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pahtahkee
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I hate that word dump in a relationship. Where you just using yourselves in the first place?  |
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dellynash (f)
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i can dump a guy by giving unecessary excuses, if he says he is coming i will say i will not be in the house,even if he meets me in i will say i was going somewhere before he comes, i will do like this serverally until he will get tired and leaves
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josiekims (m)
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I quiet agree with you uche, you don't just wake up one morning and walk up to a lady as a man to tell her you are quiting the relationship, what I'LL SUGGEST YOU do, It's really very easy for the guys to dump than the ladies, now what you should do is: 1. Stop Calling her like you use to  2. Don't return her calls 3. Refuse to see her often as usual  4. Go out more with other Ladies, in other words, Flirt more  5. Don't reply her text messages 6. And then she will ask, "Why have you not been calling me" then your anwer will be " I've been busy lately" Now many guys will like to include "too busy", NO DON"T, putting too busy will keep her on the track, too busy is the work. |
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taylor :P
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umm, im trying to dump someone and i really don't know hwo to do it nicely, and weve been friends for like 3 years and going for for 5 months, please help!
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eldee (m)
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There are three good ways
1) It's not you, it's me
Already overused, you could get cold revenge.
2)It's not me, it's you
Never tried this, but if it works just buzz me on Y!M, errthat's if your pc is still in one piece.
3)It's not us, its the society
This one is foolproof, blame everyone; the government, the white man, even your dead grandmother. . .
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tommyex (m)
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Put her/him in a basket
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babygirlfl
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Eah time I hear the word dump I feel sad and worried but at least it proves the saying that the heart of man is desperately wicked. Human beings are too selfish and we don't think about how other people feel. Everyone is saying how to dump but nobody wants to be dumped. No matter how good you dump someone, it does not make it good unless the two people involved are both fed up with the relationship. Please lets have a heart and treat people the way we want to be treated. Its not a problem though if you're dumping a cheat or someone that have done something very bad and not just waking up to say u don't want the person anymore for no reason other than you have found somebody else.
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morenike09 (f)
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Eah time I hear the word dump I feel sad and worried but at least it proves the saying that the heart of man is desperately wicked. Human beings are too selfish and we don't think about how other people feel. Everyone is saying how to dump but nobody wants to be dumped. No matter how good you dump someone, it does not make it good unless the two people involved are both fed up with the relationship. Please lets have a heart and treat people the way we want to be treated. Its not a problem though if you're dumping a cheat or someone that have done something very bad and not just waking up to say u don't want the person anymore for no reason other than you have found somebody else.
true talk . . .esp the bolded one |
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missphil (f)
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True, I think I have been dumped. There was daily calls/texts/IMs in tne beginning and then things changed. I asked so many times if we should just cool things but I was constantly reassured. Now it has been over 4 weeks since contact. He avoided my calls so I eventually stopped making the effort. Our last conversation was upbeat and we even talked about marriage!  So, needless to say it is a hurtful way to go about things and I am devastated. Believe me, it is better to be up front and honest. Any other way (especially because I think this is a guy thing although I do recognise some girls do it) is in my view cowardly. |
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The Sly
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the heart of woman is desperately wicked So true. . . . . Topicbrb. . . |
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stillwater (f)
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Someone has really dealt with this Sly, always blaming the woman.
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morenike09 (f)
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Someone has really dealt with this Sly, always blaming the woman.
abi o |
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The Sly
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Someone has really dealt with this Sly, always blaming the woman. Not really. . . . . . .No woman under the sun will be remotely close to deal with the likes of me. . . I repeat!! no woman. . . . If i was Adamthe world would not have been like this. . . trust me  |
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EccentricJ (m)
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It's not me, it's you. You just don't fit with me. . . we had some laughs, at least I did. Remember that time you tried to be all romantic with the candles and shit? I've never seen anything so forced in my life. I just don't see myself with you. No Hard feelings, hun? Please don't call me, you need time to heal.
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Oileunagpe (m)
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OK guys, I've got a tricky one. I really care about this girl so I'm not gunna dump her so close to her b-day so we have some time!
Officially we have been going out since Christmas but there was some connection before then. This girl is is completely selfless but this sometimes she hurts herself by putting others first. she has other emotional problems that I won't go into but I spend allot of my time counseling her and trying to get her to talk about them because she blankly refuses help. anyway, she has connections with all my friends, and i know her parents and she knows mine reasonably well and as I said I really care about her but I just don't really love her any more but she needs someone to open up to as she finds it hard, and I don't mind being that person but I don't want to remain in a self destructive relationship in which I feel no love. this is a very delicate situation and if anyone has seen this kind of thing before or experienced it much help appreciated. I have no problem telling her face-to-face but I need some words!
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amaikama (m)
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Simple!! my grate grand papa wey don die say make i no marry you  |
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~Antidote~ (f)
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Simple!! my grate grand papa wey don die say make i no marry you  , Very, very funny, @topic Change your locks, your numbers and all other contacts, That ought to do it, |
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whitelexi (m)
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Go out and get seriously high, then break it down with a smile on your face |
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