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enchantra (f)
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There is not fast way in getting over heartbreak!!!!!! JUST GIVE IT TIME
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disney (f)
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the fastest way to get over a heart break is to work full time no shaking...especially with clients, customers.. . that way u go fassie the guy fast fast.lol 
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Oracle (m)
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the fastest way to get over a heart break is to work full time no shaking...especially with clients, customers.. . that way u go fassie the guy fast fast.  i somhow agree with disney but itz not easy anyway u'll still remember it no matter what happened, but with time u'll get ova it
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florino37
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i dont think there is anything like 'fastest way out' in this matter. just cry, that can help
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florino37
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i dont think there is anything like 'fastest way out' in this matter. just cry, that can help
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vichel (m)
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The fastest way  , probably there is none, but worst way to get over a heartbreak is not to cry. Have urselve a very good cry, then wipe your eyes dry, u would fell much better
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Raedella
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It's been 3 months since my boyfriend of 5 1/2 years broke up with me. It shook my world down to it's deepest foundations, because I believed he was truly 'the one' and all the other cliche's. I don't know how i'm doing in terms of getting out of it quickly, anything that touches your soul and is truly beautiful can't be gotten over in a matter of days. But I am getting better. There are many pathways i guess to getting over someone. The first thing is to surround yourself with people that care in whatever way you can. Family and friends have been so important to me. I've tried to spread myself around a bit because i didn't want to overburden anyone, but at the end of the day they don't mind me calling whenever. I got a doggie as well, and looking after something else has been a huge help. The other thing thats good is retail therapy..... but even if you don't have any money you have to be kind to yourself. Go for a walk on the beach, remember who YOU really are because however much you try and stop it from happening you do loe yourself a little in relationships. You become and US instead of an Me, and now is the time when it's perfectly ok to think about "Me me me" but only for a while. Just remember that you are an incredibly unique and wonderful person who needs time to heal. It's ok to cry for a while, eventually you won't want to anymore, and it won't be the first thing you think of when you get up in the morning, or the last thing before you go to bed. It might seem really superficial but the betteri look on the outside the better i feel on the inside..... but i'm only doing it for me, it gives my self esteem a boost and leaves me feeling good inside. I changed my hair colour, got contacts and although not intentionaaly lost a heap of weight. I can't really take credit for that though, it's just when i'm stressed i don't eat, and i have to take my new pet for long walks, so the upshot is weight loss. The fact is you will be ok.....maybe not great for a while, but you will get there. I still cry a few times a week, but they don't last anywhere as near as long as they used to. Finally, use your heartbreak to make you braver. Like Robbie says, 'When a heart is broken there's nothing to break', so make new friends, beleive you are interesting and invite someone you don't know very well for coffee. Join a belly dancing class or something just as wild and pretty soon you won't be doing things to 'get over' your heart break, but just cos you can.
Good luck
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babycute (f)
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dis is not a way to get over a heartbreak its just a little experience i had once, some time along time ago i was totally devastated wen i found out my ex was cheating on me,and to add salt to the injury, he left me for the other gal, i wanted to die, i was devastated.i was crushed.i couldnt think of anyoda thing.,he was my first boyfriend.tot i would nevewr be the same, guess wat, that same week,the much awiated semester exams timetable came out.we all tot they would post pone the exams men they didnt oh, sharpsharp i forgot totally about heartbreak, for a whole 3weeks.i dint even for once think about it.much less depress myself or cry, wen the exams were over it started again, men i just shoved it to one side, my point exactly wen you have something more serious at ahnd believe me heartbreak would be the last on your mind, i think sha.
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mobzy205 (f)
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date some u dont like or like most of time with that way u will bw able to mend your broken heart
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Outkast (f)
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bejout, basically, you get 3 or more of your best mates for the weekend, on friday you can spend the day eating ice-cream and cake until you fall sick,watch old movies that make you cry and make sure there are no guys around.Have some kind of spa treatment for all of you and just have a good time with them, saturday, party till you drop. That's what we did when my best mates b/f broke up with her(after we slashed his tires and wrote crude things on his screen)
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Outkast (f)
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this is initially. but time heals all wounds. Just make sure you distract yourself with different activities, make sure your not home wallowing in self-pity
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Rhodalyn (f)
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i've no idea i've neva had ma heart broken but i guess time will heal da wound as outcast said
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julietnice (f)
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i pray i should not come across ,heartbreak of a thing sha.there is no fast way in getting over heart break that is the truth of matter ,if u like go out 4 chopping with your friends or spend the weekend with your friends
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reniks (f)
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There are no hard an fast rules about these things.What i will do is think very hard about wat really happened,cry as much as i have 2,do something impulsive like eating chocolates,taking ice cream or go shoppin,if i av d money.Hang out with friends,engage in things dt wil make me happy.Its not d end of d world n am not gonna have a pity party.Infact i'd want 2 av him c me lookin damn good n happy.
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4 Play (m)
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The best way for a woman to get over a man is to get under another man
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dominobaby (f)
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Lol@ 4 play: 'get under a man!'
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lunafish (f)
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Cleanse that person from your life and your system. Get rid of objects that has negative emotional ties attached to them. Erase their number, email and other forms of communication (so you don't backslide and set yourself up for heartbreak that's 10 times worse) Be alone for a while so that you can regroup and remember who you are-not who you are in relation to that person. Take the lessons you've learned about relationships to become wiser, not harder or cruel. Try to refrain from making the same mistakes (i.e. dating an a*s hole) Remember that you ame into this world solo and will leave as such so life is not about giving 100% to someone else or making them your everything. Rembebr that's you're fabulous and uoi will find what you want in a relationship one day. Thank God that you're not will with someone who caused you so much pain.
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PLAY-BOY (m)
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No amount of cry will solve the problem. U should try the things that will make u happy,like partying/clubbing etc but dont smoke or got drunk Mix up with friends and colleagues Since its a thing of mind/heart try 2 force urself 2 sleep or if possible dose off Travel for a vacation and meet new people Tell some people u trusted about your problem
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gem87 (f)
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the basics: don't blame yourself - cuz really it's not you, it's their loss don't dwell on it, everything happens for a reason - they were not meant for u anyway don't go into drinkin or eating to get over it, stay strong and believe in yourself it may help to start seeing other people but make it clear it's temporary so it won't mean u're using them, better if it's just a single date thing don't give up on luv or you will be giving the dumper the upper hand still keep your friends around and have as much fun as possible get on with your life the best is yet to come!
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Oracle (m)
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to get over heartbreak you have to simply mend the broken heart
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sweetnini (f)
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there is no fastest way for getting over a heartbreak
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sweetnini (f)
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u spoilt spoilt boy i'll tell on u well to think of it his kinda right u know porns will cool u down,also weed, tequila,coke(not soft drink coke oooo),going out and looking for someone to have sex with,, and so on or do u want me to continue?
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eveseh (f)
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listend to music
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Big Shishi (m)
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sweetnini, i'm heartbroken, can i try my remedy on u?
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eslynera (f)
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i think forgettin a heartbreak isn't that easy, it'll just destroy you mentally & physically, especially for a person who can't forget things easily (like me.) it'll be hard to get over it, maybe doin funs stuffs'll help but there are times you'll remember about the thing and it'll keep tearing you apart. I'ts kinda hard u know??
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sweetnini (f)
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sweetnini, i'm heartbroken, can i try my remedy on u?
well, if u want to
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Kadeejah (f)
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eat chocolate. . .get drunk nd do sumfin reckless  jk i duunno 
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kemu_lala (f)
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For every door that closes seven will open  ( i bed don´t get me wrong, it doesn´t necessarily means that sen guys will ask you out) Maybe this relationship didn´t work but that gives an opportunity to grow, yes is painful (some times extremely painful) but as time goes by you will be able to see the positive things that came out of it. Remember that love is not equal to pain , love is something that adds to the happiness that you already have within you, never give the right to anybody to take away something that is yours and will always be yours.that´s:a happy heart, sound spirit and every good thing that comes from you. So dust off look at yourself in the mirror and say. I choose to be happy!!!!!!!!!! and take it from there
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