My Girlfriend Urinates On My Bed Every Night (bed Wetting): Help

MY GIRLFRIEND URINATES ON MY BED EVERY NIGHT (BED WETTING)
HEY GUYS, I GOT A MYSTERY THAT HAS BEEN EATING DEEP INTO MY BONE MARROW BUT I HAVE WISHED/SUMMONED  IT TO MY FELLOW NAIRALANDERS,
MY GIRL OF 21 years (NAME WITHHELD) HAS BEEN URINATING ON MY BED WHILE SLEEPING WITH ME ON THE SAME BED ALMOST EVERY NITE
I FOUND OUT WHEN I WOKE UP ONE DAY AND FOUND OUT THAT MY OWN CLOTH(SHORTS) WAS SOAKED WITH WATER, WELL THEY SUMMARY OF MY STORY IS THAT MY GIRL NEEDS A HELP/what SHE CAN DO TO FIGHT THIS ENEMY OF PROGRESS B/C I INTEND MARRYING HER
COMMENTARIES NEEDED PLZ 

girlfriend living with you without marriage,she must urinate on your bed,wake her up every two hours to go and urinate with time she will get used to it and she won't urinate on your bed,she should not overfeed herself before going to bed.

pele oooooooooo, but honestly this is funny.
Yes wake her up atleat twice at night hopefully that would help.

@poster, i will recommend u an e-book but it would be next week,
i m sorry

This may be serious, she might be developing diabetes, please have her go check her blood sugar levels.

Bed-wetting that starts in adulthood (secondary enuresis) is uncommon and requires medical evaluation. Cause may include:

Diabetes
Urinary tract infection
Urinary tract stones
Prostate enlargement
Bladder cancer
Obstructive sleep apnea
Neurological disorders
Rarely, acute anxiety or other emotional disorders may be the cause of adult bed-wetting. A doctor may be able to identify the cause of adult bed-wetting based on:

Medical history
Physical examination
Urine tests
Urologic examinations and tests
Neurological evaluation

Treatment
Monitoring Fluid Intake: Limiting intake of fluids in the late afternoon and evening before bedtime causes a decreased amount of urine produced at night. This could be a helpful first step to reduce wet nights.  Also, decreasing the amount of caffeinated and alcoholic beverages may help.  However, this does not mean that you should reduce your overall fluid intake. Only change the time of fluid intake, as drinking adequate fluids is important for general health. Be sure to drink plenty of water.

Bladder Volume Training: This technique is an effort to increase bladder capacity in those who have a small FBC. (See Causes of Nocturnal Enuresis). The training involves drinking large amounts of fluid during the daytime and refraining from voiding as long as possible, up to 2-3 hours.  Through training, the functional bladder capacity is increased, making voids more infrequent. This method may be especially helpful to those with diagnosed detrusor overactivity, a condition in which the muscles of the bladder contract frequently and involuntarily. For men experiencing symptoms of enlarged prostate, consult a healthcare provider for behavioral therapy options, as bladder volume training can result in distending, or stretching, the bladder.

Bedwetting Alarm System: A bedwetting alarm is a device that awakens an individual from sleep as soon as the accident begins. Multiple variations of the alarm exist, ranging from vibrating to sounding alarms and wet-detection devices that can be attached to the underwear or a pad on which the individual sleeps. Once awoken, the individual is able to stop the flow of urine, finish voiding in the bathroom, and return to bed. Eventually the body is conditioned to wake up with the urge to urinate before wetting the bed.  This treatment option takes some weeks to work, requiring motivation and commitment. It is not as effective if the alarm goes off multiple times per night due to more than one bedwetting episode from decreased functional bladder capacity. Although, in many cases of bedwetting, this device helps the user overcome the condition. 

Waking: While this option does not treat the problem, it may be helpful in preventing a wet bed.  It involves setting an alarm during the night at a random time in order to urinate.  It is important to set the alarm at a random time so that your bladder does not grow accustomed to emptying at a scheduled time during the night regardless of whether or not you are awake.