Why Do Most Nigerians Abroad Feel Too Big (important)when They Come Here!

ask yourself,  how do u behave when someone comes from abroad?  i should feel important because I am and by the way, be yourself and stop acting like beggers when someone comes from abroad, that way, they wouldnt walk all over you.

Simple question requires simple answer!
Na you people make them feel big and na you dey come halla for hia,It amazes me that people in Nigeria will ask poeple in abroad to buy me next shirt when you are coming oo, buy me chocolates,infact buy me the queen or the president as if this things don't exist in Nigeria or someone coming home tells them I am coming for visit,con see request list,so tell me why wont they feel big when they arrive with all your orders even though they wont tell you that it was credit card that was mostly used in buying the stuffs.
Nigerians at home should get a life,when someone comes back from abroad,welcome him and give him a gift for coming back,that way they will feel small and you will tell them that you are also better foo staying in Nigeria E o tago

This topic reminds me of the last time i came to Nigeria , i was so excited to  visit nigeria and meet with some friends and families  so i made a big mistake by informing  some of them of my flight details. i recieved lot of calls from people (even names i cannot remenber again ) asking me to buy all sort for them (Mobile phones was the highest request , laptops , clothes , shoes  e.tc ) . i was shocked when i got to nigeria , first of all at the airport there were more than 20people to welcome me (i don't see any point for 20people to come welcome  me , i am not a GOD) , the other issue i had was hanging out with people or going to the market to buy things ( at the market if i bargain for price , my friend will tell me why am i barganing , u just came back from abroad and u barganing !) these is shocking to me , is it that people who live abroad and when they go back to Niger they don't bargain ?

I went out to check for the prices of the above items people asked me to buy for them (Mobile phones was the highest request , laptops , clothes , shoes  e.tc ) some of the items are even cheaper in Nigeria , I live in the Seychelles one of the most expensive place in the world , i did not buy some of the items i only bought things i could afford and things i thought they will  appreciate but the comment i got from some people is that people who live abroad are stingy and they feel too big .

My next trip to Nigeria i will just find one small hotel stay and spend time with close friends and families alone .

@ poster .
U people back home in Nigeria make them feel big when some of you guys treat them as GOD or GODESS , that is why some returnees just keep to them self and don't want to hang out with some people again

I think too many people have a distorted view of what being abroad means. They equate it with having money, a never ending supply of it.

To be fair, they usually do the same to very rich Nigerians who have never left the country. The only difference is that they don't demand as much from him/her.

It would help if people didn't brag/pretend about how much they have in the first place though. You will find that many people nowadays travel to Nigeria without the knowledge of friends and family, or just a select few, simply because of the hassle and expectations of people there.

Its like you are not related to as a person, simply an opportunity or a bank.

@ OP take heart even here or the abroad where you have to work hard to pay what have to be paid
you still find some plenty naija men/women who thinks they re better than others,such people i avoid like the pest.