Cuando Seas Mia: 'When You Are Mine'

who mentioned papa ajasco ? that program sucks seriously !

If u read my input well u will notice that I said I've seen it all. Infact to confirm that I'll tell u something, watch out for it.
       It will at first seem like Diego is going to prison as the trials progress but eventually it will be Fabian.

@Saintkola please get back to me

@dbanj201,

be more creative and original, there is nothing "new" and "hot" about the 15 episodes you posted on the reference site. They were all from my original write-up from my blog. They have been online for the last 9 weeks on my blog and 3 years from the original TV Azteca. I visited your site thinking that I would be able to read from Episode 42 - 180, which we don't have yet here, only to discover my own write up there.

View my post on "The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly Nigerian Adverts". Its very interesting. Check it out here: http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-28839.0.html
 

I hope am free to join the talk. At least give my ideas about it?

the good old days of paloma and diego, how time flies

hunn n

Hello everyone, I am new here but have been following this website for a while as a guest and would just like to say that apart from the wonderful resource and information provided here, I am truly inspired by the warmth and care that the members of this site, show each other.

As you can see from my subject line, I have a dilemna (it is not a new one, unrequited love is something almost all of us will unfortunately experience at some point in their lives) and I am hoping that someone will be kind enough to perhaps offer me some advice or guidance.  See, my fiance and I were introduced to a man through a mutual friend of ours (who has since relocated to England) about 4 years ago -(I know that is already wrong, the fact that I have a fiance whom I have been together with for the past 10 years but I will get back to this in a bit).   I don't want to mention his real name so I'm just going to call him 'him' if thats okay.
I cannot explain it but that day when I met 'him' something, something 'stirred' inside of me, it was odd as if the entire room just lit up, there was a glow wherever he went and I couldn't keep my eyes off him.  This has never ever happened to me before , I mean it wasnt just his looks, it was his presence - I could just sense that he was a beautiful, kind man and over the years I have found out that I completely right, not only is he beautiful and kind but he is one of a handful of people that I know who have integrity and believe in empathy and loyalty, honesty and over the past 4 years, if he hadn't been around, I don't know what I would have done as I have been through a pretty rough patch and he was the only person that I could count on,  If I was in trouble, no matter what time, day or night, I knew he would be there for me like the time my car got stuck in a really bad area at night and I called my fiance but his phone was off so I called 'him' and he was there in 10 minutes, no questions asked and the time I woke up at 3 in the morning, vomitting uncontrollably for no reason, he immediately got out of bed, no questions asked and rushed me to hospital (I did phone my fiance but he said he couldnt come now).  About 3 years ago, he needed a place to stay as he wasn't happy where he was and since my father had a 'granny flat' on his property, I asked my father if 'he' could rent it (I was certain my father would say no as I had asked him a number of times over many years to rent it to friends or relatives but he always insisted that he did not want to rent it out) To my surprise, my father said I should ask 'him' to come see him and then he would decide.  I was stunned but okay, they met and he moved in with my father!  A year ago, my father sold the house and 'he' found a house of his own to rent but my father and 'him' are very very close and my father adores him.  Over the past 4 years, we have always remained only friends as I would never consider becoming involved with a man whilst I was already involved with another and he, well he, like I mentioned earlier, is a man of principles and would never consider it either but I think we both were subconsciously 'aware' that there was something between us.  About 4 months ago my fiance and I broke up and 'he' went to visit my father who asked him if he would mind stopping at my house on his way home to drop some papers off that I needed.  He came to my house and we started speaking and while we were talking, he told me that my father had told him that I was attracted to him (I always confide in my father and tell him everything) and asked if it were true.  I said it was and he kissed me.  It was beautiful and I couldn't believe it was happening.  He asked what we were going to do about my ex-boyfriend and I said that we had broken up and it was over.  The next day he came to visit and said he'd been thinking and it would never work between us.  He said he wanted me to be happy and that I should get back with my ex because we had a child together and had been together for 10 years and he couldnt offer me the same as my ex did (he meant financially) and also the fact that we were different races would make trouble.  Why?  Who cares what people say or think?   I tried to tell him that I was happy, being with him made me happy and of course I didnt care about the money side of things and didnt want or expect him to support me.  He left.  I thought and thought and eventually came to the conclusion that it was not fair of me, that I was acting selfish to expect him to become involved with a woman that had a child already and as I wanted him to be happy, I decided to respect his wishes.  Each time I see him, my heart breaks and I want to burst into tears because I want so badly to be with him, to be in his arms,  and over the past 4 months, we have kissed on 3 occassions but each time he says that we cannot be together and must stop then he completely avoids me for a while.  My fiance moved back in 2 months ago and I decided that maybe 'he' was right and I should try make it work for my childs sake but I cannot, I just cannot, I cannot stop thinking about 'him' I love him so very much, I want to leave my fiance but he says that I must not because we can't be together and I saw him a few days ago, nothing happened we just spoke and I can see that he does care about me, he had tears in his eyes but what is stopping him, why won't he be with me if he cares, just give us a chance, why?  Please help, what can I do to convince him that it can work between us?  I cannot continue like this, I want nothing but his happiness but I also know that I can make him happy, I love him:'(.

Hi there Stillwater, thank you very much for your advice, I will repost in the Romance section - apologies for that but I had a rather difficult time trying to figure out how exactly to post (don't worry I will read the help files again).  Insofar as your suggestion that he may be engaged is concerned,  that is a possibility, one that I have thought of but then again I have managed to imagine every possibility on the planet but it isn't getting me anywhere really - if he is engaged or maybe even married, who knows, he hasn't told me and somehow I find it hard to believe that he is as we have been platonic friends for 4 years already and speak about everything so I see no reason why he wouldn't have told me whilst we were just friends.  Of course were he involved with someone, then that would clearly be the end for us and you know, I sometimes wish he was because then at least I would know that there was no future for me and him and I would be forced to move on,  I just really need to know whether I am imagining that he cares because I so badly want him to or whether he truly does care and we cannot be together for a valid reason like he is married.  If he cares and he's not married or involved then there is absolutely no way that I will stop fighting for us to be together, no matter what, I love him so much and things are really getting out of hand because (this is going to sound really odd) I have said yes to get married next month, hoping that this will force me to get him out of my mind and also, I know that once I am married, there is no way that anything will happen for us because I believe him to be a man of integrity and he would never become involved with a married woman,  crazy I know but I am desperate, I don't know what else to do its driving me nuts!  Anyway sorry about that and thank you for taking the time to respond to me and also thank you for your advice.  Have a great weekend okay. 

@whitelexi

Were you perhaps travelling by plane lately Whitelexi???

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-5746.0.html

SORRY Whitelexi BUT , well,  you must admit, sounds like something you would say, don't it?

 :-x