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cap28
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Too simplistic for some people - but marriages that are based on love - whether black/white, white/black, black/black etc - don't need to be over analysed. God presents you with the one, you get married. Period. actually marriages btwn blacks and whites DO need to be overanalysed because a black persons reality is not the same as a white persons. a black person who has grown up in western society will find that they have been constantly subjected to a bombardment of overt and covert racism and this colours his way of looking at the world and even the decisions he takes even in terms of who he decides to date or marry. if a black man has constantly been told that everything about him is useless, ugly and worthless dont you think he will do everything in his power to distance himself from that thing, unless of course he is mentally and spiritually strong enough to protect himself from this psychological brainwashing. therefore if he chooses a white woman as a wife he may not necessarily be doing this out of "love" but because of a desire to distance himself from anything that reminds him of what the racist white system has told him is negative. this is one of the main reasons why black men date white women its not love - its because they've been programmed to hate themselves and anything that reminds them of themselves. why is it that asians, chinese and other non white races despite being socialised in the west amongst whites STILL marry people of their own race? blacks have been scapegoated and stigmatised by a white racist system any black person who cant see this is in denial its all around you, even "innocent" tv commercials project the ideal mixed couple as a black man and white woman, why not a chinese man and white woman or even white man and black woman. blacks and in particular black men in the west are the one racial group that are most likely to marry outside their own race, therefore your claim that god presents you with the one and you get married is an oversimplification of how black people and in particular black men choose to marry or date.
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hajifaty (m)
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Black gals are troublesome esp the black gals from US. Black gals feel jelous when they see a black guy with other race. Can u imaging a SC gal telling a Nigerian that I know you dont have my time because I am a black gal but if it was a chinese gal it will be another story. Here is a guy that doenst care much about US or marrying her for passport sake but just running away from future problems
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KB1 (m)
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Black gals are troublesome esp the black gals from US. Black gals feel jelous when they see a black guy with other race. Can u imaging a SC gal telling a Nigerian that I know you dont have my time because I am a black gal but if it was a chinese gal it will be another story. Here is a guy that doenst care much about US or marrying her for passport sake but just running away from future problems
Personally, I think she was right about you.
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rokiatu (f)
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Black gals are troublesome esp the black gals from US. Black gals feel jelous when they see a black guy with other race. Can u imaging a SC gal telling a Nigerian that I know you dont have my time because I am a black gal but if it was a chinese gal it will be another story. Here is a guy that doenst care much about US or marrying her for passport sake but just running away from future problems example why some black girls would rather date white guys
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GEW
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Lol. So many sweeping generalisations and warped mindsets on here.
But just for the record - lots of people claim on NL that black women are too much like hard work, high expectations, drama queens etc etc - what makes y'all think that white girls aren't like that too?! My husband would choke laughing if someone told him that he obviously married me to avoid wahala!!! I give him more than any black woman could I assure you!!
Too simplistic for some people - but marriages that are based on love - whether black/white, white/black, black/black etc - don't need to be over analysed. God presents you with the one, you get married. Period.
how many % of marriages would you say God arranged? even amongst pastors you wont count 5%. try another one.
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3spade3 (m)
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Look at this mulatto beauty
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3spade3 (m)
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Look at this White beauty
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3spade3 (m)
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Look at this latin(Dominican) beauty
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chic2pimp (m)
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^^^^ Those girls are pwetty.
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Radiant (f)
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LOL. . . funny thread. Una don start again 
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KB1 (m)
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 This bitch is ugly, on the real. I'm not being racist either, cause I see good looking women in all races of people-- but this one is not one of them.
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