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Chrisbenogor (m)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #96 on: November 16, 2008, 10:09 PM »

I think the fun of seduction is in the game, and the thrill of the chase is always sweet. All those alpha male advice can help but the key is to find your niche and to know the girls own niche ( she is an opponent it is war ). Seduction in the real sense of the word is complicated and is a lot different from just tapping into hormones, sex is usually the last thing on the mind of the smooth seducers. What works for Ngozi on the way to the village stream might not work for Susie on the way to Cedi Plaza, feel me Wink

@cayon
J'espère que votre homme est le français, je n'entends ils sont de merveilleux amants
H2O2
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #97 on: November 16, 2008, 10:15 PM »

Quote from: kanismith on November 16, 2008, 04:14 PM
Morenike, i thought u said u're married. Well i don't believe that or maybe your so-called husband is not seductive.  Obviously i agreed with Raymond88,  I think u have a feelin 4 H202 and that u did post diz topic to get his attention or like i said earlier your so-called husband isn't seductive enough. If that's the case, i think you would have made it clear to all NL. Despite that, i think you have feelin 4 H202, why denieling. Besides, almost all your replies has been pointing directly towards him.

Well all i'm saying is that, both of u have some scores to settle. So stop pretending. Call him so u guys can make arrangement on how u can make love, if u are not married, but if u are, then learn how to love your so-called husband and teach him how to seduce u.

Thanks.

Thank you for that revelation.
You know some girls like to form.  When another woman comes and steals her shine then she'll start complaining.
Dark_Rxn (f)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #98 on: November 16, 2008, 10:16 PM »

Quote from: Chrisbenogor on November 16, 2008, 10:09 PM
I think the fun of seduction is in the game, and the thrill of the chase is always sweet. All those alpha male advice can help but the key is to find your niche and to know the girls own niche ( she is an opponent it is war ). Seduction in the real sense of the word is complicated and is a lot different from just tapping into hormones, sex is usually the last thing on the mind of the smooth seducers. What works for Ngozi on the way to the village stream might not work for Susie on the way to Cedi Plaza, feel me Wink

@cayon
J'espère que votre homme est le français, je n'entends ils sont de merveilleux amants
What's this one saying?

Quote from: H2O2 on November 16, 2008, 10:15 PM
Thank you for that revelation.
Shut up!
achinu (m)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #99 on: November 16, 2008, 10:17 PM »

This is a hilarious post. I've to as;

1) When did the art of seduction become the duty of only the male?
2) What stops the naija women from seducing naija men? Abi na abormination?
3) If your man is not seducing you then maybe he's busy seducing someone else  Lips sealed Lips sealed oops I slipped

Anyhew, it takes 2 to tango. I'm not sitting here claiming that every naija man is got seduction skills, but o'girl make u no generalize just as you no wan make I sey naija women too dey lack in that department.
@ the poster wey sey na swiss army knife naija man dey take stab him babe for yansh for take wake am up for sex, maybe na him idea of seduction be that & the babe sef dey enjoy the pain of the stab!! lol, no pain no gain!!
H2O2
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #100 on: November 16, 2008, 10:18 PM »

Quote from: Dark_Rxn on November 16, 2008, 10:16 PM
What's this one saying?
Shut up!
Stop finding my tubble
Dark_Rxn (f)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #101 on: November 16, 2008, 10:21 PM »

Quote from: achinu on November 16, 2008, 10:17 PM
This is a hilarious post. I've to as;

1) When did the art of seduction become the duty of only the male?
2) What stops the naija women from seducing naija men? Abi na abormination?
3) If your man is not seducing you then maybe he's busy seducing someone else  Lips sealed Lips sealed oops I slipped
Great questions.

1. Do you expect women to seduce men all the time? Wouldn't it be more fun if it was made a two-way traffic?
Nobody implied that naija women can't seduce their man, because most of us can Tongue Tongue

2. Nothing's stopping us, that's why we keep doing what we were doing. But it's become a problem when we're the only one doing it na.  Shocked Shocked Shocked

3. My husband is not just any trashy typical naija man Grin Grin Grin so . . . .skipped Tongue

Dark_Rxn (f)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #102 on: November 16, 2008, 10:22 PM »

Quote from: H2O2 on November 16, 2008, 10:18 PM
Stop finding my tubble
hehehe, what bubbles? So who did you seduce last night? Tongue
H2O2
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #103 on: November 16, 2008, 10:25 PM »

Keep talking.  That's all you do . . . 
I wonder why that your fictitious man is not seducing you very well even though you claim he's great.  Better confess your true problem; your husband is incompetent.
skfa1
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #104 on: November 16, 2008, 10:27 PM »

Quote from: H2O2 on November 16, 2008, 10:25 PM
Keep talking. That's all you do . . .
I wonder why that your fictitious man is not seducing you very well even though you claim he's great. Better confess your true problem; your husband is incompetent.

ouch that hurts
Dark_Rxn (f)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #105 on: November 16, 2008, 10:28 PM »

Quote from: H2O2 on November 16, 2008, 10:25 PM
Keep talking.  That's all you do . . . 
I wonder why that your fictitious man is not seducing you very well even though you claim he's great.  Better confess your true problem; your husband is incompetent.
Who told you he's not seducing me well enough?
I'm worried about the divorce rate in Nigeria and trying to look for possible solutions that can prevent divorce. Maybe because the men are not seducing enough.
Leave my marriage out of this na.
skfa1
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #106 on: November 16, 2008, 10:30 PM »

Quote from: Dark_Rxn on November 16, 2008, 10:28 PM
Who told you he's not seducing me well enough?
I'm worried about the divorce rate in Nigeria and trying to look for possible solutions that can prevent divorce. Maybe because the men are not seducing enough.
Leave my marriage out of this na.

H202 abeg leave that out pls,much respect to your marriage
Dark_Rxn (f)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #107 on: November 16, 2008, 10:32 PM »

Quote from: skfa1 on November 16, 2008, 10:30 PM
H202 abeg leave that out please,much respect to your marriage
Thank you
H2O2
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #108 on: November 16, 2008, 10:32 PM »

Quote from: skfa1 on November 16, 2008, 10:27 PM
ouch that hurts
Thanks.  Cheesy

Quote from: Dark_Rxn on November 16, 2008, 10:28 PM
Who told you he's not seducing me well enough?
I'm worried about the divorce rate in Nigeria and trying to look for possible solutions that can prevent divorce. Maybe because the men are not seducing enough.
Leave my marriage out of this na.
Then quit complaining that Naija men can't seduce.  Is he not one of them, or are you in truth dissatisfied with your romantic relationship with him?
Divorce rate ko, panel beating rate ni.  America is not exactly a messianic temple of happily married people, so stop shouting as if divorce is the reason for your man's inability to perform.  Upgrade your hardware.
H2O2
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #109 on: November 16, 2008, 10:34 PM »

Quote from: skfa1 on November 16, 2008, 10:30 PM
H202 abeg leave that out please,much respect to your marriage
Are you kidding me? That thing is not married.  Grin  She's just taking cheap shots at Naija dudes
Dark_Rxn (f)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #110 on: November 16, 2008, 10:35 PM »

If you cannot leave my marriage out of this, then I guess you must be obsessed with my husband.
Like I said early, he satisfies me, sexually and more.
Thank you

Quote from: H2O2 on November 16, 2008, 10:34 PM
Are you kidding me? That thing is not married.  Grin  She's just taking cheap shots at Naija dudes
Who is thing abi you dey craze?
Where you there when I got married? no Angry
eldee (m)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #111 on: November 16, 2008, 10:35 PM »

@topic
All these M&B addicts sef . . .
Seriously, why should man waste time seducing when 90% of Nigerian chics will be seduced by your pocket Tongue Tongue
Dark_Rxn (f)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #112 on: November 16, 2008, 10:37 PM »

eldee, anoher naija girl haterrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
Like w/e  Cool Cool
H2O2
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #113 on: November 16, 2008, 10:41 PM »

Quote from: eldee on November 16, 2008, 10:35 PM
@topic
All these M&B addicts sef . . .
Seriously, why should man waste time seducing when 90% of Nigerian chics will be seduced by your pocket Tongue Tongue

Thank you jare.  Well spoken.  They like talking as if they're hotshit.
Quote from: Dark_Rxn on November 16, 2008, 10:35 PM
If you cannot leave my marriage out of this, then I guess you must be obsessed with my husband.
Like I said early, he satisfies me, sexually and more.
And I guess you must be foolish to be happily married and still be worried about another man's ability to seduce you.
Chrisbenogor (m)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #114 on: November 16, 2008, 10:43 PM »

@Dark_rxn

frothing and foaming does not really classify as talking, I was only trying to point out that the context the term seems to have taken on the thread and that is seduction is not all about sex. Take a chill pill hormones are raging.
Dark_Rxn (f)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #115 on: November 16, 2008, 10:44 PM »

Quote from: H2O2 on November 16, 2008, 10:41 PM
And I guess you must be foolish to be happily married and still be worried about another man's ability to seduce you.
Quote me where I implied that am worried that he can't seduce me Angry
Chrisbenogor (m)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #116 on: November 16, 2008, 10:44 PM »

Quote
Seriously, why should man waste time seducing when 90% of Nigerian chics will be seduced by your pocket

Very true, the men quickly get tired Grin
Dark_Rxn (f)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #117 on: November 16, 2008, 10:45 PM »

Quote from: Chrisbenogor on November 16, 2008, 10:43 PM
@Dark_rxn

frothing and foaming does not really classify as talking, I was only trying to point out that the context the term seems to have taken on the thread and that is seduction is not all about sex. Take a chill pill hormones are raging.
On the first page.
I posted what I thought was seduction. An onset of sex, infact, it does not even have to start sex. It could just be sth enticing, something attracting, and something sensual.
Take note, seduction is not sex
StephenP (m)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #118 on: November 16, 2008, 10:46 PM »

Nigerian women wouldn't know seduction even when it stared them in the face.
Dark_Rxn (f)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #119 on: November 16, 2008, 10:48 PM »

Quote from: StephenP on November 16, 2008, 10:46 PM
Nigerian women wouldn't know seduction even when it stared them in the face.
How can they not know it if they're leaving their marriage or r/ship when their men are not even trying their best to show they know the act of seduction.

No, seduction is not shoving her agaisnt the wall and giving it to her hard.
Mehn, do you ppl  have a lot to learn Undecided
tope2000 (f)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #120 on: November 16, 2008, 10:53 PM »

Quote from: StephenP on November 16, 2008, 10:46 PM
Nigerian women wouldn't know seduction even when it stared them in the face.

Honey im sure that was a typo Undecided
It was meant to be 9ja MEN rite? Tongue
H2O2
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #121 on: November 16, 2008, 10:53 PM »

Yuppers.  They are very immobile when it comes to seduction.  The god of seduction can come to seduce them and they won't even flinch, but as soon as you bring gsm, pounded yam, and ogbono their hooters will rise.
Dark_Rxn (f)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #122 on: November 16, 2008, 10:54 PM »

Quote from: H2O2 on November 16, 2008, 10:53 PM
Yuppers.  They are very immobile when it comes to seduction.  The god of seduction can come to seduce them and they won't even flinch, but as soon as you bring gsm, pounded yam, and ogbono their hooters will rise.
Keep talking about your future wife. hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
StephenP (m)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #123 on: November 16, 2008, 10:57 PM »

Quote from: Dark_Rxn on November 16, 2008, 10:48 PM
How can they not know it if they're leaving their marriage or r/ship when their men are not even trying their best to show they know the act of seduction.

I doubt women would leave their men because he can't seduce them, instead, it's the men who leave a relationship because their women have lost their sex appeal and/or they've found a sexier woman. Women are leaving the relationship and moving to richer men and are simply using this as an excuse.

Quote from: tope2000 on November 16, 2008, 10:53 PM
Honey I'm sure that was a typo Undecided
It was meant to be Nigeria MEN rite? Tongue

Errmm no. Seduce a typical Nigerian man and your wish is granted. Seduce a Nigerian women and she doesn't move unless some paper is involved.
KarmaMod (f)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #124 on: November 16, 2008, 10:58 PM »

Quote from: StephenP on November 16, 2008, 10:57 PM
Errmm no. Seduce a typical Nigerian man and your wish is granted. Seduce a Nigerian women and she doesn't move unless some paper is involved.

In other words, men are cheap abi?
Dark_Rxn (f)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #125 on: November 16, 2008, 10:59 PM »

Quote from: StephenP on November 16, 2008, 10:57 PM
I doubt women would leave their men because he can't seduce them, instead, it's the men who leave a relationship because their women have lost their sex appeal and/or they've found a sexier woman. Women are leaving the relationship
Trust me, If my man stop being spontaneous, I'll stay with him. But when it gets to the part of him not even trying at all, am out Grin Grin

H202, take note Wink Tongue

eldee (m)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #126 on: November 16, 2008, 11:00 PM »

Quote from: Dark_Rxn on November 16, 2008, 10:37 PM
eldee, anoher naija girl haterrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
Like w/e Cool Cool
Moi?? Nah . . . don't misunderstand me
That part only makes my job easier Tongue Tongue

Quote from: H2O2 on November 16, 2008, 10:41 PM
Thank you jare. Well spoken. They like talking as if they're hotshit.
Let any Nigerian chic come out and say money does not influence the choice of who she goes all the way with.


Quote from: tope2000 on November 16, 2008, 10:53 PM
Honey I'm sure that was a typo Undecided
It was meant to be Nigeria MEN rite? Tongue
Erm you don't even have to seduce a Naija man, we get the signs ASAP
Dark_Rxn (f)
Re: Nigerian Men Don't Know How To Seduce
« #127 on: November 16, 2008, 11:01 PM »

Quote from: StephenP on November 16, 2008, 10:57 PM
Errmm no. Seduce a typical Nigerian man and your wish is granted. Seduce a Nigerian women and she doesn't move unless some paper is involved.
If he can get it up and good at what he does in the bedroom, she'd be the one begging him.
No need for money. . . . if. . . . Wink
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