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dearie (m)
Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« on: August 04, 2006, 11:31 PM »

Recently someone slammed with a question that got me biting my finger without an answer and i thought I should just throw it open.

How far can you go for your spouse of girl/boy friend in a terrible situation?
Die for him/her if 'swap-able'?
Go to jail for 20 years for her/him?
Donate your kidney for her/him?
Or simply watch him or her suffer the fate?

 
hot-angel (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #1 on: August 05, 2006, 03:26 AM »

Right now, i don't know thw answer to that question.

Since  i plan on marrying a guy I Love with all my heart. I [You]might[/You] just be willing to die for him when the time of need come.

You never really know the answer to something unless it happens to you. I dnt pray for trouble tho.
dondele (m)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #2 on: August 05, 2006, 03:27 AM »

not in this life. i will live her memories in ma heart.
justkunmi (m)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #3 on: August 05, 2006, 08:32 AM »

Hell no. I cannot die for anybody, my spouse inclusive. Moreso, jesus has already done that. Why waste my precious life?
layi (m)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #4 on: August 05, 2006, 05:48 PM »

My Love is an undying Love.
faa (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #5 on: August 05, 2006, 07:54 PM »

Quote from: dondele on August 05, 2006, 03:27 AM
not in this life. i will live her memories in ma heart.

Men like you have killed my interest in Nigerian guys.
dondele (m)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #6 on: August 05, 2006, 07:55 PM »

why should i die for you?
faa (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #7 on: August 05, 2006, 08:01 PM »

Not for me but for your spouse. For boy's sake, she supposed to be your n°1 priority(if there are no kids concerned). You know, you are supposed to protect her, make her feel safe and (damn!!) if that means you dying for her, oh yes, you have to. It's part of your responsibility.
dondele (m)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #8 on: August 05, 2006, 08:02 PM »

dying for her is my responsibilty? don't make me turn to a reverend father. what of you? wont you die for me? die for me so i will live then.
faa (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #9 on: August 05, 2006, 08:05 PM »

I'm very sure your woman would die for you. Women tend to do and have been doing such things for ages. If not I don't think any woman would be taking s h i t and c r a p from you guys if they were not dedicated.
dondele (m)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #10 on: August 05, 2006, 08:05 PM »

im sorry.
faa (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #11 on: August 05, 2006, 08:06 PM »

lol. for what?
dondele (m)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #12 on: August 05, 2006, 08:07 PM »

for thinking a guy should die for his spouse when he has more to live.
faa (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #13 on: August 05, 2006, 08:10 PM »

the ? was can you die for your spouse?
It would be reasonable to say yes. But eh u don't have to
dondele (m)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #14 on: August 05, 2006, 08:11 PM »

i was just being sarcastic.
faa (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #15 on: August 06, 2006, 07:26 PM »

Got the picture (notice the lol above).
Seun (m)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #16 on: August 06, 2006, 10:09 PM »

There is no such thing as "dying for" someone.  It's just a mythical Christian idea.
viena (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #17 on: August 08, 2006, 04:12 PM »

dieing for him NO
going to jail for him HELL NO
donating kidney, yes since i get two and we can both live and be together.

naija_diva (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #18 on: August 08, 2006, 04:16 PM »

Quote
dieing for him NO
going to jail for him HELL NO
donating kidney, yes since i get two and we can both live and be together.

i'm with you sista. but the order might have to change.

going to jail for him no
dying for him umm difinetly  HELL NO
and as for the donating kidney thing. you're on your own with that one.
viena (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #19 on: August 08, 2006, 04:41 PM »

Quote from: naija_diva on August 08, 2006, 04:16 PM
i'm with you sista. but the order might have to change.

going to jail for him no
dying for him umm difinetly  HELL NO
and as for the donating kidney thing. you're on your own with that one.

well even people who are not in love donate their organs, if we both will live after the donation why not but if i go die HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
lifted (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #20 on: August 08, 2006, 04:58 PM »

Die for my spouse? capital NO because it's written i shall not die but live to proclaim the word of God. If i die, the population of propagators will reduce Grin Smiley

Go to jail for him? I reject it in Jesus Name because it's written, thou shall carry thy own cross Grin

Donate kidney? I pray it wont happen because it's unimaginable. Grin

mubowa (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #21 on: August 08, 2006, 05:09 PM »

i believe nothing is worth dieing for
someone die so that i won't die, why will i die for someone else
and if i die for him, what will he be doing alive?
will he not marry another girl
Idekeson (m)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #22 on: August 08, 2006, 08:56 PM »

Please nobody should die for me, so I don't have to worry about dying for anybody.  Lets just keep this love thing within the bounds of reality.  There is no life after death, not to talk of love after death.
DAMMYGLOW (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #23 on: August 09, 2006, 09:52 AM »

Who will be there to Love them when you die for them?

i pray i never find myself in such a situation

Busta (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #24 on: August 09, 2006, 03:02 PM »

die for your spouse? say wetin happen?
You die for him and he moves on to marry someone else.
ami89 (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #25 on: August 09, 2006, 09:39 PM »

hell no yeah maybe i can donate a kidney but sh it die 4 him heeeeeeellllllllll no
anon101 (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #26 on: August 10, 2006, 10:07 AM »

this is the most stupid question ever , die ko die ni  **** rolls eyes and hiss***
Seun (m)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #27 on: August 11, 2006, 06:36 PM »

Life is more glorious that death.  Instead of "dying for" your partner, why not live to love him/her?
temmyabby (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #28 on: June 26, 2007, 07:41 PM »

  na wah oooo,  una no even gree   Grin
denex
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #29 on: June 26, 2007, 08:35 PM »

Well, there was a point in my life when I had to evaluate this question. I was in the University and one top cultist sent threats for me to stay off my girlfriend. So I decided to give it a thought because in the worst case scenario, I could die.

Well, that was when I realised I was ready. That is when I realised why you hear boys dying over issues of the opposite sex. I thought it was just pride that made them do it but there I was, caught in the web. That was when I realised I would die for that feeling. I'd die for love.

Well, them cultists left me alone, nothing happened to me (ie I didn't die). Well we've broken up and got back together twice and we've broken up again, hoping to get back together in August(just before her birthday). 

I still ask myself that same question and the answer is HELL NO!!! What was I thinking? It mighty have been some kind of momentary insanity. Me denex, die for somebody? Who will carry out all my plans? Who would fulfill all my dreams and visions. Devil is a liar. He was the one that put that disastrously demonic thought in my brain that I was ready to die. Ready to die for love? Love that is just an ordinary collection of chemicals like epinephrins in the brain. A feeling I can creat by eating large chunks of chocolate. In fact the spirit that possessed me that day, I still don't know.

Like somebody said, I will not die, but live to proclaim the glory of my own Goddess. Ase.

After all, tupac has said it that if I die, life goes on. Abeg I want to go on with life. Let death find another person to go on with. I have already made up my mind that I will die at a minimum of 65 years old or a maximum of 90 years old and no spouse can jeopardize it.

I can faint, but die? Lailai. The only thing I can give my life for is Nigeria and not even Nigeria as it is today. I'm talking about when Nigeria would have attained it's potential. That is the time when if I hear any MASSOB, OPC, APC or MEND trying to cause any problems, I will just strap myself with depleted uranium and escort the bastards to hell.

But love? NO! Nigeria as it is today? NO! Anything else I could die for right now? NO! Money?
daz$ (f)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #30 on: June 26, 2007, 09:20 PM »

Una no go kill me with laugh o
doncaster (m)
Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?
« #31 on: June 26, 2007, 09:39 PM »

dying for her, lailai
going to jail for him eehhhh maybe if less than 1 yr.
giving kidney sure what are friends/spouces for.
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