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Cleofel (f)
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I don't think there is a way to get over heartbreak.
My friend who is a psycologist told me to express my feelings or speak what is on my mind anytime i look into the mirror and eat a lot of chocolate.It almost worked for sometime but i couldn't overcome it because it is not soo easy to do that.
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gem87 (f)
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hmm, like adding weight would help
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hotstuff (f)
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omo get some good music to ur head,av fun n go 4 shopin.that way u wil get over the heart break
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lovestinks (f)
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the heartbreak i got over the fastest was
step 1.i told him things were not going well.that we should call it quits.got out of his car.walked home, reason.i broke up with him first.because i found out he was cheating on me with a pal.
step 2:i took valium not to die oh(never).to sleep.woke up ,took another.did this 4 2 days.
step 3:acknowledge that it hurt,really hurt.listened to some old love songs(new once are crap)ie winner takes it all by alba,jollen by dolly parton,must ve being love,same scene different cast by withney houston etc.
step 4:deleted his number,tore all his pic,wrote a letter to my self.saying why am better of with out him
step 5:had loads of ice cream,red wine .ran the whole thing in my mind.what went wrong and all so as not to make the same mistake twice.greatest lesson learnt friends and boyfriend don't mix.believe me they don't
step 6:had a make over.went shoping and pampered myself.u know the works,new undies,manicure,etc
step 7:called up an old admirer,dressed to kill ,went to the movies,hads loads to drink,flirted alot.
result :was as good as new. started dating the old admirer,had the ex begging and sending his friends and family to beg,
Realisation :he was never worth it .he didnt deserve me
Advice to girls.always acknowledge the hurt its ok to cry and please ladies please don't sell your self short.
ps, this worked for me because am a realist, i call it as it is.
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mubowa (f)
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to have another spouse is the wrong answer, try to get your self involve in activity, make your self think the relationship is a fairy tale and the guy doesn't exist. think and picture a great tomorrow for your self. imagine the cuties guy in your neighbour hood asking you out. one thing i know is that if a man breaks my heart, i will do every thing in my power to make him know that he is a quiter and a loser. for example when my friend and her boy friend broke up, we went for a big shopping that we nearly enter into dept. my friend dress differently and looks fantastically beautiful. when his boy friend saw what he never see in her before, he came back and said i think you are the best thing that ever happen to him. when he finish talking, my friend told him she just realize that she doesn't have a life when she was dating him but now she have learn not to roll with losers. my friend came home and felt so good because she just kick an ass. we return the cloths and get our refund back dou
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mo money (m)
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i believe that crying is just the first step. when u cry, u are letting off some steam. after crying, come to your senses and decide what to do. crying is the first step  , it will ease you alot and after that you just try to get busy with friends or any thing  . |
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chukymoney (m)
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don't tell me u do all those things metioned,too bad, jaybaby
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kennygee (f)
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just stay away from his friends so they don't start asking you questions,stay away from places that you will see him.
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abbey02 (f)
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try not to be alone,move with friends go out with them and catch so many fun
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cheavroi (m)
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hey the fastest way to get over an heartbreak is to do either of these three things
1.get yourself into another relationship fast
2.get born again and go to church more
3.make up your mind not to date another man ever in your life
Of the three i recommend none
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phoenixman
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do stuff that will wean your mind from the misery. In a short while you will bounce back.  |
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gem87 (f)
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find another passion in life
u dnt need anyone to define u
exercise more, read more, just something different to distract n heal u
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phoenixman
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but if you find that you have healed and you are back to you chirpy troublesome self let them all know that talking is just FUN  |
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gem87 (f)
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i'm not quite sure i get that
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phoenixman
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then the message was not for you  |
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gem87 (f)
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wht mks u anyone else would, n if no1 does den who d f^*k was it 4?  |
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chistiana (f)
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Do we really get over heart breaks or we just over look them and go on with life.
to other people it kind of easy, but to me life is not always the same,show some one u love him, giving him ur money, ur love, ur heart, ur soul and ur body and he dump me. all other guys most also taste out of it.
at times i do wish i could kill my self, but i always say this to my self, billions of men will surely walk accross my grave yard and spite on me.
breaking heart can never me heal,unless God want to heal it with an angel.
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-Destiny- (f)
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With time a broken heart does heal and you learn a lot along the way which makes u much stronger and prepared for whatever comes next, (SPEAKIN FROM EXPERIENCE!!)
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beck_c
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hello, i was searching at google for sites with "overcoming a heart break" subjects, and I'm lucky that this forum is on top of the list, i have read from the subject through the latest reply and i find it very helpful, me and my ex boyfriend have been separated for 3 years and still, i find it very hard to not expect that we will be reunited someday, to the point that i told myself that he's going to be the last guy I'm going to be with, from the time that we broke up until now, he still tries to contact me and want to be close to be inspite of my request for space, and i really am having my heart bruised, i don't know where to go from here, |
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Sweet T (m)
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The fastest way to forget about him is to start dating his best friend ! |
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nana (f)
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Lovestinks and cheavroi,i agree with u both,
Same thing worked out for me, Also,i deleted the guy's number from my phone,told him to forget about me,threw things that actually belonged to him away and luckily for me,one of my admirers showed up when i least expected, and bam!
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Omo Eko (f)
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Smoke some trees and get high  then drink some grey goose. U going to feel better that u breaken heart will be recovered back. |
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spoilt (f)
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fall in love again. its just like the way to get over a hangover is to have another drink! |
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Omo Eko (f)
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fall in love again.
How can she fall in love again, if she isn't over the first love, that makes no type of sense |
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spoilt (f)
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it has been known to happen that when you find someone else , you'll wonder what you ever saw in the first one. that's love for you! complicated!
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kolapo-t (m)
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The fastest way is to zero your mind about the past
and always think of a way forward in life,i believe
nothing happens by chance in life and so life has to
go- on.Always think of how to be successful because success
have many relatives while failure has none,so instead of
thinking of over an heartbreak,always think of success.
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