Wigs, Weaves And Perms Symbolize Self Hate

Hey, for all we know, Tyra Banks may wear blue-colored contact lenses all the time, and if she started out in her modelling career  not bothering with straight-hair wigs, she obviously wised up quick, on her way to becoming a multi-millionaire model, which she attained at least in part because she modified her look to make it more "mainstream".

wish I knew. I braid my hair more than I perm it yet I dont go around thinking Im some special star

Cant stand girls like that. Doesnt help that most of them are the biggest hos but that's a whole different thread  

I don't think is holier than thou. I see people wear weaves even after their hairline have all fallen out and am like why don't they stop destroying their hair. Anyways judging by your post you do admit that going natural is "self-improvement."

Paris Hilton is also wearing weave her hair color and texture and not an afro or one the texture of a black persons hair. When black people wear weave are they doing the same?

Um Yea? Never seen an afro or kinky weave before? 

I personally I have no problem with women who go for that forsaken "Natural" look, but when they begin to degrade upon those who choose an alternative route is when I have a problem.

Eventually I might go back to my "Natural" look, what ever the hell that is but, I will not parade around telling old black people tales with my giant slave spoon, singing. . .

Wade in the water
Wade in the water
Children now
Wade in the water
God treble the waters

natural ko, bush woman ni

You fail to see that one is adding on to what is their own hair type while the other is wearing something that is totally different from what they are. Let me explain it like when a white person goes to Nigeria and acts foreign because they are and then a Nigerian that traveled 2 years ago goes back to Nigeria and acts foreign as well. The difference is that one of these things is not like the other, one of these things just doesn't belong.

You do realize that Susan Taylor uses weave to braid her hair and that does indeed mess with the hair line and that was my point to begin with?

How are you so sure it's not her own hair?

whats so healthy about using beeswax on your head like the dreads do?

Point is why are people so bothered with what others do with their own head? 

Now adding is adding, sure good argument.

Technically beesewax and all those other oils black people use to stunt their hair growth without knowing it is useless. If you hair is natural black people's hair are curly enough that you don't need those things in water and even though water is black women's kryptonite it is actually good to wet your hair often. Water grows it better than the beeswax and all those other nonsense.

I love my weave because it looks good on me. I love my hair. I had my natural hair out for 3 weeks until I got my weave on thursday. Self hate will not go that far. It depends on what I'm comfortable in. As long my family, my guy and my God are not complaining, I'm fine with it. The truth about it is that there are so many other things you could tackle before hair. It's doing me a lot of good. I don't hate myself. . . I absolutely love my real hair but it's easier for me to have this in. If you have a problem with it, keep your opinions to you and your immediate surroundings. I don't think you have any right to attack us for this.
I was talking about moisturizers. . . you are talking about perm. You said too many moisturizers is not good. Please don't tell me you're walking around all ashy white. Perming is using chemicals, fine. but if that is the only thing that makes me appear responsible and not mad, I'm happy.
The Nigerian government is not complaining. Do you know how many hairdressers make money off weaves and braids? It's a source of income for both the people and the government. If everyone was natural, watch and see many more jobless, hungry people on the streets. Why are you complaining on their behalf. Did someone steal your costumers by telling them to get weaves or something?Tell me where God said that we should add nothing to our hair and I'll agree. He said tattoos, I didn't see bleaching, i didn't see facelift, i didn't see perms. These are moral issues that you have with women and you're just trying to pass them off as gospel truth. I hate it when people try to put their beliefs across using God. It's blasphemy.
Normal hair is not bad. We just like it. Deal with it or get a job. White people get weaves too. Do they hate themselves. They get perms too and they even get their hair coloured so how is this a black thing?
Apparently you got none.
I'm done replying you. I can see you're one of those grounded in their stubborn beliefs.

Pathetic isnt it?  Probably one of those people that dont use lotion/deodorant/toothpaste etc all in the name of being natural

why not stick to pako?

Any item that is a potential health risk should be left alone. I have stopped using deodorants since i noticed that it does in fact exacerbate body odour and is also detrimental to the skin cells in the arm pits(perharps a result of altered sweat glands as you mentioned).
I came to realize that there is a method to everything; if you use the proper method to bath and brush your teeth you will overstand that deodorants and teeth whiteners are not necessary. Same goes for shaving, if it is done with the proper method there won't be a scratch on your face. Besides i don't think men should shave, they should just trim their beards.
  

Your right. Men have no business seeking a hair transplant nor purchasing performance enhancers; note however, that these practices are prevalent in western societies were pettiness and vanity reign supreme.
Nonetheless, this thread was intended to address the self-hating rituals and psychological maladies of my nubian sistas. The multitudinous problems that besiege nubian men should be reserved for another thread.


If nubian females lack confidence and self love then the disarray that the nubian nation finds itself in ceases to be a thing of mystery because it will become clear and distinct that that is the cause. This is an issue of the survival and self determination of a nation of people. Teach a woman and you teach a nation.
Economic recessions are nothing new and are inevitable but how well people handle recessions depend to a large extent on how knowledgeable they are of self. Will the sistas run to whitey for help and assurance just like they run to a blond straight haired blue eyed messiah? or like they run to purchase european/asia weaves and wigs to falsely boost their self esteem and image(which they feel is a closer representation of their white/arab God)?


In nubia male baldness is not a big deal. And it can even be a thing of beauty; take 2pac for example.

All those adds are just another avenue that these blood sucking capitalist use to exploit the insecurities of the effeminate males(not men) in their vain societies.


Ofcourse i don't expect you to overstand the problem given that you are within that system of thought. You did have to analyse the game from without to get the full picture. Yes your right to say that cell phones, cars, sodas, and what have you, are health risks but you have to stick to the topic at hand. By the way, i don't use any of those items you mentioned because i overstand their implication.

A perm, weave or wig is a conscious or subconscious expression of self hate  because they are all futile attempts at concealing or altering ones naturalness which they see as a source of shame. Now, a lot of sistas will lie and fool themselves into thinking otherwise and some will even come up will all sorts of cleverly crafted excuses(i have heard it all) to rationalize their stupidity but after all said and done, the truth remains unshakable and inescapable.



This is one very common excuse. Have you ever asked your self why it is only the nubian females that find it "touchy"(whateva that means) and difficult to keep their natural hair but not the nubian brethren? How is it that a lot of nubian brothers with natural hair can some how remarkably handle this arduous task that you sistas always whine about? What happened to the saying: "what a man can do a woman can do"? Abeg give me a break jare.


Yes except for glasses that correct eye problem, they are immoral. The fluid inside condoms can cause impotency and other health complications; do your research and see. Immunisation is suicidal since we should have learnt from historical happenings that nubians have been used as guinea pigs for western drug test and experimentation. Aids was transmitted via polio vaccination in the congo. Beleive it or not there is a conspiracy to depopulate nubia just read "the king alfred plan" that was plotted over 30yrs ago and it's now declassified, just imagine what the current plans of these white supremacists(whose underlying fear is white genetic annahilation) are. But again, please stop veering off topic.
Ignorance and social unawareness is suicidal and irresponsible hence immoral



I doubt you do.

Here we go again, always wanting to follow whitey like zombies. So if a white female celeb wears wigs and weaves it then becomes justifiable for the nubian female to do so?

Don't you know that the self hate the nubian females have stems from the ability of white supremacists to successfully deflect their inferiority complex and numerous insecurities unto the so-called "coloured peoples"(nubians in particular) via western global media and ideologies.
why are nubians always quick to copy the most vile of western character?
 
The pervasive colonial mentality amongst nubians is a psychological malady that must be tackled truthfully and directly with proper education of self.