Are Nigerian Men Romantic?

generally, all men are jealous and nobody should bite me cos its true. wen a guy is not jealous that your kissin your ex, it means he doesnt care about u ok? he is probably just there wit u for one reason or the other or he is tryin to get your booty. cos i ve never seen that b4.
 @ topic, well some nigerian men are romantic but most of them are romantically challenged. african mentality.

@luvlymoi
im sorry for girls like you dat think eerone is d same. that happened to my friend and he wasnt jealous one bit. i asked him why and he said she will always end up in his arms. it was in a kindd@ game dat it happened and he wasnt jealous so dont generalize cuzz all men aint the same.

Well, I'm not going to settle for someone where it's just money or romance because I want both.

And for a guy to not get jealous when you are kissing your ex is a little weird,

I would say romance is not a word that pretty much exist in some Nigerian men cases, cos they believe as long as they have the cash at hand any girl would fall flat. Which i really think is insane.

Ooopss I meant boyfriend lol not friend duh

I swear all the naija guys I've met are jealous.

superman please some of the most jealous men r njas

lol!!

My guy is Nigerian, and at first I didnt think he was romantic at all, however I have began to realise that he is very romantic in his own way.

A guy doesnt have to spend money on a lady to be romantic!

Kisses, cuddles, letters, compliments, holding hands, etc etc are all romantic to me.

Even kissing my toes is romantic as far as Im concerned

nosillA xx

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why? cos they dont buy u flowers and hold open car doors for u?
well u may have a point but they do have their up sides

I don't relly know what u all mean by being romantic but i can tell u that Nigerian guys are caring. and my man is very romantic. 

richie-x, I feel you oh! It's the girls around us really, so it works both ways. If you are in a sophisticated environment, believe me you will up your game and be alot more refined in handing your girl. On the other hand, if the babes are all drooling cos you splashed a little change around and give it up to you for next to no hard work on your part, what do you do? I've been with girls that DO not appreciate anniversaries, mementoes(No matter how minute), spending time with them really doing nothing, etc. All they want is to be picked up, taken to so and so place, attend so and so show/party and get a roll in the hay on the way back.

I do appreciate women that acknowledge the little things, they are few and far between.

I really appreciate some of you ladies that are taking side for us. Those of you bashing us are the ones always asking "Na flower I go chop" when we get romantic with you. Another problem with many of our sisters is that they don't handle compliment very well. It get's into their heads. If you are kind and generous they just take it out of content and all that.

100% romantic cuz its only in naija that guys take care of their girls finances.whites would take a girl out and she would still have to settle her own bill

@Topic
10% compared to their foreign counterparts of course!  For the Naija man it is more physical that mental.  Foreplay is even "by force'!   Take a survey for example.  When your are in bed what does a Naija man do first?  Take off his "dross" and reach for the toilet paper.  He is already drippin "slime" everywhere!   They are already waiting for the "end results"  without thinking of how to get there!

Oyibo, mexicano, "akatano" go make you come 20 times for ya front end with all the praises and worship before finally knocking you out in the "killer zone" inside! Abi na lie?  Roses everywhere, food and drink afterwards then give you a bath and massage of your life.  Look,  to these people-----------pleasing the woman or babe is a JOB!.  They plan and execute romance.  To Nigerians it is an OPPORTUNITY that must be seized because they do not know when they will see it again before the babe change her mind!

I say my people---who no go no know!  Ignorance is definitely bliss!  Na only noise una dey make for here.  Just try one oyibo man ladies.  If not for marriage, but the experience!  You will learn a lot on how to please the "guys" that appreciate romance.  Not all of them do, so do not waste your time trying!  If no be culture and raising children, I for marry Oyibo!  They know them work!  More mental than physical.  Oyinbo man fit undress you without using im hands!  Mexicano nko!  those ones are "spicy"!  Naija man na to chop, "phock" then snore all in 5 minutes!  Thank God my own no be like that oh!

@acidrop
Sex and romance after 40? That is where you are wrong honey.   That is when the real romance sets in!  No need for viagra!  You know your body and you know what works and what doesn't at this stage in life.  All the available tools and education you need are available at your finger tips!   At that stage romance is the key to a good sex life.  Not all hurry-hurry, rush-rush stuff! Planning is 75% and spontaneity is 25%!  You became a mature lover then not all this Nairaland "wait and take" ("chere were") romance!  Besides, you are in position to spend money for good romance!  Not all that Mr. Biggs or McDonald's rubbish!