Why Do Many Famous Black Men Date White Or Mixed-Race Women?

People aren't stores.

It's not ok that a black man subscribes to the toxic ideal that black women(west indian) are crazier than something lighter. I do not apologize for what I said.

Take my store analogy for example; just because one person no longer shops at Walmart due to a tramatic event, doesn't mean that the majority of consumers will stop shopping at Walmart based on the stories of others, so why focus on the minority, when there's a majority of men who love, cherish and respect black women.

white girls needs to step their game up on. Learn how to do something more than open your legs, and swallow penis to avoid arguments and come and talk to us.

i think its a combination of things, a black man growing up in the west is programmed to hate himself - he is constantly bombarded with negative images of himself which begins once he enters the educational system - he is told that he has no history, nothing to be proud of about himself and his people and how everything of value is from the white man.  this of course includes beauty therefore he begins to reject anything that reminds him of himself including his own women. 

also the media projects images of what female beauty is and its usually light hair, light skin and light eyes with the epitome being the white blonde skinny woman. 

the famous black man with poor self image now beleiving the white man, buys into this believing that having a woman like that will  elevate him and make him feel better about himself.  so he gets himself a white woman or if he has to go with a black woman one that is closer to white than black -this is why tiger woods with all his money would marry a blonde waitress, i cant imagine a rich young white man marrying a black waitress but this is the level of inferiority black men suffer which enables them to reject their own in favour of someone of another race even if that person is of a lower social status than themselves.

many black people have extremely low self esteem due to constant bombardment of negative images about their blackness  through the media eg  films, magazines, music videos etc  - i would say this is one of many reasons why black men and particularly famous black men prefer to marry whites or light skinned black women.

when black men or women  are depicted in films they are usually pimps, hustlers, murderers, clowns, prostitutes or  mammies this creates a feeling of shame and embarrassment in the minds of blacks and they eventually come to believe that these images depicted by the white media are true representations of their people however what they dont know is that these are the images of black people that whites are comfortable with.

ultimately if youve been subjected to all this negativity over time it will have an adverse effect on you.

if it were that we really did live in a world where race was irrelevant as far as dating and marriage is concerned a lot of men of other races would also behave like black men and marry outside of their race but most do not.   i beleive that this is because the other races know the burden that blacks carry, they are also aware that blacks are victims of institutionalised white racism and they dont want to have to experience that themselves or have children who will be on the receiving end of it either. 

Being black in the west is regarded as a stigma and many races have bought into it,  the sad thing is black people have also bought into and are trying everthing possible to distance themselves from their own people.  if they could stop and think for a minute they would realise that this is a covert conspiracy by the white establishment to decimate the black population.

i think its a combination of things, a black man growing up in the west is programmed to hate himself - he is constantly bombarded with negative images of himself which begins once he enters the educational system - he is told that he has no history, nothing to be proud of about himself and his people and how everything of value is from the white man.  this of course includes beauty therefore he begins to reject anything that reminds him of himself including his own women. 

i cant believe you find it very easy to say you find white women revolting. do you also find the men revolting?

1. This topic refers to women.
2. I am not gay hence your question is kinda weird.
3. On the second thought, . . . maybe my choice of word "revolting" was bad.

Instead i should have said:

I do not find white woman attractive and infact I find those of them that do cosmetic surgery (for pleasure) to be kinda revolting just as I find blacks who do pleasure based cosmetic surgery to be revolting.

For a detailed expose of my views see below:


I frankly consider black women to be more beautiful than white women both in the short and long term definitions of beauty and also from the natural angle.
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3. I can't date nor marry a white woman because they are simply not to my taste, nevertheless that does not stop me from being friends with them.

4. I believe well groomed black women have the best skins on the planet.

5. White women tend to age/get old and lose their beauty much faster, hence partly the reason why plastic surgery is much more rampant amongst white women as they get older.

6. Black women age better and more gracefully, in fact sometimes its tempting to say that its seems black women get more beautiful with age,

7. White women are not naturally blessed with 'backside' and 'frontside' hence their need for all the fake boob jobs and butt enhancements.

8. I consider them to have better family values.

9. White women are high maintenance as a result of issues raised in points 5, 6, 7.

10. Even the fashion trends of tanning corroborate the fact that black skin is a beauty to behold.

11. Black Women have full luscious lips, something being copied by white women with the various lip enhancement surgeries,

12. Finally here are my choices amongst black women[/i]


Fat  - Hell No

Skinny and short - No
Skinny and Tall - Yes

Hourglass and short - No
Hourglass and Tall - Yes

Curvy and short - No
Curvy and Tall - Yes

White ladies - Hell No
Ebony ladies - Yes

Black Lady or White Lady with any hint of cosmetic surgery - Hell No
Black Lady with natural attributes - Yes


I love my Black Sisters , its not my fault, I WILL TAKE THEM OVER ANY WHITE WOMAN ANY TIME ANY DAY,



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