What Type Of Marriage Would You Prefer?

Ika has been drinking again, on the bottle girl please ease off

Traditional wedding (can't escape that, to keep the thieving greedy vultures called extended relatives happy)
A low-key court wedding.
A pastor conducting a Vestry wedding after that (so that her mother can calm down and see her daughter in white). No bloody church service, just me, her, and our parents.

I think it's stupid that we actually marry 3ce: once bfore the "family", once before the "law", and once before the "church". Waste of time and resources. Can't we just do it all in one location, one duration? Or skip one stupid annoying unnecessary process that people hang onto because it is an avenue to show their wealth/wastefulness?

yeah, i'm a deviant.

I totally dig your talk o gridlock  i just did traditional and court weddng and i am satisfied with those two the traditional one was done big and people were invited with cards we gave away suveniors and every body knows we are married now.anyway we ladies need to do the traditional no matter how stressful it is so our mothers will have face in the village she wont be mocked that her child is livinng with a man and doing osho free service without a dime paid on ones head. Its for our own dignity so please forget about the stress and make your man do the traditional before the white weding