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my2cents (m)
Nigerians In Nigeria (NIN) Vs Nigerians In The Diaspora
« on: July 31, 2006, 05:08 AM »

Soooo,

To the NINs in the house, based on what you have heard/seen (come on now, we know you have), what questions do you have for those of us in the diaspora, for which you can get an honest answer.  Stuff like?

- We hear u guys work 3 jobs

- We hear all u guys eat is hamburger

- We hear all of you wash dishes/drive cab

- Is it true that the government "gives" you money to go to school?

- Y haven't you built a house yet even though, unlike okoro who "just landed", you have been abroad for 20 years?

Questions of that nature, which obviously are stereotype and based on hearsay.

Bring them on, get them answered.  Letz settle this once and for all Grin
diddy4 (m)
Re: Nigerians In Nigeria (NIN) Vs Nigerians In The Diaspora
« #1 on: July 31, 2006, 05:17 AM »

i aint among doz working 3 jobs. omo that one too much ooo. kai. as for the hamburger thingy, i eat the stuff in the name of adding weight but the damn thingy didnt even make me fat. I'm suing MacD for not delivering what i want.
DaHitler (m)
Re: Nigerians In Nigeria (NIN) Vs Nigerians In The Diaspora
« #2 on: July 31, 2006, 05:18 AM »

This is an awesome thread. I remember when I was back in Lagos, a friend of mine (House aid around 40) told me if he landed in America, he would immediately start sweeping the floor. According to him, sweeping the floor should be enough to make him a rich man. When I think about that, I always smile.  Grin  To think a full grown man would believe that sweeping the floor anywhere in the world would make one wealthy is just ludicrous.

And just an heads up for all you Nigerians out there, yeah, Nigeria sucks, but America is no where near the heaven that you might be lead to believe. And no, I am not saying this because I "sweep" floors or anything.  Grin
diddy4 (m)
Re: Nigerians In Nigeria (NIN) Vs Nigerians In The Diaspora
« #3 on: July 31, 2006, 05:20 AM »

sweep floors? that is funny. damn
DaHitler (m)
Re: Nigerians In Nigeria (NIN) Vs Nigerians In The Diaspora
« #4 on: July 31, 2006, 05:21 AM »

diddy, I love working. I once did 75 hours a week for 3 months straight. I have also done 60 hours of work in 4 days. For those who don't know, that is 15 hours a day for 4 days straight. I have no idea why other people don't like working. I don't do long hours for the money (the government takes most of the over time in taxes anyway) but I like the feeling of accomplishing something. Besides, when you work hard, you put yourself in a position to critic others if it becomes necessary.
diddy4 (m)
Re: Nigerians In Nigeria (NIN) Vs Nigerians In The Diaspora
« #5 on: July 31, 2006, 05:27 AM »

in as much as i love working especially wid computers and electronics, i aint working for no white man for more than 9 hours  a day and 49 hours a week. i aint working on sundays. how can blacks be working their butt off, and the white people be reaping. hell no, I'm gon work like them whites work. i don't see no white doing 18 hours a day. they will die sef.
luvlymoi (f)
Re: Nigerians In Nigeria (NIN) Vs Nigerians In The Diaspora
« #6 on: July 31, 2006, 07:00 AM »

Quote from: diddy4 on July 31, 2006, 05:27 AM
in as much as i love working especially wid computers and electronics, i aint working for no white man for more than 9 hours a day and 49 hours a week. i aint working on sundays. how can blacks be working their butt off, and the white people be reaping. hell no, I'm gon work like them whites work. i don't see no white doing 18 hours a day. they will die sef.
true true my brother!!
my2cents (m)
Re: Nigerians In Nigeria (NIN) Vs Nigerians In The Diaspora
« #7 on: July 31, 2006, 04:50 PM »

LOL,

When i first landed in the US (in the autumn, wearing agbada, but thatz a story for another day Grin), I told my uncle (this was on a friday), that I wd like to start working on monday so I could get my own house and car.  My uncle cdnt stop laughing.

Fast forward to 1999.  That was the year I worked the most - 3 jobs and doing 21 credit hours in school.  I didn't really have to do it, and till this day, I don't know y I did it.  Nonetheless, I am happy I didnt fail any of my classes Grin

Back in the day, the stereotype, at least in the Atlanta area, was to get a dish-washing job.  After all, everyone did it, so who the hell are u?

I suspect not many NINs are on this thread yet, but I hope they will b pretty soon Wink
menike (m)
Re: Nigerians In Nigeria (NIN) Vs Nigerians In The Diaspora
« #8 on: August 01, 2006, 10:43 PM »

Awesome thread  Grin Wink
Txlonghorn (m)
Re: Nigerians In Nigeria (NIN) Vs Nigerians In The Diaspora
« #9 on: August 01, 2006, 11:02 PM »

The Government paid my way through school  so what, I did my part for this Country serving in the US ARMY. It's all about give and take in America. And does it really matter if you sweep the floor or drive a cap, hey if you find a job you enjoy doing do it to the best of your ability. This is just that Nigerian mentality that gets me so mad. If you not a Doctor or an Attorney you not successful.
my2cents (m)
Re: Nigerians In Nigeria (NIN) Vs Nigerians In The Diaspora
« #10 on: August 02, 2006, 04:08 AM »

That is the thing menike - we, for the most part, are too much into competition, envy and showing off.  Rather than encourage our own, we tend, again for the most party, to say, "no b my money I'm go take build house for naija when me i never get".

Sick and sad mentality I say.
jacq (f)
Re: Nigerians In Nigeria (NIN) Vs Nigerians In The Diaspora
« #11 on: August 02, 2006, 03:59 PM »

Why is that once u go out of naija everyone back home will expect u to buy land build a mansion on it in less than 5 years of  staying abroad ? and ofcourse ship home the latest cars .

Hotstepper (f)
Re: Nigerians In Nigeria (NIN) Vs Nigerians In The Diaspora
« #12 on: August 02, 2006, 04:06 PM »

because of people make it seem like that esp. those ones in the states, like when they wanan visit, they will work 24 hrs non stop to go and show off and come back to suffer so when you visit and gat nuthing, they will be wondering if its da same place u two came from. Another thing, they don't know two hands ain't qequals and those people buying cars, what kind of job do they so?

The one that pisses me off when they write u should buy this and that whereas you yourself, don't have such things
my2cents (m)
Re: Nigerians In Nigeria (NIN) Vs Nigerians In The Diaspora
« #13 on: August 02, 2006, 04:08 PM »

jacq:

because Okoro and Temitope, "who just arrived yesterday (never mind what they do for a living)" have done what u hvnt been able to do in the 10 years u hv been away.  In other words, u 'are not sharp enough'.

I personally have also noticed a change in trend in terms of those of us who have emigrated over here in recent days:  In my day, the focus was on education, so it wasnt unheard of for people both here and at home to ask me "what course are u studying (note that they assume that I am in school)?  when will u be finishing?  what school are you attending?"  Nowadays, it seems, *for the most part*, the emphasis is on making money and returning home.

Also, in my opinion, the goals of a 19 year old and that of a 50 year old are totally different.  So whereas a 19 year old may have education on his/her mind, the 50 year old is only thinking of how to catch up with his mates so to speak.  As such, it will take the teenager 10 - 15 years to even think of what the older person is willing to kill him/herself wiping patients' anuses as a Nursing assistant wanting to accomplish yesterday Grin

Note to those back at home:  Most of those "money flashers" u c, end up coming back as paupers upon their return to the diaspora.  They work 48 hours a day for 11.5 months, then go back home and do nothing but spend money for the 2 or so weeks they are there.  The minute the board the plane back home, the depression sets in (house rent is due in 3 days, how am i going to pay for it?  I think I may hv to work the day after I arrive).  Of course, they don't share this with the people back at home, who are probably saying within themselves "Chei!  Nwanem don return o!  At least we chop this time unlike d last time"
Old Glory (m)
Re: Nigerians In Nigeria (NIN) Vs Nigerians In The Diaspora
« #14 on: August 02, 2006, 08:05 PM »

My2cents

Very Interesting thread, well done. Questions for the NIN's,:I want to know how many hours a week they work in Nigerian Banks, Oil Firms,Law Firms, Consulting Firms ETC. Are you paid Overtime? What is your health benefits like? What is your pay? What do you think about getting paid Monthly? What is your Boss like? Do you work on Commision or straight salary?
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