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kaecy5 (m)
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can i ask this question- why do ladies always think that most guys that come after them just want to sleep with them and dump them, or would they claim now that they did not enjoyed the sex/relationship while it lasted ? or should i say they r the greedy ones that want more of it and have a problem sharing the guy? or could it be that the guys are always at fault. try talking to a lady after a broken relationship u would hear the familiar words of hurt / hate.
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Hotstepper (f)
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acually, itz alwayz with guysssssssssssssssssss
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aykay (m)
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i still dont understand your post, so far u make it clear to the girl that your not for relationship and just sex then she has no reason to complain.i know what u mean abt talking to your Xs but there r ways to handle stuff like that.
hello hotstepper(nne*m*k*)
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eveseh (f)
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yea dey R always to be blame
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kiki (f)
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cos guys don't think with their brains dey think with their homones and all they r lookin 4 is a gurl 2 f uck and dump
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Busta (f)
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because guys don't think with their brains dey think with their homones and all they r lookin 4 is a girl 2 f uck and dump
Am with u on that. Why not just make your intentions clear first, do the deal and then proceed to the victim!
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Eurphoria (f)
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@thread ohno that old chestnut 
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oyinboaja
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when girls who are too wise talk, the guy is always to blame o 
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sammyjl (f)
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How lame, girls are always afraid of having slept with many guys and who wants to share someone, no one, i mean it might be the case in your country (Nigeria) where a man can marry many wives, but it certainly isnt in my country. We all want a sense of belonging and we are not made whole where we can help ourselves in every way possible thats y we need each other.
Sure girls will feel betrayed after someone sleeps with them and just dumps them, but who said they too cannot do the same to the guy. Only if u liked the guy will u feel hate and all that nonsense that we girls feel after.
So no, i dont think guys are always to blame, ladies should also blame themselves for getting too attached too quickly and should learn to do the same to the brothers.
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jkpretty (f)
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try talking to a lady after a broken relationship u would hear the familiar words of hurt / hate.
Sorry, this happens to both parties.
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sanmius (m)
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there are two sides to a coin 
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kanmosyl (m)
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there are two sides to a coin  . What a great respond
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kanmosyl (m)
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. What a great respond
. what a great responce.
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acidrop (f)
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can i ask this question- why do ladies always think that most guys that come after them just want to sleep with them and dump them, or would they claim now that they did not enjoyed the sex/relationship while it lasted ? or should i say they r the greedy ones that want more of it and have a problem sharing the guy? or could it be that the guys are always at fault. try talking to a lady after a broken relationship u would hear the familiar words of hurt / hate.
y are u sounding like the victim here? have sex n dump u, as if it has any efect on u guys 
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OpeLovely (f)
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Both have a lot to lose, both the dumper and the dumpee because when it comes to sex, they are both conquered.
As for the question, 70% of the guys are to blame. Zip up and treat the girl well (not greedy ones or extremists) and you'll see a different picture.
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lamidebaby (f)
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. what a great responce. "What a great response" pleeease. To imagine u were actually correcting someone else 
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micklplus (m)
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"What a great response" pleeease. To imagine u were actually correcting someone else  The guy was "correcting" himself !! 
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hammers (m)
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When a guy leaves ,it tops all the headlines.But if its the other way round, every reason is understandable cos sentiment and emotion sets in.
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micklplus (m)
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Good response from hammer ! God bless u. Cheers
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lamidebaby (f)
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The guy was "correcting" himself !!  my bad. error still. 
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bootylick
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do u even have to ask! Its guys now. they end up making us 
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