What Is The Best Way To Dump Someone?

i can dump a guy by giving unecessary excuses, if he says he is coming i will say i will not be in the house,even if he meets me in i will say i was going somewhere before he comes, i will do like this serverally until he will get  tired and leaves

umm, im trying to dump someone and i really dont know hwo to do it nicely, and weve been friends for like 3 years and going for for 5 months, please help!

lol. ,  eldee, i like number 3 

Eah time I hear the word dump I feel sad and worried but at least it proves the saying that the heart of man is desperately wicked. Human beings are too selfish and we don't think about how other people feel. Everyone is saying how to dump but nobody wants to be dumped. No matter how good you dump someone, it does not make it good unless the two people involved  are both fed up with the relationship. Please lets have a heart and treat people the way we want to be treated. Its not a problem though if u r dumping a cheat or someone that have done something very bad and not just waking up to say u don't want the person anymore for no reason other than you have found somebody else.

True, I think I have been dumped.  There was daily calls/texts/IMs in tne beginning and then things changed.  I asked so many times if we should just cool things but I was constantly reassured.  Now it has been over 4 weeks since contact.  He avoided my calls so I eventually stopped making the effort.  Our last conversation was upbeat and we even talked about marriage! So, needless to say it is a hurtful way to go about things and I am devastated.  Believe me, it is better to be up front and honest.  Any other way (especially because I think this is a guy thing although I do recognise some girls do it) is in my view cowardly.

Not really. . . . . . .No woman under the sun will be remotely close to deal with the likes of me. . .
I repeat!! no woman. . . .
If i was Adam. . .the world would not have been like this. . . trust me 

OK guys, I've got a tricky one. I really care about this girl so I'm not gunna dump her so close to her b-day so we have some time!

Officially we have been going out since Christmas but there was some connection before then. This girl is is completely selfless but this sometimes she hurts herself by putting others first. she has other emotional problems that I won't go into but I spend allot of my time counseling her and trying to get her to talk about them because she blankly refuses help. anyway, she has connections with all my friends, and i know her parents and she knows mine reasonably well and as I said I really care about her but I just don't really love her any more but she needs someone to open up to as she finds it hard, and I don't mind being that person but I don't want to remain in a self destructive relationship in which I feel no love. this is a very delicate situation and if anyone has seen this kinda thing before or experienced it much help appreciated. I have no problem telling her face-to-face but I need some words!

  , Very, very funny,


@topic
Change your locks, your numbers and all other contacts, That ought to do it, 

just tell the person

@ Topic.

I will simply tell her am done with her and I think she deserves someone better than me. . . .I will try so hard to make her feel that the problem is from me and that she's cool.

hahahaha

just start a fight with something you know its their weakness and pretend to be hurt and opt out

                                                or 
tell him/her you got traditional issue that will hound anyone you fall in love with and you pretend you dont wanna let them fall victim and laugh when you are on your own   

James Bassey, instead of saying I need a break, he did all of the following to me :

He raped me
He sent (sexually explicit text messages I sent to him) to my mom and her co-workers
He beat me
He cheated on me
He stole from me
He lied
He hang up on me
He talked about me and attempted to disgrace me
He would call me while fucking his new girlfriend.


What I will do to him ? Only time will tell.

When you break up with a HUMAN BEING, BE NICE,  What FATHERS do to women, Sons will do it to your daughters and the cycle of evil continues.

I plan to destroy James Bassey. I now carry a gun.

oh dear posakosa, honestly like me i would have wished 2 do sumthin evil 2 him too, to pay back but i got sum advices here and my mind has changed. i think it is wise 2 do the same for your sanity. not for him, but for u.



@post, best way is to be real and straight forward instead of leading one on and punishing d person. say it, i don't want u anymore or i'm not feeling you again or something.