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dearie (m)
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ladies,
How would you react when a friend you dont fancy enough for marraige takes you out, draws on the attention of a mammoth crowd,and proposes to you, asking you to be his wife, in the full glare of everyone, being the cynosure of their attention, even goes as far as ensuring there is a live telecast beaming the show, you know the kind that happens when the president or governor wants to read the budget.
Would you turn him down, or abe moved by his innovation and accept his proposal?
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eveseh (f)
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i'll tell him the fact that i dont want him
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Busta (f)
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such things can't be forced. Try to give it a second thought and see if u two are mean't or not mean't to be together if not, simply and nicely say "no"
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Damsal (f)
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well for him to have propsed to you at all, there must have been quite a push from you to give him THAT much confidence into believing that you would say Yes. All you have to do is just tell him you want to have a word with him aside and i guess if he's pretty smart he would have taken the hint.
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hibans (f)
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@Damsal i think u'r right. but my answer would be no  |
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nilla (f)
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will be moved but will say no, b/c he's the wrong guy
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kiki (f)
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ill tell him the truth is better than going ahead with it this same thing happened in one Nigerian church like dat some dude proposin 2 da gurl infront of d whole church i just think d whole proposal thing should not be u and him and everybody it should be u and him and later everyone
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diddy4 (m)
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just use style and tell him, ummm, hunny, can i have a word wid u for a moment please? a smart guy will also use style and act a fool cuzz his ass will be toast if he doesnt.
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luvlymoi (f)
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this is hard!! i dont like to hurt pple or embarass pple but i still dont like pity relationships. i ll just tell him no in the nicest way possible.
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naija_diva (f)
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if you didn't like him like that, then you should have broken the relationship long time ago.
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iice (f)
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Emmm, y not just tell him if u cud talk 2 him for a min 2 avoid embarassment. Or even if u agree, there's no such thing like a binding engagement, u can break it off later, there's no use in following thru with the marriage.
@naija_diva, i knw some ppl who tend 2 stick 2 a relationship with the wrong person(or shud i say the person they know they will not marry) because they feel lonely by themselves or because they just want to be in a relationship. Trust me i dont even understand those ppl
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Free (f)
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@ topic i will be flattered but then i will have to break it down for him negro i just dont feel that way about you, am sooooooo sorry |
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Izzo (m)
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Why bother since u know he is the wrong guy what ever he says wouldn't make no sense. maybe crack up. Just don' t make him feel stupid at that moment.
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