Ladies: Would You Marry a Younger Man?

I don't date girls. I make friends with them.

I believe my expression was presented in the present tense.

"I don't" is quite different from "I won't"

Not really, I'll go for anyone that suits me. Preferably, older girls.

"Ra" - I feel You. You talked tough there. I think what "Amaka" meant by senior is that if the guy is senior say a senior colleague in say status/workplace/ranking but younger in age. Social status sha!
Some ladies re really talking tough with most too emotional & really missing the point, I mean without good reason.

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nah, i can't marry a younger man who  am older dan or da same age although they can be matured enough dan most 24/25/26 etc  men esp. in diz western world...geezzzeeeeeeee, i get pissed up with immaturity of guys here considering their age...i would prefre an older(not more dan 5 years older) as a husband who is matured but not someone younger...hahaha...can't even imagine maself dating someone younger not 2 talk of marriage.. ..i no be celebrities ooooooo because u know them dey lead da world know..lol

I wonder why some ladies are emphasising on Maturity. You don't have to be old before you are matured. You can be young at an age of 20 and has more brain than a guy of 25, so, what are we talking about.
And let me ask you ladies a question or i should just make it another thread.
Assuming you are 22. Will you prefer a guy of 20 who has all the qualities you want in a man and will never cheat on you OR a guy of 25 who will always go out there to cheat on you? Which one will you choose?
Ladies, where are you?

 just nope i wouldn't do it.

Actually, I have dated both older men and younger men.  It's been my experience that I have had enjoyable relationships with both age groups.  However, I prefer to date younger men So, in response to the question at hand....yes I would marry a younger man in a heart beat.  Is it about maturity?  Is it about intellect?  Is it about love?  Yes, each of these things play an intricate part in the relationship; however, love should be the ultimate foundation in which to build the relationship. 

Trust me, the whole maturity thing is overrated because there are older men that approach women who have yet to grow up and are quite immature...vice versa...there are younger men who need to re-evaluate their maturity when approaching women.

Truly, if you spend time speaking with someone you will know if that person is on your level and if their qualities (be it...maturity, intellect, morals...etc) are something you want to explore further.  It's all about what you as a person seeks because in the end you should be happy and left with no regrets. 

:)Good luck to everyone as you navigate through this rugged terrain we call........dating...lol

I think we have someone saying the truth here

What about anytime later

Well I have read through a lot of opinions...
I believe that as our faces are different so also are our destinies
one thing I have come to learn is that a marriage that will last will usually involve two people looking at the same "direction" because when you're both working towards the same direction with the same values you hardly have wahala... Love, maturity, independence, religion, tribe etc are important but become secondary with time...while some of us have made a lot of beautifull inputs it is still important for us to Know that GOD is the only one that can give gifts that add no sorrow...and if that gift my dear is a younger man...take it sister with thanks its better to marry a younger man and enjoy your  marriage than endure your marriage with an older man...After all it's you who will live with the man not the society who may not smile at your marrying a younger man..

Look up to God to give you a man not to your beliefs, thoughts or needs...

never in a million years would i do that it's just not right for me

  ohh did i happen to mention that am inlove with this incredible boy and he is 9 months younger than i am. Does that really count for me being that older than him???

I was born in August and he was born in April.

Thanks Eddy 

did you have to go and let them know you are older than i am, well people don't forget she said i act older, lol
well we be getting married this year, can't wait to have her at home with me, it kills me when i see her leave my house every sunday, you know i almost picked a fight with her cause of it.