:08 PM »

without the wives and children YES, age is dos not matter as long as he is older but with wives and children NO
naija_diva (f)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #12 on: August 08, 2006, 04:09 PM »

@ topic

think about it, can you date father?
iice (f)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #13 on: August 08, 2006, 06:21 PM »

I can't o
lauryn (f)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #14 on: August 08, 2006, 06:23 PM »

Yes. I can
Busta (f)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #15 on: August 08, 2006, 06:34 PM »

that one go hard oh! Shocked
mubowa (f)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #16 on: August 08, 2006, 08:26 PM »

i can do 7 year but i can't do 20year. your man have to be more mature than you but not something else
Bossman (m)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #17 on: August 11, 2006, 08:56 PM »

Should probably be broken into 2 diffrent questions.

1. Can you date/get together with a guy 20 years older? I really do not see any big deal here. This happens on a regular basis.

2. Can you marry a guy 20 years older? Depending on the actual age, this can be an issue. Since we are talking about long term here.  40/20 is different from 50/30 etc. In the olden days there use to be a lot of disparity between the ages, but things have changed now.  If I were female in my 20's I sure would not want to marry someone in his 40's


lexyflexy (m)
Re: Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?
« #18 on: January 29, 2008, 04:12 PM »

There is nothing wrong in it - but the main thing such must have to cope with is VALUE / NEED DIFFERENCE whcih is once vital termial point to make or break any relationship,
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