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LRNZH (m)
Fixed Fake Hair
« on: November 27, 2008, 07:53 PM »

Hi people

don't know why our ladies keep fixing all that stuff on their head (weave-on etc etc).
Fake hair is black woman's problem today.
I don't fancy it and I know a lot of folks who don't.
It's expensive, it can be a pain to get on and it looks fake

I have been with European ladies and their natural hair is attractive.

It would be nice to see our ladies with their natural hair too.


No mind me oyibo babes don tire me.  LOL


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LRNZH (m)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #1 on: November 27, 2008, 07:54 PM »

But seriously babes can do better.
DavidDylan (m)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #2 on: November 27, 2008, 09:00 PM »

Quote from: LRNZH on November 27, 2008, 07:53 PM
I have been with European ladies and their natural hair is attractive.

that's the problem. You cant run your fingers through a black woman's natural hair. Well in order to please us they fix their hair . . . not bad in my opinion.
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #3 on: November 27, 2008, 09:29 PM »

Quote from: LRNZH on November 27, 2008, 07:53 PM
Hi people

don't know why our ladies keep fixing all that stuff on their head (weave-on etc etc).
Fake hair is black woman's problem today.
I don't fancy it and I know a lot of folks who don't.
It's expensive, it can be a pain to get on and it looks fake

I have been with European ladies and their natural hair is attractive.

It would be nice to see our ladies with their natural hair too.


No mind me oyibo babes don tire me.  LOL


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If you find european hair attractive, why do you have problems with wigs and weaves? they're of the same texture (that's the reason black ladies wear weaves in the first place. so it can look european). lol
you're very confused
HR.hotness (f)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #4 on: November 27, 2008, 09:36 PM »

@OP

if u dont like it find a girl with natural hair na. Angry
u cant expect that every woman will conform to your preference do u?
chika98
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #5 on: November 27, 2008, 09:46 PM »

Then find someone who doesn't fix hair.
~Sauron~
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #6 on: November 27, 2008, 10:17 PM »

Quote from: LRNZH on November 27, 2008, 07:54 PM
But seriously babes can do better.

I like their fixed fake hair as long as it ain't blonde.
DavidDylan (m)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #7 on: November 27, 2008, 10:20 PM »

there's a way around it. Ask your woman to do minibraids. I find it far more appealing than western hair.

White women's hair is fun initially, you'll have problems when hair strands start appearing everywhere . . . since u're not used to it. Can be annoying.
HR.hotness (f)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #8 on: November 27, 2008, 10:25 PM »

som1 is speaking from experience eh?  Wink
*Hauwa*
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #9 on: November 27, 2008, 10:27 PM »

 Grin Grin

tpia
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #10 on: November 27, 2008, 11:23 PM »

Quote from: DavidDylan on November 27, 2008, 09:00 PM
that's the problem. You can't run your fingers through a black woman's natural hair. Well in order to please us they fix their hair . . . not bad in my opinion.

women arent necessarily fixing their hair in order to please males.

Fixing hair is so much more than that. Women just have a natural desire to look attractive regardless whether or not there's any male in the picture.

Many other things involved such as confidence, versatility (not being stuck with only one look), and experimenting.

Not trying to burst any bubbles, but not all women live in fear of not being able to snag a man.
benincitys (f)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #11 on: November 27, 2008, 11:23 PM »

ever white girls now use fake hair i want to make my hair yesterday 3white girls where  adding fake hair to their hair.
LRNZH (m)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #12 on: November 28, 2008, 12:45 AM »

The point is simple
if i like them (Euro ladies) for their natural hair
i want the African lady to carry her natural hair as well
African hair needs its own special care
I dated a fulani girl years back
she had long natural hair cos she takes care of it
she actually uses shea butter (oil)
that's one of the major things that attracted me to her
Afros, mini braids and well made dreads look kool on you my sisters

Pls we can be more creative


tpia
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #13 on: November 28, 2008, 12:46 AM »

is this fayahsoul?
KarmaMod (f)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #14 on: November 28, 2008, 12:48 AM »

how come you;ve been dating European women instead of black women with natural hair then?

Bloody hypocrite
LRNZH (m)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #15 on: November 28, 2008, 12:52 AM »

Hey Karma,

Fulani is African,

@ DaveDylan.  I can't run my hands through some fixed hair with all the oils in them bruv

can be shitty

We need our own looks not some copycat hair type

no pun intended though
tpia
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #16 on: November 28, 2008, 12:56 AM »

since when does an African man become preoccupied with running his fingers through a woman's hair?

You see how some guys oyibonize themselves but shout at black women who do the same?
LRNZH (m)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #17 on: November 28, 2008, 01:02 AM »


LOL

If you understand the science of human touch,

running hands through a woman's hair for example is universal.

Our women are beautiful but are not exploring their own type of beauty enough

black hair can be made to look really good if we really try
tpia
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #18 on: November 28, 2008, 01:25 AM »

Quote from: LRNZH on November 28, 2008, 01:02 AM
LOL

If you understand the science of human touch,

running hands through a woman's hair for example is universal.

Our women are beautiful but are not exploring their own type of beauty enough

black hair can be made to look really good if we really try

for your information:

running your fingers through a black woman's hair will not give you the same sensation as when you do it with a white woman.

why?

because the texture is not the same. Unless the hair is permed or a weave.

You can stroke black hair, but if you're getting touchy feely in the expectation of getting the same buzz you get from white hair, then you and your partner are setting yourselves up for disappointment. I stroke black hair. I dont run my fingers through it.


as per oil- oil makes white hair greasy and slick, hence they don't use it as often as black hair. Glossy hair looks good on blacks. Not always so for whites.

Comparing apples and oranges in this manner isnt good for you, really.

if you need to touch hair all the time, then get a pet or volunteer at a stable. Your black partner [ if you've got one] can also oblige you by going natural, but everyone doesnt have to be the same.
Ebony-Silk
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #19 on: November 28, 2008, 01:33 AM »

This one again?

If you don't like seeing weave on your woman's hair, tell her. Leave the rest of us alone.

No, wearing weave does not mean we hate ourselves. Infact, it's the total opposite.

And yea, not everyone looks good with weave on. That's the message y'all should be passing to those sad sistahs
KarmaMod (f)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #20 on: November 28, 2008, 03:07 AM »

Quote
Quote from: LRNZH on November 28, 2008, 12:52 AM
Hey Karma,

Fulani is African,

Where are you from?
LRNZH (m)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #21 on: November 28, 2008, 03:12 AM »

V. Nigerian and I like to keep it that way
I think I am less insular cos I am not from any of the three majors
Hausa, Yoruba n Ibo.

Ciao
KarmaMod (f)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #22 on: November 28, 2008, 03:14 AM »

yet you've dated more white woman than Nigerian
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #23 on: November 28, 2008, 03:14 AM »

Quote from: tpia on November 28, 2008, 01:25 AM
for your information:

running your fingers through a black woman's hair will not give you the same sensation as when you do it with a white woman.

why?

because the texture is not the same. Unless the hair is permed or a weave.

You can stroke black hair, but if you're getting touchy feely in the expectation of getting the same buzz you get from white hair, then you and your partner are setting yourselves up for disappointment. I stroke black hair. I don't run my fingers through it.


as per oil- oil makes white hair greasy and slick, hence they don't use it as often as black hair. Glossy hair looks good on blacks. Not always so for whites.

Comparing apples and oranges in this manner isnt good for you, really.

if you need to touch hair all the time, then get a pet or volunteer at a stable. Your black partner [ if you've got one] can also oblige you by going natural, but everyone doesnt have to be the same.


LOL. the guy is confused.  Tongue


Quote from: LRNZH on November 28, 2008, 01:02 AM
LOL

If you understand the science of human touch,

running hands through a woman's hair for example is universal.


LMAO  Grin I bet your black grandpa had fun running his hands through your black grandma's nappy hair back then when perms didn't really exist.
universal my nose
science of touch my neck
LRNZH (m)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #24 on: November 28, 2008, 03:24 AM »

Guys move with the times

I have dated an equal number of African and non Africans
and its cool

If you are not the 'touch' type
Your 'Machismo' is allowed but I think it's faulty
LOL

Well it's all about fixed hair right?

Mon noir ladies-fixed hair isn't as fancied
Enjoy

DavidDylan (m)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #25 on: November 28, 2008, 03:36 AM »

Quote from: tpia on November 28, 2008, 12:56 AM
since when does an African man become preoccupied with running his fingers through a woman's hair?

You see how some guys oyibonize themselves but shout at black women who do the same?

you have a point. stroking i meant to say. 
HR.hotness (f)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #26 on: November 28, 2008, 03:43 AM »

whats all this preoccupation with hair? your hands shd be too busy stroking other things to knw what my hair feels like Angry
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #27 on: November 28, 2008, 03:44 AM »

Quote from: LRNZH on November 28, 2008, 03:24 AM
Guys move with the times

I have dated an equal number of African and non Africans
and its cool

If you are not the 'touch' type
Your 'Machismo' is allowed but I think it's faulty
LOL

Well it's all about fixed hair right?

Mon noir ladies-fixed hair isn't as fancied
Enjoy



what we are trying to get through  your thick skull is that you can't run your fingers through a black girls hair unless she has "fixed" it with a fresh perm (no natural undergrowth etc). so you are contradicting yourself.
on that note, I will advice you to stick with non-Africans.
some people fancy fixed hair, some don't. I personally am biased towards "unfixed" hair. but one man's meat is another man's poison.
DavidDylan (m)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #28 on: November 28, 2008, 03:59 AM »

Quote from: WesleyanA on November 28, 2008, 03:44 AM
what we are trying to get through your thick skull is that you can't run your fingers through a black girls hair unless she has "fixed" it with a fresh perm (no natural undergrowth etc). so you are contradicting yourself.
on that note, I will advice you to stick with non-Africans.
some people fancy fixed hair, some don't. I personally am biased towards "unfixed" hair. but one man's meat is another man's poison.

you can. If she's on braids.
tpia
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #29 on: November 28, 2008, 04:21 AM »

honestly, I'm getting confused.

who's trying to be like whitey here- the girls who fix their hair in various ways in order to look attractive, or the black guys who pine for natural black hair they can run their fingers through? Huh



even though they know fully well natural curly black hair is in no way like white hair.

who's self hating now?

As was pointed out- did our great grandfathers run their fingers through their wives hair? nothing wrong with it but some of you guys have acquired the same oyibo mentality that you're accusing others of.

this is as funny as listening to a white man going on about women's behinds.
iceblue (f)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #30 on: November 28, 2008, 12:01 PM »

to each his own.

methinks the answer is simple. date girls with low cut. easy to run your hands through.

there's no pleasing awon-aiye!
if you perm, you want to look european Huh Huh
if you fix, it's fake Embarrassed Embarrassed
if you braid, it smells Lips sealed Lips sealed
if you do pepper and patewo, you're a bush villager  Undecided Undecided

please, poster, we don't stop guys from piercing and using relaxers and dyes (even thoug it has made those items more expensive in the market  Angry Angry ). If guys want to wear skirts today sef, we no go quarrel. go and find a girl with a hairstyle that makes you happy and stop nagging the rest of us  Tongue Tongue Tongue
cyriluzo (m)
Re: Fixed Fake Hair
« #31 on: November 28, 2008, 04:21 PM »

Here we go again, @poster abeg whn u marry your wife tell her what you want period. stop disturbing others
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