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ThoniaSlim (f)
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what stupid law, >:(for me i think a girl should see herself as a gem,and should ensure a guy goes through due process.as for me i don't think i can sleep with my fiance before i am fully married [traditional and blessing of marriage in church]to him.
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mukina2 (f)
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no
in most cases when you get pregnant for em fiance's
they end up leaving you before he wedding or they 'll leave you at the alter
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Memunah (f)
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I don't see the need to get pregnant before marriage because i don't also believe in pre marital sex.since you call someone your Fiance,and plan to get married why the haste to get pregnant when you will definitely marry him and get pregnant.So its not a Must a Woman must get Pregnant before marriage,Though we ve got different views on the topic but for me. I don't LIKE THE IDEA
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diyobdw (f)
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I'm indifferent
but for real if i got my guy demanding for it i wont because am not getting married just to have kid.
Marriage is more than that!
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MP007 (m)
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it is not right , the bible is against it , its a sigm of fear to get pregnant before marriage, some see it as a way of "testing the waters"
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crazykid (m)
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Well it all depends.
Most pregnancies that come outside marriage come as a result of carelessness on the part of the two parties; so when this happens, you and your partner are to sit down and take full responsibilities of your actions.
But if am to advise a single girl on this issue, I’d say wait till you get married; it’s much better that way.
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thomas y (m)
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most people dnt even no when they get into it,well,if u do know that u r not really to care for a child,u better play it safe,or dnt play at all,because no goin back when it happens,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,den u have to
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crazykid (m)
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That’s why you have a woman has to b very careful when she gets into a relationship
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Ma`bullet
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This is a very bad idea,ve heard alot about it in the past but l believe something like this occurs among parents that are so backward,not enlightened.In this modern day,every enlightened parents wish is to marry and give away in marriage without pregnancy, but mistakes do happen in some cases and that is not really understandable, I am 100% against such rules that no pregnancy ,no marriage,
God forbid badthing, its all just an excuse to be promiscuos.To me its a very bad idea.Good ridiance to bad rubbish.
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BABEELOVE (f)
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@Topic Yes!!!! It is alright to get knocked up before your wedding----the only sure way to know that the "parts" are working!!!!  |
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laudate
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@Topic Yes!!!! It is alright to get knocked up before your wedding----the only sure way to know that the "parts" are working!!!! Am sure you had a bun in the oven, when you tied the knot!  Na wa for you o! |
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BABEELOVE (f)
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Why am I not suprised, eh? Am sure you had a bun in the oven, when you tied the knot! Na wa for you o! Siddon for thia! I don drop 3 before I tie the knot sef! He he he he he he!!!  Somethings cannot wait you know. How do you think I ever got a marriage proposal! Slow guy!!!!!!!!!! |
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squirrel20 (f)
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i don't think it is ideal to get pregnant before marriage as premarital sex is a sin
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sammyzacks (m)
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yes. premarital sex is sin. but let him that has no sin cast the first stone.
it should not be that one gets pregnant before wedding. but what if it happens? the solution is never try abortion. accept full responsibility and get married.
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LadyT (f)
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No way in hell am I going to be a fat pregnant bride.
Its a stupid new fashion trend I can't tell you the number of weddings I have been too involving Nigerians and the wife to be looks like shes going to give birth any second.
Theres no need for it. When did it become tradition anyway?
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ella luchi
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The ideal norm is that a woman ought not be pregnant before marriage but truly speaking after my traditional marriage,,,i got pregnant and it would have been incurably bad if we had aborted d pregnancy just because it would be wrong 2 be pregnant before wedding.
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boywest (m)
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YES!. na naija we dey. it is important for d womand to be sure that the man fit give am belle o 
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JoyceAgim (f)
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nah i dnt think its rite.but if it happens,they both have to bear the full responsibility together.bt i think its absolutely wrong putting ur girl/fiancee in the family way before wed lock.
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iz2much (m)
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Better U get Pregnant before marriage to avoid Childlessness
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