Igbo Men And Their Mama

African American men do have a very strong bond with their mothers because their mothers in most cases raised them singlehandedly while picking cottons and that is very understandable. Forgive me for following that mosaic line but what factor in igbo culture is responsible for the strong affinity between an igbo man and his mother?. An igbo man's mother in most cases has the final say over their lives no matter how much they  love their girlfriends or wives.

An igbo man can argue his fathers opinion and  may or may not end up accepting that opinion but his mothers opinion about everything in his life in most cases is not up for argument. He may grunt and complain but will eventually bow down to her wishes. Could there be a certain way igbo women bond with their male children that made them wield so much power over their  lives?. What is their secret recipe? Could it be juju? . Why is their hypnotic jujuism not effective on their daughters so much?

Igbo men  are notorious for waging  endless wars with their own father just because he is dumping their mother and marrying another woman after 40 years of marriage.  Is it not time to look into this matter?

That love is too much oh. Other tribes love their mothers but an igbo mans love surpasses the one akata men have for their mother. That i think is not natural and something must be behind it. Juju or some form of mental hypnotism.

_{Somebody told me sometime ago  that most igbo women abuse their sons sexually hence the undying bond. It's from tribal gossip oh and not from me.}

You need psychiatric evaluation. Are you not noticing that nobody is replying your post anymore

sociologist deepzone, take am easy o

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its not just igbo men,most nigerian men have a strong bond with their mothers and will not go against their mother's wishes,i dont know about the igbos and relationship with their mums,but i have seen countless situations with yoruba men and their mums giving them an ultimatum and them caving in, ita a nigeria/african phenomenom rather than retricted to a particular tribe

You didn't have to repeat that here.

you dont see where's she's going with this?

One of her co-tribalists on nairaland will come back with a rejoinder about Yoruba men sleeping with their daughters. You should know Deepzone's methods by now.

she's got problem, very serious one, its unfortunate she cant
come out to say what her problems are- you just never know
what hav the health section in here with good doctors on nairaland

what is it, you are trying to tell us with your posts woman?

Deepzone again
Dont you get tired of being bashed

the Igbo man wey get Deepzone don carry load.

I hope say na aloy-emeka sha.

Do any of you know how 2 make a topic on nairalnd

how come u claim to know d igbo's but still can't type and pronounce the name well?

since u knw too well,then i wonder why u r always corrected wt the igbo and ibo

I believe that I've explained that phrase over and over again. You can quote it,enlarge it and project it on high definition as many times as you wish.

Some people don't know when to stay off. The same Osisi that banned you from mentioning her name ago some days ago? Same Osisi that you and your group ganged up for because she's saying the truth  is suddenly your sweetheart because you want to stir trouble between her and Erelu. You really think that Osisi is that dense?.    I think that your lack of home training is the real problem here because i wouldn't know what will make you think that you are more clever than Osisi who is clearly more educated and experienced than you. Gosh, that's why I swore never to raise my kids in America. Tired of writing these fables for an ignorant generation.

The explanation is still pathetic

and where did you get the idea that it's just an Igbo thing to be tied to one's mother. Seems to be something most Nigerian men are guilty of regardless of tribe. Yorubas males are just as tied to their moms as well ESPECIALLY "only sons" or first born sons and you know it.

ummmmmmmm i thought men generally are closer to their mama because it is easy to get away with many things. most mama are soft with their male kids unlike the dad who is always carrying koboko and belt

read inbtw d lines,u will get my point