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kiki (f)
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I'm going to go and raise d child myself and try my best to make him the best he can be i know its gon be hard but I'm going to try anywayz but his little ass better don't come back later lookin 4 no child of his because if he does I'm going to kill him and i mean it
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luvlymoi (f)
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well, what else would a sista do but take care of her baby. well if the guy comes back like kiki said, theres something like killin.
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chy (f)
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A guy ,your guy denies his own hand work this means
he never loved me for once.
Well i ve got to learn my lessons from that and God knows i
wont enter into any relationship again
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sweetnini (f)
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In the first place i wont tell d guy i'm pregnant
because i don't want anyone to talk mi into abortion
when i give birth and he denies it
to hell with him
i'll love my baby wit all my heart and i'll use love to take care of that baby with all i've got and all i'll get
ladies,don't let a guy ruin ur life o
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beyunce (f)
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well u can raise it yourself if u can if u can't ur mum can help if she refuses, i guess u gat no choice
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shawna (f)
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u beat his ass down make him regret ever saying his not the father lol i would take care of my baby and forget about him i guess  |
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eveseh (f)
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i will kill him
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naija_diva (f)
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man, screw him big times. he'll be the one to regret it in the future. not you.
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bluenubian (f)
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thank God for child support  , heck in some states in the US all u need is his name on the Birth certificate to file for child support. |
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desiree (f)
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This is a serious question, I guess i will raise my child by myself and i will make sure he doesn't set his eyes on the child ever i won't claim child support. it is he's loss anyway!!!
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bluenubian (f)
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yeah but that doesnt benefit the child knowing that his father is not in his life, yes its his loss, but these men need to be taught a lesson, they go around making babies and don't want to accept responsibility, i have a friend that pays about $640 a month on childsupport, to me thats not much but believe me, he goes no where without a condom.
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desiree (f)
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@blue That’s true, it is always a good lesson learnt for them to pay child support but it's the pride in me that would make me not want anything from him. As for father figure, I will make sure he/she has a father figure in his/her life. It doesn't take a sperm donor to make a father. Above all, i don't wish that on myself or anybody else |
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bluenubian (f)
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It doesn't take a sperm donor to make a father.
true talk  |
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Cleofel (f)
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never think of aborting the baby.give birth to the baby n take care of him with every single coin u have.he will definetly grow up to become a successful person in future.
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sexindcity (f)
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i will take care of my child and make sure he never comes close to my child and then i will pray that thunder fires him  |
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Busta (f)
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simple, take care of the child on my own. For sure when the time comes and he comes back to his senses, he'll come back for his child but the things is, it might have been too late! Actually, that's a lie. I will Chop off his kinikan |
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mamaput (f)
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When i tell Women thatbirth control is a woman thing, they get mad at me and ask what about the man.
But it is the woman that carries out the baby and it is the woman that gets stranded not the man.
The man will be going out and haveing fun while the woman is sitting at home minding the baby .With all that gose with it.
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sweetnini (f)
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i agree with u @mamaput
but men should sometimes take the responsibility of wearing a condom
because some birth control makes us grow fatter
but condom is just a wear thing
it shouldnt be hard for them
'part from the fact that skin to skin is sweeter
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mamaput (f)
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Thats true but there is also the loop . And not every woman adds with the pill.
Still if any thing happens its only me that will decide if am keeping the baby or not except the man beats it out of me.
But i do know some men that do not want a baby at any cost from just any woman .
These men are more carefull and use a condom all the time.
But if you are married you do not want to be using a condom everyday.
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Viper (m)
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Na wao! see as all these girls are spitting "i will kill him" everywhere ok i want to impregnate one of ya, who will volunteer?  |
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sweetnini (f)
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yea if i get married i wont use like a condom
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mamaput (f)
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yea if i get married i wont use like a condom
that brings us back to the wight problem  Women suffer  then some dumm man will be talking about hs fat wife, |
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sweetnini (f)
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exactly
men don't know that women makes a huge discision
ONE either they take birth controls and get fat even if they don't want to
and the men wouldnt want them as they did because they r fat
OR they don't take pills and get pregnant
which is also a problem
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Viper (m)
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Sorry if this comes across as ignorant. But do birth pills cause fatness in women?  |
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sweetnini (f)
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not all birth pills
and i think it depends on the woman
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Viper (m)
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not all birth pills
and i think it depends on the woman
Then why blame us when you can go buy the one that makes you slim-fast |
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sweetnini (f)
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theres no one that makes any one grow slim(the ones i've seen)
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Viper (m)
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then stick with abstinence, it will pay you at the long run |
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Busta (f)
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Sorry if this comes across as ignorant. But do birth pills cause fatness in women? nahh don't think so or does it? |
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sweetnini (f)
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then stick with abstinence, it will pay you at the long run abstainance ke what if we r married |
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LoverBwoy (m)
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nahh don't think so or does it?
i think some people say they notice an increase in weight when they come off the pill |
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