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enchantra (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #32 on: January 05, 2006, 02:49 AM »

There is not fast way in getting over heartbreak!!!!!! JUST GIVE IT TIME
fancidiva (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #33 on: January 05, 2006, 03:37 AM »


have never experienced it sha!!! Roll Eyes........ but i think junk foods and movies will do Wink........... or just go out and get yourself another fine dude.... Cool Grin Grin Grin Grin
fancidiva (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #34 on: January 05, 2006, 03:45 AM »

   but on a serious note... i think there's a lot of fishes in the sea so just grab yourself another dude..... and this time around make sure he got  the real thing.from the body, the looks and so on.......... Cool Cool Cool
disney (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #35 on: January 05, 2006, 04:36 AM »

the fastest way to get over a heart break is to work full time no shaking...especially with clients, customers.. . that way u go fassie the guy fast fast.lol Grin
Oracle (m)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #36 on: January 05, 2006, 04:45 AM »

Quote from: disney on January 05, 2006, 04:36 AM
the fastest way to get over a heart break is to work full time no shaking...especially with clients, customers.. . that way u go fassie the guy fast fast.Cheesy Grin
i somhow agree with disney
but itz not easy anyway u'll still remember it
no matter what happened, but with time u'll get ova it
ABIMBOLA77 (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #37 on: January 30, 2006, 08:31 PM »

eat
florino37
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #38 on: January 31, 2006, 11:35 AM »

i dont think there is anything like 'fastest way out' in this matter.  just cry, that can help

florino37
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #39 on: January 31, 2006, 11:36 AM »

i dont think there is anything like 'fastest way out' in this matter.  just cry, that can help

vichel (m)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #40 on: February 07, 2006, 07:51 PM »

The fastest way Huh, probably there is none, but worst way to get over a heartbreak is not to cry. Have urselve a very good cry, then wipe your eyes dry, u would fell much better
Raedella
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #41 on: February 12, 2006, 01:53 AM »

It's been 3 months since my boyfriend of 5 1/2 years broke up with me. It shook my world down to it's deepest foundations, because I believed he was truly 'the one' and all the other cliche's. I don't know how i'm doing in terms of getting out of it quickly, anything that touches your soul and is truly beautiful can't be gotten over in a matter of days. But I am getting better.
There are many pathways i guess to getting over someone.
The first thing is to surround yourself with people that care in whatever way you can. Family and friends have been so important to me. I've tried to spread myself around a bit because i didn't want to overburden anyone, but at the end of the day they don't mind me calling whenever. I got a doggie as well, and looking after something else has been a huge help. The other thing  thats good is retail therapy..... but even if you don't have any money you have to be kind to yourself. Go for a walk on the beach, remember who YOU really are because however much you try and stop it from happening you do loe yourself a little in relationships. You become and US instead of an Me, and now is the time when it's perfectly ok to think about "Me me me" but only for a while. Just remember that you are an incredibly unique and wonderful person who needs time to heal. It's ok to cry for a while, eventually you won't want to anymore, and it won't be the first thing you think of when you get up in the morning, or the last thing before you go to bed. It might seem really superficial but the betteri look on the outside the better i feel on the inside..... but i'm only doing it for me, it gives my self esteem a boost and leaves me feeling good inside. I changed my hair colour, got contacts and although not intentionaaly lost a heap of weight. I can't really take credit for that though, it's just when i'm stressed i don't eat, and i have to take my new pet for long walks, so the upshot is weight loss. The fact is you will be ok.....maybe not great for a while, but you will get there. I still cry a few times a week, but they don't last anywhere as near as long as they used to. Finally, use your heartbreak to make you braver. Like Robbie says, 'When a heart is broken there's nothing to break', so make new friends, beleive you are interesting and invite someone you don't know very well for coffee. Join a belly dancing class or something just as wild and pretty soon you won't be doing things to 'get over' your heart break, but just cos you can.

Good luck
babycute (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #42 on: February 14, 2006, 08:47 PM »

dis is not a way to get over a heartbreak its just a little experience i had once, some time along time ago i was totally devastated wen i found out my ex was cheating on me,and to add salt to the injury, he left me for the other gal, i wanted to die, i was devastated.i was crushed.i couldnt think of anyoda thing.,he was my first boyfriend.tot i would nevewr be the same, guess wat, that same week,the much awiated semester exams timetable came out.we all tot they would post pone the exams men they didnt oh, sharpsharp i forgot totally about heartbreak, for a whole 3weeks.i dint even for once think about it.much less depress myself or cry, wen the exams were over it started again, men i just shoved it to one side, my point exactly wen you have something more serious at ahnd believe me heartbreak would be the last on your mind, i think sha.
mobzy205 (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #43 on: February 15, 2006, 05:57 PM »

date some u dont like or like most of time with that way u will bw able to mend your broken heart
Outkast (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #44 on: February 15, 2006, 06:37 PM »

bejout,
basically, you get 3 or more of your best mates for the weekend, on friday  you can spend the day eating ice-cream and cake until you fall sick,watch old movies that make you cry and make sure there are no guys around.Have some kind of spa treatment for all of you and just have a good time with them, saturday, party till you drop.
That's what we did when my best mates b/f broke up with her(after we slashed his tires and wrote crude things on his screen)
Outkast (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #45 on: February 15, 2006, 06:38 PM »

this is initially. but time heals all wounds.
Just make sure you distract yourself with different activities, make sure your not home wallowing in self-pity
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #46 on: February 20, 2006, 05:31 PM »

i've no idea i've neva had ma heart broken
but i guess time will heal da wound as outcast said
julietnice (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #47 on: February 26, 2006, 08:45 PM »

i pray i should not come across ,heartbreak of a thing sha.there is no fast way  in getting over heart break that is the truth of matter ,if u like go out 4 chopping  with your friends or spend the weekend with your friends
reniks (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #48 on: February 28, 2006, 06:43 PM »

There are no hard an fast rules about these things.What i will do is think very hard about wat really happened,cry as much as i have 2,do something impulsive like eating chocolates,taking ice cream or go shoppin,if i av d money.Hang out with friends,engage in things dt wil make me happy.Its not d end of d world n am not gonna have a pity party.Infact i'd want 2 av him c me lookin damn good n happy.
4 Play (m)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #49 on: May 09, 2006, 08:10 PM »

The best way for a woman to get over a man is to get under another man
dominobaby (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #50 on: May 10, 2006, 08:26 AM »

Lol@ 4 play: 'get under a man!'
lunafish (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #51 on: May 10, 2006, 12:25 PM »

Cleanse that person from your life and your system.
Get rid of objects that has negative emotional ties attached to them.
Erase their number, email and other forms of communication (so you don't backslide and set yourself up for heartbreak that's 10 times worse)
Be alone for a while so that you can regroup and remember who you are-not who you are in relation to that person.
Take the lessons you've learned about relationships to become wiser, not harder or cruel.
Try to refrain from making the same mistakes (i.e. dating an a*s hole)
Remember that you ame into this world solo and will leave as such so life is not about giving 100% to someone else or making them your everything.
Rembebr that's you're fabulous and uoi will find what you want in a relationship one day.
Thank God that you're not will with someone who caused you so much pain.
PLAY-BOY (m)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #52 on: May 15, 2006, 04:51 PM »

No amount of cry will solve the problem.
U should try the things that will make u happy,like partying/clubbing etc but dont smoke or got drunk
Mix up with friends and colleagues
Since its a thing of mind/heart try 2 force urself 2 sleep or if possible dose off
Travel for a vacation and meet new people
Tell some people u trusted about your problem
gem87 (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #53 on: May 28, 2006, 11:22 PM »

the basics:
don't blame yourself - cuz really it's not you, it's their loss
don't dwell on it, everything happens for a reason - they were not meant for u anyway
don't go into drinkin or eating to get over it,
stay strong and believe in yourself
it may help to start seeing other people but make it clear it's temporary so it won't mean u're using them, better if it's just a single date thing
don't give up on luv or you will be giving the dumper the upper hand
still keep your friends around and have as much fun as possible
get on with your life the best is yet to come!
Oracle (m)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #54 on: May 28, 2006, 11:53 PM »

to get over heartbreak you have to simply mend the broken heart
sweetnini (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #55 on: June 13, 2006, 05:30 PM »

there is no fastest way for getting over a heartbreak
Big Shishi (m)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #56 on: June 13, 2006, 05:43 PM »

drink guiness, watch pornos, l Grin Grin Grin Grin
sweetnini (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #57 on: June 13, 2006, 06:03 PM »

u spoilt spoilt boy i'll tell on u
well to think of it his kinda right u know
porns will cool u down,also weed, tequila,coke(not soft drink coke oooo),going out and looking for someone to have sex with,, and so on
or do u want me to continue?
eveseh (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #58 on: June 13, 2006, 07:27 PM »

listend to music
Big Shishi (m)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #59 on: June 13, 2006, 08:51 PM »

sweetnini, i'm heartbroken, can i try my remedy on u?
eslynera (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #60 on: June 13, 2006, 09:13 PM »

i think forgettin a heartbreak isn't that easy,
it'll just destroy you mentally & physically,  especially for a person who can't forget things easily (like me.)
it'll be hard to get over it, maybe doin funs stuffs'll help but there are times you'll remember about the thing and it'll keep tearing you apart. I'ts kinda hard u know??
sweetnini (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #61 on: June 13, 2006, 10:03 PM »

 
Quote from: CRAYOLA on June 13, 2006, 08:51 PM
sweetnini, i'm heartbroken, can i try my remedy on u?
well, if u want to
Kadeejah (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #62 on: June 20, 2006, 04:36 AM »

eat chocolate. . .get drunk nd do sumfin reckless Wink
jk i duunno Undecided
kemu_lala (f)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak?
« #63 on: July 07, 2006, 07:21 AM »

For every door that closes seven will open Shocked ( i bed don´t get me wrong, it doesn´t necessarily means that sen guys will ask you out)
Maybe this relationship didn´t work but that gives an opportunity to grow, yes is painful (some times extremely painful) but as time goes by you will be able to see the positive things that came out of it.
Remember that love is not equal to pain , love is something that adds to the happiness that you already have within you, never give the right to anybody to take away something that is yours and will always be yours.that´s:a happy heart, sound spirit and every good thing that comes from you.
So dust off look at yourself in the mirror and say. I choose to be happy!!!!!!!!!! and take it from there
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