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diddy4 (m)
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i have been hearing this thing about a "man's ego" and it got me thinking, if a girl can ask a guy out and the guy agrees, why can't a guy accept money from a girl? especially his girl? by agreeing to go out wid the girl, aint u already hurting your "ego"?
y'all should tell me what u think about this thingy. i wont lie, if a my girl should give me money for anything especially when i don't have cash at that moment, i will take ooo, i no go use shame refuse to eat food. so y'all should talk.
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Txlonghorn (m)
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I go take very reluctantly you know how some girls dey sef, the will always throw it on your face when the mad at you like you've never given them money before.
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ikamefa (f)
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of course i see nuffin wrong in giving my bobo money if hes down its all good *roll eyes* yes diddy am not a guy so what  * roll eyes* |
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Txlonghorn (m)
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@Ikamefa, this one way you just dey roll your eyes you sure say you never drink too much ogogoro  |
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diddy4 (m)
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@ikamefa
i know you aint a guy sexy. if u were a guy i wudnt hit on you, ewwwwww, that is gross. yuk
@Tx
forget the one about their throwing it to ya face. of course you wont just be taking without giving back. so if she says she gave u money to buy boxers, u tell her u also gave her money to buy g-strings and the condom you guys used the night before. na give and take. abi nobi so?
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Txlonghorn (m)
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You have spoken like an elder diddy, You are a very wise man
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diddy4 (m)
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my Manchester United just promoted me. thank you sir.
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ikamefa (f)
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@Ikamefa, this one way you just dey roll your eyes you sure say you never drink too much ogogoro no be u i dey tell say okafor no gree sell? @ diddy i aint tryn@ divert ur thread carry go |
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K2DaC (f)
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There's nothing wrong with it.
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bluenubian (f)
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nothing wrong with it diddy
its an african thing, african american guys will take the money before u can say go.
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diddy4 (m)
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oh, so its an african thingy huh? wow, so i guess african men got more pride than their afro-american counterparts. nice observation.
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Txlonghorn (m)
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I don't think there's any thing wrong with it, but as diddy said we Nigerian men have a lot of ego which I think makes us stand out amongs African Americans.
@ Ikamafa,
e get this nice joint way just open up near my house, no even mind Okafor the man the crez
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debosky (m)
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well i can, if she's the sort of woman who won't rub it in my face. if she's the proud type, always yappin off her mouth then i'll never take a kobo from her
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diddy4 (m)
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my man, every woman yaps. so basically u no fit avoid am.
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ikamefa (f)
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@ tx
oya make we dey waka go
@ topic not all women yap, i think it depends on the kind of relationship u have with a guy and vice versa.
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ikamefa (f)
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if you are in a relationship were you are free to express yourself and you guys share every thing together the ego thingy should not come in
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ikamefa (f)
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if you are in a relationship were you are free to express yourself and you guys share every thing together the ego thingy should not come in
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Zahymaka (m)
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It's a personal thing. I'm averse to being helped by people when I know I can help myself. No, I won't take money from a girl, but I wouldn't from a guy too.
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hibans (f)
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well i can, if she's the sort of woman who won't rub it in my face. if she's the proud type, always yappin off her mouth then i'll never take a kobo from her
Exactly what i want to say, u have said it all. |
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hibans (f)
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@didd4, u heard it all, so u have no problem even if she buy car for you collect it plz.
personally, i'm the kind type i have done before and i'll do it again and again.
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eveseh (f)
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yea dey will,lol
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iice (f)
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Some have mentioned pride esp the naija man pride, i understand them, i have no problems doing it and as hibans said i've done it and i can do it over and over. What is impt is what the man feels in this situation, if he has no probs accepting it publicly or privately then for sure lets rock on. If he has probs accepting it publicly but not privately, no probs i jst slip it 2 him so he still feels like the man w/o others non the wiser, if he doesnt accept it publicly or privately, no probs, its his gawd damn right
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hibans (f)
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Some have mentioned pride esp the naija man pride, i understand them, i have no problems doing it and as hibans said i've done it and i can do it over and over. What is impt is what the man feels in this situation, if he has no probs accepting it publicly or privately then for sure lets rock on. If he has probs accepting it publicly but not privately, no probs i jst slip it 2 him so he still feels like the man w/o others non the wiser, if he doesnt accept it publicly or privately, no probs, its his gawd damn right
My dear, their pride shouldn't bother you at all. its just that some of them are very funni, when you do good to them your returns would be bad, but no problem keep doing it not them but God. There's nothing bad when one needs help and you render ok. |
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iice (f)
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LOL, well in my understanding, its all about communication oh, u have 2 knw what he wants and what he needs same way he has 2 knw about yours. Even u tend 2 disregard many, there are certain things u can just not take in2 consideration like male pride or he's likely 2 do something drastic 2 salvage his ego. Ma own opinion sha
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Lord_Reed (m)
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I don't think money has a gender: oh there goes the She-Money or Is that not He-Money.
As such whether d money na from man or woman I go collect.
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adeboo (f)
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Na today?
I know guys that keep multiple girls that just go around collecting money from them. Thats how they survive.
I don't see a problem with spending my money on ma man when i can - it took alot of work but its a good thing to practice.
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biyibabe (f)
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Not all guys are ready to spend so girls should give as they get.
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